Polls

My boyfriend and I have explained to my mom several times now that I need a much better job (outside of the house that pays hourly) in order for us to move in together later on…. my boyfriend and I are in a committed relationship for over 2 years now. My boyfriend also thinks that my mom doesn’t help me out enough or pay much attention to me and why isn’t she helping me find work….

My mom gets very mad and annoyed anytime we bring the subject up to her and in private she tells me negative things ( I’m gonna get tired out, etc..) and then says why don’t I continue working from home… My mom also thinks my boyfriend is going to make me lose my “disability” benefits that I get due to the fact that I hve severe anxiety and depression and learning disability - if I end up getting a job outside the house….

is she jealous of my relationship? Or is she fearful of me moving out?

ps - everyone loves my boyfriend and he has many friends and is well liked at his job as well

You're apparently in a good relationship but suddenly you've realized there are major incompatibilities. Just love alone isn't enough. Which would be worse:

- Poor communication: You were both in the "falling in love" stage that you failed to see if they share your similar goals and values. Neither of you communicated what you wanted out of the relationship. You've just realized you share nothing in common, have arguments and there is too much drama.

- Getting lied to: You were honest about what you wanted out of the relationship, your goals, values, etc. They pretended to assimilate to your ways and lied so they wouldn't lose you. However, there comes a point they can't keep up with the lie and the truth eventually comes out. You're rightfully upset they pretended to be on your same page.

If you met someone and discovered they have herpes type 1 the type that are around the mouth. Would you still marry them and have kids with them?

I figured I'll give it a try as it's not a big deal, pay for a month or two but the only options seem to be 6/12/24 months with one being a total of 130/150/210. I was thinking it was more like a gym service. And the good things like the area criteria is locked behind premium 🙄, I don't care that the pics are blurred but just wanna look at those in my city 😅.

How much luck have people had on it?

Who would you rather date?

• Albert Einstein - Theoretical Physicist 👨‍🏫

(Most known for Theory of Relativity development).

OR

• Isaac Newton - English polymath (active as a mathematician, physicist, astronomer, alchemist, theologian, and author). ✍️

(Most known for invention of Calculus).

- (All images sourced from Google)

Who would you rather date?

• Katherine Johnson- NASA Mathematician

(Most known for calculations for first space flights and moon landing 🚀 🌖 ).

OR

• Rosalind Franklin- Biochemist

(Most known for the double helix DNA discovery 🧬 ).

(All images sourced from Google)

Which of them do you think behaves more childishly?

I just wanna see the result , so please vote.

Just curious to see what everyone prefers when it comes to swimwear style. What's your take?

I personally don’t know what’s worst. On one hand being blocked out of nowhere shows that they don’t want anything to do with you anymore (which hurts) but at least they’re clear about their intentions. With being left on seen or just ghosted tho… it hits different. It’s as if they don’t even care enough to block you but they’re still leaving the door to communication open even though it’s only one way. They’re leaving you with a glimmer of hope when they actually have zero intention of ever connecting with you ever again.

Do you like gardening and if so do you have a garden?

I like gardening, I find it very satisfying to see all the plants come up. Right now we've got potatoes, courgettes, chard, lettuce, sunflowers and other flowers growing. 🌻🌸🌾

If you had to lose a sense, which would you choose and still live a happy life?

The 6th sense is your intelligence and motor skills.

Why did you pick that sense out of the others?