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I have been having problems like mental hospital visits at random where I would have to stay at the hospital for like 7-14 days sometimes 30 days or even 2 years this is not a normal hospital it’s like a hospital with a fullsize bed and 3 meals served a day…!

they’d take away all your clothes and give you a scrub outfit and take away your cell phone and electronics items rarely can u keep it

fast forward now the visits have stoped but now they’ve started medication for a condition I don’t even think I have and so like there’s a monthly visit for a shot to the doctor and it seems unreasonable they said they’d like to continue treatment until the age of 70ish that’s like 12 shots a year times 40 years that’s like 480 shots

it just seems unreasonable at first phone just had my contact information but I accidentally gave them my mom’s information too , I have no idea how to convince her to ignore the doctor’s calls and to stop treatment

I feel harassed

I could always move out the treatment will stop but I’ll have to pay rent

what do I do

Right after or during Valentine's Day for us girls to get together and party! Married women are welcome and friends!

which one you like the most

And look away when you are caught?

Example:

He's a single man that never had a relationship nor date ever. He knows it's wrong, doesn't want to ruin a child's innocence, never acted on his urges, never downloaded anything and he even feels terrible to even fantasize about children (he hates himself), is he still a bad person?

He wouldn't be a child molester since he never acted on those urges. But he would be suffering from pedophilia. Is he still be a terrible person just for even seeing children as attractive, for even thinking about children?

I don't know if it's just me but from my experience I never really see Black girls wear shorts. Which seems kind of odd to me because I would actually expect they'd be even MORE likely to wear shorts than White girls, since their skin color provides them with more protection from the sun while many White girls would usually get a sunburn on their legs if they didn't wear sunscreen.

Not to mention they'd look great in shorts since White girls often "fight" to get tan legs, while Black girls have them naturally!

So I don't understand this...

boyfriend only offers to pay or get gifts on special occasions…. the rest of the time it’s 50/50……should he offer more? Or is he not obligated since we’re not yet married?

we are in a committed relationship and have met each others families…

also anytime he buys me a coffee he then says I can’t expect it every time…. is this rude or is it an honest comment?

My age is 24 but i was fat. I was never able to date because of it. I have lost 17 kg and i am 59 kg now. I think I still need to lose 5 or 6 kg to be cute. But on internet I keep hearing that women hit wall at 25 . I am gonna be 25 at July. so is it seriously over for me even after losing so much weight? Men my age are just gonna go for younger women?

I don't want to date old guys. Because I don't relate with them.

What is the point of losing weight if I am gonna die alone?

Maybe I would die virgin. I don't want to have sex unless it is in long term relationship. Because I personally don't think that I would enjoy.

So my long distance boyfriend doesn’t call me too often, he will occasionally but i would like if he did it more. When i ask him if he’d be down to call he says he has class early and wants to get some sleep, which i understand i would just like him to set a date and time to call me.

I’ve brought this up with him and he says he’s really not that into phone calls in general and i understand this as well but being in an ldr i would like it if he gave it a bit more importance because it’s important to me.

We text every single day and we have really long conversations they’re not dry at all but i would like it if we could have maybe a weekly phone call or something like that.

is his lack of enthusiasm to call him becoming uninterested in me or is it simply because he’s gotten more comfortable and doesn’t see it as a necessity?

I have been working at my current company for almost 2 and a half years now. I've recently developed a crush on a colleague, but we've always had a flirty relationship. However, due to our situations, it would be almost impossible to have a relationship together. He's always been lovely to me and the flirting included things like him doing silly things to get my attention, staring at me, prolonged/strong eye contact, going out of his way to help me, seeming jealous about other men, organising the gifts/cards for my 30th birthday etc etc. I've always felt fairly confident that he felt the same way.

HOWEVER, a few weekends ago, we met up on a night out. I had too much to drink and I ended up telling him that I really liked him as more than a friend. I asked him if he liked me back, to which he said "you're a lovely person". I kept asking him, being persistent with it - he kept repeating “you’re a lovely person” and I eventually said "just answer the question", to which he replied "yes, I do but we can't be together etc". I think we had a few quick kisses on the lips, not a proper kiss, but a peck.

The day after, I apologised to him for potentially putting him in an awkward position, to which he said "don't worry about it".

The next week at work, he apparently wasn't aware of what happened. I told him that I had kissed him and he looked shocked, saying "that's not ideal, I wouldn't have kissed you properly". For the rest of the week, he barely spoke to me and was hot and cold in his behaviour towards me.

He has gotten better but he doesn't flirt with me like he used to before all this happened. He has shown being jealous because he overheard me saying I was going on a date. I saw him look in my direction and when I told him to have a nice weekend, he abruptly said “bye”

Was there any truth in him telling me that he likes me? Does he still like me? If so, why is he being weird?

Is 176cm considered tall, short, average or slightly better than average?