Do you get attached to people easily?

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yes.

It’s a huge weakness of mine. I can drop someone in a heartbeat if they’re no good for me but I’m honestly a lover and I love being connect with people.

I’m kinda clingy sometimes 😂 it’s the worst

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

I can feel every single one of your words and this does not mean that you are a bad person this means you are an excellent person that you are very good person because you see things and you feel things deeper than most people It also says that you understand connection you understand that Bond and it is so beautiful and you want to share that with somebody there's nothing wrong with that does it matter of fact by doing this it's going to take you to why we are all here on this planet and that is to experience this without judgment without defining something negative about somebody

When you are capable of doing what you do it is a beautiful thing everybody on this planet should be on the same path because this path will take you the reason why we are all here on this planet and that is to become one when you connect with somebody it's because you become one with them and it's the most beautiful feeling you will ever feel take that a lot further and connect with everything on this universe with no judgment with no opinion with no drama of any sort you understand that people are people and that's who they are either taking or leave it that means you are one with them and that's who we are all supposed to be we're all supposed to live this experience what you're living you are on a path to becoming that person and there is something so very beautiful about that because it is a beautiful life to have because then you are free from everything people can't bother you they can't hurt you because you understand we are all meant to be one when somebody talks down to you they're talking down to themselves when somebody tries to hurt you there hurting themselves because we are one and you are learning this you are on that path and I think that's a beautiful thing because it will change your life when you get to the end

dynamicyandere · Accepted Answer

You share the best memes. 😂

But, as for your question, it depends on the person.

Like, usually it’s whatever and I can see them when I see them. It’s fine.

I’m an introvert, so I like to have a lot of personal space… Usually…

But, in very rare cases, if the chemistry is very strong, and this person and I are romantically involved, if it’s the right person, I’ll never want them to leave my side and I’ll never tire of them. I’ll prefer that they be with me 24/7.

So yea, I don’t get attached to people easily in general. But, in the rare cases that I do, things can be intense.

Smoke-n-Growls · Accepted Answer

I do. I attach hard and fast, and it's gotten me in trouble in previously.

I did overcome the clinginess thanks to therapy and finding hobbies that keep me active and engaged with a wider community.

However, I'm managing the hard and fast attachments by becoming extremely selective about who I let into my life. It's actually been really good, and has allowed me to focus on bringing people into my life who bring value. Whether that's good humour, motivation, genuine connection - it's been a really positive shift.

I don't feel guilty refusing to deepen relationships with people who don't bring something positive into my life, and it helps me also bring value to their lives in turn.

When I do decide to date again, I'll still be extremely picky and selective. I'd rather wait and date for years finding the right person than stick myself with a loser just because. When I attach, I tend to stay longer than I should if it's a bad fit. So I'd rather just stay single than date someone I know won't be good for me in the long run.

RosieMelts · Accepted Answer

🤣😭 these memes have me clinging for life rn and any hope of oxygen to my lungs 😂😭

You definitely bring the humor to these questions on GaG @Literalbillionaire17 ;

I think that spot is safely reserved for you 😊👐

And do I get clingy? I used to be, but I think I’ve made some decent progress..

When the happiness counted on it- it nearly broke my sanity and my heart, truly. If people could die of a broken heart, I’m convinced I was destined to that fate, but luckily I’ve learned and was able to throw off the skin-burning toxins off of me before it was too late.

Now space is given, and if I linger towards clingy-ness, it just like “hey I want to bother you..” and if they are truly upset by it, or I have something to do, it’s just an “okay byeee..” from me. 😌

Turned out for the best, in all honesty. ✨

AmandaYVR · Answer

I'm not sure about that wording exactly, but I can certainly be sentimental and a lover and have very strong feelings about people (both good and bad and in between.) My feelings can change, but I don't really guard my heart and treat it so preciously that I never get close to people; quite the opposite, in fact. I like intimacy, honesty, rawness. It's the good stuff of life, I think. ❤ And it's heartbreaking sometimes too. 💔

P. S. The pics you chose are cute.

Pinay_ako · Answer

🤣.. nope 👎  since Covid, literally stay 6 feet tf away from me. Over there 👉 . I don’t want no attachments…

hIopinionated_ · Answer

The fifth meme is SO meeeee 😭

No but seriously though, I can just as easily get unattached or unlike them in that way so I’m sort of ok with being weirdly clingy me. I also adapt very well to any situation. I can match energy like a champ. For instance, if my boyfriend is all over me for a period of time, loving, wants to talk and hangout all the freaking time, I will indefinitely be all over him and everything above. I can be very over the top and I can also be sort of invisible, a nice little regular acquaintance. It’s a sort of nice balance I think

sheenagwapa · Answer

love is my greatest weakness but no i don't get attached to people easily. my ex courted me for years so it really depends. i can like someone easily like love at first sight but at times it can take so much time. i can also decline. that's just how datinh in my country works.

i am looking for longevity or lifetime relationship but i think i'm not suited to be in a relationship again or at least not yet because i'm sickly physically and mentally and i blamed myself for my ex depression because i am "lunatic" although it's common for pinays to be lunatic 😭and so i am assessing myself

i think i have a very bratty personality i think i'm a very good person but i am just so hard-headed. i think i wanna be in control ☹️

in short not SO material

sphinx23 · Answer

I can easily get along with people. I'm a people 's person. But me being attached with them easily is not gonna happen. I always have a wall this wall between me and others. I only let a few people in. I have trust issues. So even if I talk to you all the time and make you laugh, it doesn't mean we're friends. It's takes a lot of time for me to trust someone

Haha456 · Answer

people who get too attached to quickly tend to also be too trusting. It usually has to do with a lack of bad experiences with people in the past. As someone with a lot of experience with people, I dont get attached quickly because I have seen a lot of wolves in sheeps clothing.

DannyUk2017 · Answer

The Cat and Dog its me...🤣🤣, if someone sgow's me interest... i'm all over them... i tend to kiss and cuddle, and make iyt, and MAKE THE MOST OF IT IN A HEART BEAT! But if they are Bitchy and moaning and give me HARD time, then i'll try to leave them alone, get away from them, or simply tell them to fook off! 🤷‍♂️🤣

Tina19 · Answer

When i was a teen i use to get easily attached with people i was too innocent to trust everyone who would smile at me... with time and experience i have learnt that nothing is permanent and nobody's presence in life is going to be for life time so now i don't get attached anymore

JSmuve · Answer

Nah, I don't get attached. Once you realize people are inherently disappointing, it's difficult to get attached. Clingy girls are alright but if they're not bringing that same energy with liking clingy guys, then they're super annoying. Hypocritical clingy girls are the worst.

TransAm85 · Answer

I like to be around people for sure, but I'd say I'm codependent over clingy. I don't know how to show feelings very well vocally. I'll help u w/anything but telling u how I feel.. no thanks. I keep it all to myself.

melanieeeB · Answer

Not at all, it takes a long time until I get attached to someone and during this I can let go immediately, no problems at all but if I do get attached, then it's hart for me to let this go, like I still can but it's not that easy anymore

dustybiker · Answer

No. People take a while to understand me. lol The people that get me are easy to attach to.

TenderFantasy · Answer

I used to be that way till I realized that some people will take advantage of your vulnerabilities like that if you're not careful. You really don't know.

Marshymallow · Answer

I don’t get attached to people easily. I’m usually wary at first. But when I get attached I get very very attached and when I get unattached then nothing can change that.

ALPHABLACK · Answer

I never connect to people on a deep level I already know they will just become monsters eventually and I was proven right so many times I lost count.

river23 · Answer

This is definitely me, but with time I've learned how to hold back and be better but sometimes I do end up being this way but for good reasons.

Havthrills · Answer

Lol. I sometimes do but I don't act upon it. I know she would do better. Actually started to get that way with a woman but backed off a little. She doesn't seem interested. Lol. I was like the third meme.

44of69years · Answer

I am a lover, and when someone shows me they are a true kind and supportive person I do get attached fast. It if it gets even just a little bit toxic I can drop them fast

JosyJosy · Answer

My boyfriend, 6 months of dating, yep. I'm a snail. I can fall in love quick, but I shut that down, I ignore it until my brain caught up and agrees with my heart that the guy is great.

DizzyDesii · Answer

To a guy i like, yes. But i also break away just as easily if he constantly pisses me off or shows that we lack things in common

texas_giiirl30 · Answer

Unfortunately! Started falling for a guy within two weeks of talking 🤦🏼‍♀️

JDavid25 · Answer

Yeah... Unfortunately... I'm slowly getting better but some situations still get the best of me.. That last meme is super relatable.. 🤣🤣..

Kaneki05 · Answer

Very much so. Kinda a danger to myself if anything.

Brandi555 · Answer

Lmfao. The pic with the socks😂😂😂😂. No I don’t

bubblegunnn · Answer

Omg yes! If only i like and love them.. also godammit i can related to 5 and 7 memes tho

RedStiletto88 · Answer

I can get very attached once I’m comfortable with someone.

Caliguy88 · Answer

I think I can…. I get attached to female friends. I think it’s kinda weird. If I like a girl as a friend I usually have a crush on them at some point.

Nikki1989 · Answer

No I don't. I actually have a bad habit of pushing people away.

SolitarySolace · Answer

I used to. Then women killed my sense of attachment to them. 🤷🏻‍♂️ Not my fault they prefer to serve themselves instead of their partner

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I used to. I've intentionally grown a cold heart in order to survive. (I'm willing to thaw out, though, if someone can gain my trust.)

Googlemyahoo · Answer

I used to when I was younger. Open & honest but having dealt with many scumbags in my youth I’m pretty careful with who I open up to.

Anonymous · Answer

No. I don't get along that many people. I do place a naive amount trust in people who I do get along with though

Anonymous · Answer

Quite the opposite. I WANT to trust everyone. But this world will chew you up and spit you out if you do.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

Not easily but when I do get attached, I am attached

DiegoO · Answer

No, and I wouldn't ever go for someone who would drop easy for me. That's actually a bad sign.

TroyDT · Answer

I get along with most people until they give me a reason not to do so, but it takes me a loooonnnngggg time to get attached.

Jltakk · Answer

Yes but if not reciprocated I'll get the message and disappear just as easy if not easier.

AsaKyo · Answer

I used to, but not anymore Been let down far too many times by people I once trusted

thatrandomguyagain · Answer

no. They have to earn my trust before they can earn my heart

chocomilk99 · Answer

I have developed my own mechanism to deal with such situations.. so haan and nahhh

litty · Answer

I'm really bad at saying goodbyes, so I tell people this isn't goodbye.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Its very difficult for me to get attached to people, but when I am it's like glue.

KostasKouvalis · Answer

I'm the same way, often to the point where I feel it's scaring people off

Anonymous · Answer

I am not clingy, I give what I get with interest.

AngryCarl · Answer

I don't get attached easily but when I do it's pretty intense.

littlealexandra · Answer

Yep and it's one thing that I'm not necessarily proud of.

Zolly99999 · Answer

No I do not.. I have been fooled too many times in the past.. now I'm very cautious.

Kdude010 · Answer

Nope. I have a strong distrust in people in general

Open2It · Answer

Not really but I am a bit too trusting of people

Amalucy · Answer

A loving and caring guy and at the same a best friend someone I can trust to

Anonymous · Answer

I used to buy now I find that it’s unhealthy. Guys are not that pond of cringy person either. I seek independency now

FallonSamuels · Answer

I do. It’s both a blessing and a curse

Smoothing · Answer

I recently discovered that I fall in love easily.

Aerolyn · Answer

Definitely not, I find it too much of a bad idea.

IveGotNoName · Answer

No, but when I get attached, I really get attached

exitseven · Answer

No, but I have done it a couple of times/

Filthy_Immigrant · Answer

No, and I wish the whole world was the same

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

You are funny i like it

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