Do you get attracted to someone you know you can’t be with because they’re taken but you get attached anyways?

[Pinay_ako]

[ReginaGeorgina]

Yes!! The fact that they are so unavailable makes me want them more. But if they were to like me back, I would lose interest really fast because who wants a cheater and how you get someone is EXACTLY how you're gonna lose them. I won't make any move on them though. I'll keep my distance and will only communicate if they initiate and will keep it surface level.

[SecretsofKB]

Yeah, once it college. It was never bad or distracting. I just got flustered whenever they were around. It lasted about a month before the crush died out lol.

[Pinay_ako]

Getting flustered is cute 🥰.

[SecretsofKB]

Maybe from the other side lol. I just feel like an idiot.

[Summeroflove]

Me personally? No. Lol. Besides. They’re taken. Getting involved in something like that isn’t only wrong. But from a selfish point of view it can get you into a lot of trouble. Cost you friends. Even get you hurt and wven legal trouble. Stay out of it.


But unfortunately some people do

[CozyCoffin]

Nope. As soon as I find out they are taken, I move on.

[AviatorTom]

Yes, it does happen. I once worked with an absolutely beautiful woman, intelligent, friendly, great personality. She was married, and I never acted on anything, but I definitely found her attractive.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Nope, I don’t like being a 2nd woman after girlfriend or a wife

[Tinat]

🤨🤔

[BadApple69]

When I get attracted to someone it doesn’t matter if I can’t be with them of not.
I told a girl one time I thought she was very cute, and asked her if she wanted to go out for diner. She told me she had a boyfriend. So I asked her if she wanted me to ask her boyfriend if we could go out she quickly said NO. Then agreed to go out with me lol

[Tinat]

🤭🤣

[Laciejordan]

Definitely attracted, yes, but not crazy attached to him. You can never stop yourself from being attracted to someone, even if he’s taken or you’re taken or both of you are! Lol

[Drew-1990]

Yes I have been there a few times I hate when it happens because I will not steal a girl even if I could, not saying I could. I would hate to have a girl taken from me why would I do that to someone else

[spartan55]

Never, and I don't understand why so many people just ignore the fact that their love interest is in a relationship.

[NathanDavis]

no... I don't mess around with that

ever

[HelpfulWoman]

biggest turn off is a taken person so no. basic morals etc

[RavVid]

I might be attracted but won't get attached.

[serious]

No, nothing like that will ever happen. It has never happened.

[KostasKouvalis]

Story of my life, but I don't see it the way you say. I look at it as, "There's always the chance she'll leave him for me, go behind his back, or have an open relationship arrangement.

[Tinat]

Yeah. Sometimes we fall in love with the people that can never be ours. It's just sad🙁

[Yannae]

I did, but I kept finding out later that she was actually taken. Then I stopped out of respect for the relationship.

[Ms_Facesitter]

They'll have qualities that I'll find attractive, but that's where it stops.

[laly520]

never happened

taken people aren't attractive to me

[Radiate143]

Yes, I did that once. BIGGEST MISTAKE OF MY LIFE!!!

[standardguy]

Attached is too much. But it is possible to feel something that is not correct because she is alredy married, you know tenth commandment.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Nope. I know not to waste my time thinking about them

[Tinat]

👍👍

[WhiteBoyChill]

@Tinat What’s the point in focusing on someone you can’t be with?

[Tinat]

It is useless and a waste of time. Of course.

[Slapmynuts]

Been there! It's a long story but the feelings lasted for years!

[aceleon]

no, my attraction dies when they are taken.

[Tinat]

👍🫡

[aceleon]

@Tinat mostly because someone else touching them makes me repulsed.

[Tinat]

I get that