Are people with 'ice cold hearts' happier than those who get attached too easily?

[Shynanaa98]

Yes

No

[HavicZero]

There's a bunch of idiots trying to wax philosophical about how if you never have anything bad happen to you how can you know something good's going to happen to you. It's complete bullshit. To be extremely clear about the issues today we have a lot of issues Republicans are fascists women are sociopaths and everyone is living their life by proxy through social media companies because they are pathetic.

There is a ton of garbage advice circulating these social media life proxies saying how people should interact how people should date what makes a real man or what makes a real woman and it's all garbage.

And many times people are experiencing so much loss that they become completely cold. Women are sociopaths today they enjoy hurting people because they just think it's hilarious. What they aren't seeing is that nobody is coming from other countries to come wipe up an American woman. But there sure are a hell of a lot of American men leaving the country to go find a wife somewhere else.

And it's because women are liars women will have a smear campaign when they don't get their way women will try and make sure that only they get the benefit out of any situation and now women are wondering why nobody wants them. Look guys will have sex with you that's not a problem but women can't keep a man today regardless of what she does in the bedroom. And I think that's a good thing. Men don't want to get married to an American woman because American women can't be trusted you have no integrity American women but instead of realizing that admitting you're wrong apologizing and doing better you just like Donald Trump have doubled down on your garbage.

Everybody wants the same kind of relationship that Russians have today and that's because of Donald Trump and the Russian influence on him that his invaded this country and has invaded social media I mean Google it Facebook had to apologize for doing psychological experiments on people and their entire c-suite is filled with people from the bush administration. It is political but it's Republicans that are doing the manipulation and women listen to them.

You can't tell me that women aren't acting like Donald Trump because women are acting exactly like Donald Trump lie about everything try to take as much as you can see what you can get away with and if it works great and if it doesn't try again. And that's why nobody likes American women because you're just criminals and nobody wants to invite that kind of bullshit into their lives.

[Dutch1987]

American men who are looking for women abroad because they want to domineer women and American women no longer settle for abusers and deadbeats. Foreign men are not coming to America because of your immigration laws or because they are already settled down in life. The deadbeats and abusers among them have as little chance with American women as the domestic men.

[caring__1]

Absence of negative doesn't make for positive. If you go to a buffet, and everything looks disgusting, so you choose not to eat, will you feel full after that meal? If we never feel loss, we'll never appreciate what we have. Yes, ice cold hearts can avoid some negative experiences, but how does that leave them with positive experiences? It leaves them with no experiences. Until we allow ourselves to be vulnerable to potential loss, we'll never experience any gain.

[shaysh87]

I am a cold hearted person in a way. And to answer your question, we might not necessarily be happier but we are more content and stable with our emotions in life.

Throughout my life, i have come to find that most people are not actually worth your time. People say things that they don't mean. People become your "friends" only to be there for you whenever they feel like it. You meet so many people in life yet you could hardly find someone you can actually rely on. You talk to so many people in life but 90% of it is just meaningless small talk. These are the very same people that you get depressed when they don't like you. You get sad when these people who do nothing for you cause you trouble.

at the end of the day, is it really worth it to let these people ruin your day? NO

this is why I don't let insignificant people bother me or ruin my day.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Nope…

Because when people with “ice cold hearts” fall in love, they fall harder. It’s all or nothing.

When I met my ex fiance I was reading a book “Smart women finish rich” it was about career women, I was thinking I was a cold-hearted girl who’d never fall in love.

Here I am sitting, just ended 4 months cry rain after a break up hahaha

So, nope.

Don’t assume people feel any less pain than others just because you think they have a cold heart.

[pupluv45]

if someone is truly cold, they aren't likely going to fall in love. you need to understand what having a cold heart is like. cold hearted people are cold hearted because they don't trust other people. they see the world as bad or evil which is why they are so mean. they don't like people. even if they enjoy being around you, they will never ever trust you with their feelings. they expect you to trash them.
cold hearted people aren't vulnerable at all.

[pupluv45]

Most cold hearted people aren't born cold hearted. many of them are this way because they have been severely neglected in some type of during childhood. Childhood is where your views of the world forms.

[Guy13]

No... Ice coffee isn't any better than hot coffee. It is simply different style of coffee.

[Marklaw12]

Absolutely not.

People with ice cold hearts are people who will destroy everything in their paths to get to the top. That's good but just for them. Wealthy people always look over their shoulders cos they've done things that they know will always have them targeted.


People who are warm hearted will obviously face heartbreaks and people will break their trust. They will get to the top and will be much happier when all is said and done. Someone you don't remember you helped in the past will save you in the future.


Hence, you sow what you reap.

[Lookingforthetruth]

Lol those people don't get to the top. They get played by everyone until their bitter and closed off.

[AdithyaR]

Both have their negatives and positives.
Attached people have the advantage that they have a great capacity for love and trust with the drawback that they get hurt more often.
Ice heart people have the advantage of not letting people toy with their emotions at the cost of finding it difficult to lower their walls and let someone in.

[RockyHammock]

I dont think they can be compared as their happiness stems from different aspects of life.

For instance, psychopaths with cold hearts may feel more happier with self achievement. Whereas someone who wears their heart on their sleeves may gain happiness through others.

[Brittanyroseee]

Yes. I used to be a people pleaser, a doormat. People would ALWAYS would take advantage of me. I was ALWAYS there for people.. I lost a good amount of “friends” and my ex fucked me over too. Now? I don’t allow any of that anymore. If someone doesn’t want to be my friend, then leave. Bye😂😂😂😂I don’t allow myself to get attached anymore because nobody is worth it. People come and go anyway.

[MementoMori777]

Perhaps for a while or they think they are happy and then they realize something is missing in their life and unfortunately not everyone comes to the realization of their reality so it's hard to say

[Anonymous]

it's not a matter of having an ice cold heart that makes a person happy. having an ice cold heart sometimes that person is trying to distance themselves emotionally from someone who hurt them. it doesn't mean the person is happy. happiness is completely different than having an ice cold heart

[PBandJ_Nerd]

I think cold hearted people would be sadder in life than happier. But even the opposite has its negatives.

[magiusX26]

possibly just as happy but in a different way. you need to consider that a good portion of the cold hearted are that way because they used to be part of the group that isn't cold hearted and became that way after being hurt too many time/too much. these are the ones more often that in turn hurt others making it sort of like a communicaple illness. this is also one of many big factors in the current dating troubles.

[cryscrys1]

Sometimes those people used to be warm hearted once

[TheSpaceGnome]

Those are 2 ends to a middle. Both are bad.

Be in the middle. Have a warm heart, but be picky, and attach slowly.

[Noodle_fan]

neither are good

if i really have to choose one , it is the first

people who get attached too easy are vurnerable to get hurt

[LiamJHayden]

I'm not ice cold, but I do not get attached easily so, compared to my friends at least, I don't go through trauma during a breakup.

[lightbulb27]

no, but they may not have the same level of hurt that sensitive people have which makes it seem like they are happier.

maybe their life is less painful because they don't feel as much.

[Iron_Man]

Those people are miserable, ice, cold hearts mean big time

[Nikki1989]

No, they are usually self-destructive people.

[Anonymous]

i'm more cold hearted and definitely don't get attached quickly but i think that just makes me lose out on making connections with more new people

[Headstrongcrazylover]

I am cold hearted too. But it helps me to beat everyone but everyone feels bad about me.

[Anonymous]

Just because someone doesn't get attached easy doesn't mean they have ice cold hearts.

[Account]

We are not. That I can assure you.

[exitseven]

it seems that way.