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Lets be real.

I never see handsome guy date a normal/ugly girl
As compared to beautiful girl date a normal/ugly guy. Even if there is, that would be 10% only

Before some people might come at me and say “and girl never date a poor guy”. I disagree because there is a lot of woman out there still date a normal guy, in a sense that, you dont have to be rich, rich. As long as sufficient enough for you to live a comfortable life and not the luxury life

I’ve see some guys who just ignore their girlfriend when they’re crying… I understand some girls use crying as a “tactic” to get what they want so that might warrant an indifference reaction from the boyfriend but I’m specifically asking about the instances where the boyfriend is the one causing their girl to cry (e. g. after yelling at them, cheating on them, or doing anything that might’ve hurt their girlfriend which resulted in her crying). I’m also aware that some people get flustered, confused and lost on what to do when they see a person crying but in my personal experience, I rarely ever see a guy comforting their girlfriend when she’s crying…

During research for my earlier ice-cream questions I came across one parlour that's combined candyfloss (cotton candy) with an ice-cream cone. To my discerning eye it just looks wrong, something to delight tourist savages rather than ice-cream connoisseurs like myself.

Thoughts

https://youtu.be/wUrnJfLKtqY?si=cOWnPwxW4AGtUghT

It seems that South Asians do so but my perspective is different.
Ours is the only country with a dark-skinned goddess Kali who is known as the destroyer of evil.
Moreover, there are many popular actresses like Bipasha Basu, Priyanka Chopra, Chitrangada Singh, Rimi Sen and so on with a skin tone that would be called "muddy" by people from other cultures. Therefore, despite centuries of colonisation and subjugation of the Indian culture, people still like darker women. There is a growing movement to accept brown skin, especially in urban areas.

For example you go to a Justin Timberlake concert & someone is wearing a Backstreet Boys shirt

It's the ice-cream finals. We've had four rounds, some familiar flavours and a few not so familiar, giving a total of 24 different ice-creams.

The finalists are

CHERRY BAKEWELL. Surprised at this one. A cherry bakewell is a sweet Frangipane tart with jam and icing topped with a cherry. I didn't expect an almond based ice-cream to do well.

COFFEE CRUNCH. Are you lot mad? No one likes coffee ice-cream. Guess it must be an American thing.

CREME BRULEE. Creme brulee is just custard, ice cream is frozen custard. Guess you lot don't like exciting.

STICKY TOFFEE PUDDING. Classic English pudding of date sponge topped with toffee sauce.

Really surprised Rhubarb and custard didn't do better, and zero votes for aniseed flavoured jacker.

So who's the winner of the finals.

So my boyfriend and I would text/send voice memos to each other and he says he cares about what I have to say and whats going on in my day/ life even if not much is going on. I've noticed is that he doesn't remember/ pay attention to things going on about my day or what I tell him. Sometimes I'm at the point where i don't want to talk much about my day or what's going on in my life because all he talks about his day and what's been going on at work etc. He does sometimes remember and pay attention but i find there's a lot of times where he doesn't pay attention to what i say. I am very patient and understanding but sometimes I get in these moments where there's no point in saying anything because I know sometimes it will go over him and zone out.

So my boyfriend and i have been together for three years and he has been dropping hints that he might propose soon (looking at rings, being secretive, etc.) I'm wondering if I should get my nails done (gel or acrylics due to nail biting habits) or leave it as is?

background info: I (24yo F) started at my new job over a month ago. I’m new to the area in general and have 0 friends up here. It’s really hard to make friends in your 20’s I’ve found. I feel like I’m missing out on girlhood and I’m worried that I won’t have any friends to be bridesmaids/share big life goals with.

this girl started at my work a week ago and I’ve only said a few words to her. She seems sweet but very shy, however when I had a little scroll on social media, she seems the opposite, she loves to party and has a lot of girlfriends who she makes cute videos with. She seems really close with them and I would love to have friends of my own.

so the question is: would it be weird if I messaged her and asked her for coffee? What would I even say?

I personally feel emotional cheating is worse but sexual cheating is not any better… I think I might be able to forgive and move on from emotional cheating though depending on the circumstances of why it happened in the first place. What does everyone else think? Will you be able to forgive any form of cheating at all?

Only if you take them & prescribed by a doctor. What do you call them?

This is the last round of ice-cream questions. This time it's Mario's ice cream. In a few days we'll have the finals and put the most popular ice cream from each round head to head with each other.
I'm surprised with the results so far but more on that later.