Polls

I get the need to brag every once in a while, giving yourself a pat on the back when you’re good at something for example. Like all eyes were on me at this party, I killed it at this or that, I’m good at my job etc. But in my opinion it’s all about moderation, when you’re cocky & feel the need to always give yourself praise & then come across as condescending to others at times that’s when I have an issue. 29F & I’ve experienced this with men & women in my life. The women were self absorbed & the men were conceited & I chose to distance myself from all of them. Maybe I’m overly an avoidant attachment style but my mom for example would suggest I keep these people in my life just don’t expect much from them or to just keep them at arms length. At the same time, I’m not in the mood to be around people that bring me down or are so full of themselves, how is this not draining to people? Again self praise is definitely called for but when you’re bragging or coming across like you’re better than everyone else…that’s kind of a problem.

CLICK THE PIC TO ZOOM IN. Sooo, I was watching my show Power last night and my girl Raq’s outfit reminded me that I’ve been meaning to get more mocknecks, cold shoulders, squarenecks, shrugs, henleys, sheer tops, crop tops, and cut outs. I feel like I haven’t rocked that style since college but I’ve been getting my shape back and I kinda want to get back into this. Whatever shirt i get, it’ll likely be in black, white or gray. Plus I really want another “easy access” shirt because it definitely came in handy with the last boyfriend lol. Now I don't know if i’ll pair it with leather pants, regular jeans, ripped jeans, leather skirt, or a plaid skirt. But yep below is what I’m considering and sorry if you find the style trashy 🤣 #FeelFreeToList

Does that mean he’s attracted to her or just mirroring her?

I’m not a football fan and only tuned in for Usher’s halftime. I was honestly disappointed. He sounded so shakey while dancing and Alicia keys sounded awful when singing live as usual. Ludacris was okay. HER killed the guitar solo but her being there was random and unnecessary. Usher couldnt bring out Beyonce and do Naughty Girl? He couldnt bring out Summer Walker? Lol. His backup dancers were too in the front and blocking my view of Usher lol. little Jon was definitely the highlight of the halftime show. Anyways, back to the game. So don’t take what I say to heart because I don't know shit about football, but it truly seemed like the 49ers won but they kept extending the shit for the Chiefs to 1 up them. I’m sure Taylor Swift didn't wanna attend the shit for nothing, but i felt it was more about helping Mahomes get another win. I don't know thats just me. I don’t have a favorite between either of the two teams but thats my thoughts on it #FeelFreeToList

It's time for my annual tossing question. Tuesday is pancake day in the UK and families up and down the land will be tossing their batter in the kitchen.

But who is the better tosser, men or women?

They arrive in the area “on time” but took a while to find parking

My friend and I have been friends since highschool. We have always been close talking about our interests and hobbies. She has always been there for me through tough times and I've been there for her too. She made me a perfume and she buys me stuff even tho I tell her it's okay. She has never spoke about romance with me. I've never seen her show interest in me soo it caught me off guard! (Maybe I'm a little dense) I just need some advice.

If so kindly mention them, if you want

do you think age matters when dating someone?

It's definitely a way to my heart 😂🥰

It seems like fewer people are good with their hands these days whether it's building, repairing, or creating things. Do you prefer a handy partner?

I know a lot of athletes are generally highly attracted to people even more athletic and competitive than them. My daughter fangirls and crushes on girls stronger than her, and girls she beats fangirl over her. Her boyfriend likes her because she performs better than him in competitions.

Both men and women turn me on when they perform amazing feats of athleticism. In my experience, sporty women have always been in demand.

But, I saw a man state today that men aren't attracted to athletic women. So, I'm curious.

For a son, a father figure is important more than a mother figure since thats what most people said,
how about a daughter? whats worse for her, being fatherless or motherless