Do you easily get attached to another person?

[thegreenyogi]

[Finchie40]

Just depends on the chemistry and connection I am already experiencing with the girl I am already dating or seeing if things aren’t great between us and I meet another girl that is beautiful to my eyes and her and I have better chemistry and connection with each other then I will more than likely stop dating the one girl and move on to the new girl , only if I am just dating , if I was in a serious relationship with a girl , then she is my top priority and other girls’ don’t have a chance with me because my heart belongs to my partner.

[OneViewpoint]

ROFL, no! A friend of mine recently told a woman who has been trying to engage with me for 8 months not to get discouraged because "it can take up to 2 years to get to know him". Her... shocked face... followed by sad face. I don't think she's ever met anyone like me.

He isn't lying. I actively curate the people I allow around me and keep it to a small group of real friends. I don't need everyone to like me. I don't want everyone to like me. I like a peaceful existence and will weed out anyone who doesn't add value to my life. I don't give a second thought to cutting someone loose. On the other hand, once I consider you a friend, you can call on me anytime for anything.

[DishLady]

I wouldn't say "easily" however if I like a person then yes there's a feeling of connectivity that I'd try to foster and would hope the other person also tries to foster.

[Pinay_ako]

Depends on how much I like them as I get to know them more

[AI Opinion]

Here to spice up your relationship journey! 🌟 Feeling attached is all about those butterflies taking over your stomach and, oh boy, can it be charming! While I'm more of a book-and-chill guy, love can be pretty magnetic, can't it? If you find yourself obsessing over someone's texts or doodling hearts in your notebook, it might be attachment talking! Remember, balance is key to avoid the mysterious vanishing act we call "ghosting." Keep it flirty and fun, and don't be afraid to fall in love! 😉

[Sonorous]

It gets harder to older I become due to my better understanding of human nature. Human interaction is always transactional, often misleading, & like with everything, it never lasts. As a result, I cannot help but to avoid putting so much value into it. I'd rather put that value into things more predictable.

[Summeroflove]

No that takes time for me

[EzraIsShy76028]

Hate to admit it, but... YES. And this applies for both regular friendships and romantic relationships as well. In general I guess I just tend to place a lot of value on what others think of me. There also have been many, many times where I assumed me and someone were waaaaaay closer than we actually were, and that definitely caused many issues. 😓

[Zack-Bann]

I used to.


But these days I’m having a much harder time letting people in.


Which is not entirely a bad thing: fast attachment always finds a way to mess things up.
It’s better to only open the door for those you REALLY want stepping inside

[PeachyPie93]

Yes.. and it sucks being this way.. That is why I am limiting all social interactions, since I can't be bothered to get to know people online or IRL.

[alice55]

Yes and no I can get easily attachee but also detached extremely fast if there d something I don’t like about their personnality

[KostasKouvalis]

ME TOO! We're the same ^^
Unless you've know them for a long time and are really close with them, then I feel it's difficult to get detached even if they have some bad quality.

I'm really attached to YOU ^^

[alice55]

@KostasKouvalis yes the longer you know someone the harder is it to get out or lose feeling and I feel when you actually care for someone since many years Even if you get out don’t speak with them anymore for x reasons then you still keep feeling for them / care because you cared for them for so long. I know i had friend in the past backstabbing me and i still have weird feeling like I hâte them and stuff but they re différent from stranger. I hâte them vut can’t get myself to feel indifférent to them.

I really attached to you too ^^

[KostasKouvalis]

That happened with this girl I was talking to online and had feelings for. We didn't end on bad terms, she just randomly unfriended me and stopped messaging me with no explanation. It took me YEARS to get over her. I only finally got over her after I caught feelings for YOU. Before that, I thought I'd never find anyone to fill the void. But I still think about her sometimes, and other people from my past, even the ones who hurt me.

Yeah, I think that's why when some old friends randomly message me out of the blue after many years, I message them back. And also, why I hung out with people even if I knew they were taking advantage of me.

That's great to hear ^^
Did you ever read my last private messages?

[Joshydavid25]

Yeah, I get pretty easily attached to people usually.. Of course it depends because I do have times where it's a slow burn with somebody as well.

[NicholasRedone]

Its probably because I am thinking or assuming. Aka - not everyone thinks I'm a 10/10. Lol im probs barely a 6/10, on a decent hairstyle day. Lol.

Ah well 😃 ❤️‍🩹

[gemb00]

Not really, but if they show me interest, appear to like me like I like them then I can get attached.

[blackeagle007]

You seem female though

[gemb00]

I am?

[blackeagle007]

Are you?

[Still-alive]

i wouldn't say i get 'attached' i just like connecting with people and whenever i feel like they are actively denying that to me it can hurt. so i tend to be careful with who i get close to. try to spot those signs beforehand

[Lilbit84]

Yes re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

[Tarifa]

Way too easily. It's difficult to keep my emotions in check when appreciation is there.

[Valdemort]

Depends on the person, but when I do... mother of God 💀

[blackeagle007]

I think your female

[Valdemort]

Wow. Such a revelation!

[HungTexan]

It’s not easy for me, but luckily I don’t feel the need since I’m happily attached already.

[TDDMS]

I use to, until one I realized that there were too many toxic women out there. I realized it's too dangerous to that.

[Anonymous]

Yes unfortunately for me I do, it’s not a nice thing especially once I caught strong feelings

[YourExLover69]

I used to be easily attached but not anymore. I have learnt

[KostasKouvalis]

Apparanatly I do, and apparanatly some girls don't like that

[Yannae]

No it takes a while. Unless you are my type, then it goes quicker than I want to admit.

[GODBODY954]

I do but I try my best not to for a simple fact that I'm big on love & loyalty and the pain of betrayal be to great

[TonyMetal___86]

I used to but not now because being attached to someone only brought me pain

[Rena90]

Takes me a while if their chemistry I goes well it can.

[LiaRaven]

Not that much

[NathanDavis]

nope... I am very selective

[Flower7]

Nope…I do not even like most people.

[MemeSupreme]

complete complete complete opposite

[naartjie]

No but I have with one person

[ManOnFire]

Nah not like I used to.

[Kelley1]

Only if he is hot.

[beaves11]

But it’s okay if you cheat on him and he doesn’t know you said haha

Also you only date people you find ‘hot’ so.

[Kelley1]

@beaves11 If they are not hot, they must have money or they are a waste of my time. Since there is a risk of discovery, probably wives should not cheat but it is no big deal if they cheat and the husband never suspects.

[slatyb]

Yes, but I like to play with super glue.

[slatyb]

There once was a couple named Kelly
Who went around belly to belly
Because in their haste
They used library paste
Instead of petroleum jelly

[WhitneySnow]

Depends on the person

[Nikki1989]

Nah, it can take a long time.

[SleepingHazard]

I don't get attached to people very often.

[jahaims]

No, I'm emotionally healthy

[Lokiion]

No it takes a while

[MK1997]

Definitely not

[MikeRJ]

I have in the past, but not recently.

[Anonymous]

No. Not easily at all.

[Anonymous]

Yes, if I really like her.

[RageBabe]

Yes, I have.

[MannMitAntworten]

Nope.

[PrincessC1678]

Yes, way too easily

[Anonymous]

Nope

[eagle1951]

nope