Polls

If you had a partner, but you had feelings for a coworker who also has a partner, would you do anything to say goodbye to them if you left your job? Or would you just leave without making a fuss and never talk to them again?

If you would leave without making a fuss and never speak to them again, why?

I got rejected by a guy and we agreed to stay friends, i acted cool completepy agreeing with him about the rejection brushing it completely off. We still texted after as friends but i opened and didn't reply to his last message. I left him on seen for 3 days now. I am going to text him whats up buddy next. Is this a good tactic like, even tho he rejected me will he feel like i am the one friendzoning him?

I was listening to some random short where three guys I'd never heard before were singing a song, and I got chills, something that happens a lot with me. So I googled, and it's called "music frisson." It is the sudden rush of emotions that some people experience when listening to music that evokes emotion. The French word frisson means "shiver" or "aesthetic chills".

Researchers have figured out this phenomenon happens to about ~55% of the population and is linked the pleasurable centers of the brain responding to things like introduction to different textures in songs, a new voice in a song, solo instrument emerging from a softer orchestral background, etc.

A tall man with a good jawline who works out

A long legged slim, fit woman with big, round and firm breast and butt, wide round hips, small waist, abs, long and thick hair, big almond eyes, small nose, full lips

Which standards are too hard to meet?

Note: these are society's beauty standards. You might have a different taste.

I've been on a few dates with this guy and after he rejected me saying he didn't really find me that attractive. Then i asked why would you go on 3 dates with someone you don't feel attracted to. He said because he is kinda attracted and he liked my personality so much and we clicked instantly so good he just couldn't let me go but he feels like he has to. We agreed to stay friends and still talk sometimes but not all the time anymore. I didn't reply to his last message (a long one we had a conversation going) i will give him some space and ask him whats up a couple of days later. When he rejected me he said that somehow this feels like a breakup to him because likes me so much.

I can't figure out what he meant okay if he is not attracted he still wouldn't have gone on 3 dates and talk for 2 months flirting constantly because if men lose interest they dont have the energy to talk 0-24 after that. Maybe something happened to him I don't know i thought everything was great. Now that i'm ignoring him will this push him away even more? Is there a chance for him to regret his decision and miss me?

In nature, recessive traits like light eyes, red hair, blonde hair, fair skin etc. are less common because they're overshadowed by dominant traits.

I think making them dominant would reduce racism and people wouldn't worry about such traits becoming extinct. Besides, it's evident that most people love those characteristics even in places where they are common like Europe.
My grandmother had olive green eyes and I had reddish brunette hair as a child. I'm excited about the possibilities if it ever happens.
I have watched some documentaries , which increased my interest in this topic.
What do you think? Does it seem unethical?

Be honest

I find my guy attractive in his selfies but finds him unattractive in real life and on the photos taken by others. I somehow find him below average.

I admire normal middle class mannerisms but find him obnoxious. Also his dominant attitude pisses me off. Every single thing he says now irritates me.

Is this lack of physical interest or emotional?

It’s my 21 b day tomorrow and I have been literally talking about it for three months now, being one of those annoying people who count it down every day haha. Anyway today I got off work after working three doubles in a row absolutely wrecked but my boyfriend wanted us to go to the gym together. I initially said not but changed my mind last minute bc I knew I wanted to and I didn’t just want to lay around the rest of the day. Anyways we get to the gym and we beach off and do our own stuff, me occasionally checking on him ( 2 times) we go to refill our bottles and he randomly looks at me and says « you are the dullest person here right now » me because apparently me being super worn out but still trying to push through doing legs looked like I was being a drag even tho we weren’t even working out together 😐 being absolutely crushed I go sit in my car and cry while he finishes his workout. After we got home he first tried to defend himself but after I got out of the shower and he saw me crying lol he apologized. I really let it get to me tbh and let it kinda ruin my night. So while he was playing a game around 8 with his brother I texted him and said I wanted him to come lay down with me before it got too late so we could watch a movie and go wake me up if I was asleep because I was absolutely wrecked from work but still wanted to spend time with him and I also wanted him to stay up with me til 12 like a little kid I guess. Anyways he comes in around 10:30 and just lays in bed complaining how he is so tired from work and doesn’t say a single thing after that. I asked him if was upset and he replied « yeah I’m kinda annoyed you keep acting like "play with me talk with me" then tried to say he loved me and falls asleep. I guess I just wanted to know if this is even worth being upset about or I’m being a little (big now) kid hehe

Warm season is back, time to prepare for the beach... Which one do you like most?