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My best friend is 34 and I am 48.

He sometimes falls asleep while texting me on Whatsapp. We always text 4-5 hours each night from 10pm-3am. He said he is so tired and I should be flattered that he forces himself to chat with me as he only sleeps 4 hours everyday. He said he can be so tired that he even falls sleeps while riding his motorbike.

He has been unemployed for 7 years and only plays computer games, watches videos or plays guitar everyday.

Should I be upset with him for falling asleep while chatting with me? He has fallen asleep like 6-7 times in 7 years so I asked him to stop forcing himself already and go find someone who won't make him fall asleep to chat with.

Just to clarify, I wanted a long winter coat but it's only available in standard version, no petite one and I'm 5'2 and they all manufacture it for 5'7 and taller women :( Thus unfortunately the coat ends below my middle calf instead of under the knees.

I think it looks nice but I am not sure. My mother said it's huge on me but it's a winter PADDED coat and she hates long coats so she's biased too.

The shop advised to actually go for LARGER size but I dismissed that and went with my classic, usual size. Should I size down, look for another coat or keep this one?

If u were homeless.. and u were gonna get kick out of the shelter. ( The staff in the shelter likes to kick out people who are trying there damndest to get out and have a home )
Where the hell would u stay at?

I currently work 3 jobs.
2 is on call ( so u can say part-time )
And 1 is fultime
I been thinking getting a 4th job so I can stay at my job instead of on the streets

We are okay now, like the msgs show I deleted him back in Dec & he msged me last week to find out why I removed him. I didn’t see the point in beating around the bush, he seemed to own up to it & I added him back today (He’s gray & I’m purple)

Personally for me I'd prefer to have a small wedding with just close family and friends.

You like a person, but you can't help but know it's also because you are attracted to their race. Is this wrong, and would it be unethical to pursue this relationship?

Tell me your thoughts below!!!

Sadly, I hope none of you guys answer...

Is it bc of a chemical imbalance that may or may not been passed down by family or is it situational based off your experience (s)?

i am kind of annoyed because my mom keeps saying Im wrong to have guys for my friends. I have 4 friends and 3 are guys. They are not my boyfriend or anything. Then she lets my brother be rude to me about it. He said they just want to take my virginity. What do you think?

I know this is not how the law works, but for this fun activity let's pretend it is.

Ok, so this was a fun activity we once did in my psychology class.

You play a detective. A woman (ms. A) walks in and tells you, that a person (mr. B) Has been harrassing them by text message and would like to file a restraining order. You decide if the restraining order is accurate or not.

Ms. A: shows evidence of over 200 hundred messages complaining about her actions, and even after over 10 times of Ms. A asking Mr. B to stop harrassing and contacting her, he does not stop messaging her and spins it as having a discussion.

Mr. B. Suspecting you are investigating him for harrassment comes to you. Tries to spin the story that it was 2 friends having a disagreement. He goes on a very long winded overly detailed information about what happened. And it does not seem the same as what evidence you saw.

You make your decision to send the restraining order to the judge.(yes i know this isn't how the law works, but for this exercise it does)

MR. B: disappointed in the decision and has your number sends you over 125 messages telling you that you are wrong, and then when you say you are not changing your decision. Sends 75 messages trying to convince you that you are hurting his wife, and making her sick. You then say. "I believe in my heart i am right. Could I be wrong? Possibly. But to much evidence proves you to be guilty. So in my heart i believe you are guilty and will continue."

MS. A. Tells you she is still a victim as they wait for the court hearing. She sends you 75 of the 200 messages. Where he blames her for the detective's choice. Mr. B then accuses you the detective of being one sided and only listening to her. Then you see Mr. B has now lied about what you said. He took your words and twisted them. He claimed you said. "I am most likely wrong, and don't care that I'm wrong, and I am choosing to side with Ms. A"

Take your time. You can leave an opinion stating:

1. Left

2. Right etc.

And explain why you choose it, do they seem like they're nicer, stronger, more attractive. Or just vote for which side has more points.

I know that 99% of us don't see the difference and don't care, but there is a huge difference that most people didn't believe me before until I showed proof. And I will tell what it is later, but first I want to know the results.

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By "show more skin" I mean stuff like tank tops and short shorts, and by "cover up more" I mean stuff like long sleeves and long pants/jeans. As you can see in the attached photos.

I don't know why, but to me it just seems like women who show more skin are often more warm/friendly than women who cover up more. I often associate the former with smiling more often, generally hugging more and being more touchy feely, and displaying overall more extroverted and outgoing traits... and the latter more with smiling less, disliking hugs and physical contact, and displaying overall more introverted and reserved traits.

Another thing, women who show skin seem to not care when another woman decides to cover up... at most they'll ask them "aren't you feeling hot" if the temperature is high, but they'll leave it at that. However, women who cover up often seem to be quite judgmental of women who show more skin, and seem to think that they are morally superior to them. They seem to think women who show more skin are "dressing wrong" or "being slutty."

I'm not sure if this is just me/a coincidence, or if it's actually a common pattern that exists in a lot of places. Which is why I'm asking.

If it matters, I myself would usually dress something in-between the two photos. Like a t-shirt and shorts that are closer to knee-length. Though I occasionally may adopt the style shown in the photos as well, depending on the weather.

Soo most of y'all know this but here is more information

* I was in the office getting my interview done and he knock on the door to get a cup off the desk ( so weird right )
* Then when I went for my orientation he was sitting there looking right at me. We eyed each other the first time
* He offered to train me
* We talk here and there
* We kissed
* Made love
* Hug
* Cuddle
* Held hands
* He comforts me
* He explains things to me
* He opens the door for me
* And etc

Like today he opened the door for me he said hi to me he gave me a ride back to where I stay at... and he said he couldn't talk / hangout this week.


He said he is not interested in me
But.. he did say I can fulfill his affectionate
But he does get jealous af when I'm around another man and he won't quit eyeing at me / protecting me