Do you get easily attached to others?

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NathanDavis · Accepted Answer

I would not use the word attached... bonding, making connections that are stronger is something that takes me a longer time, and that doesn't come easy because it requires great people so when you find someone that great then yes, it might seem easy

I do get along with people very well and that can be instantly or quick, but something more meaningful than that requires time, that will come later if it is worth, of course

HighlyVolatile · Accepted Answer

Sorta. I can make you my muse if I feel like it. The thing that's peculiar in my case is an absence of fear of betrayal. I think most people see their attachments and investments in people as a risk. I never saw the risk because I never expected much beyond fun.

melanieeeB · Accepted Answer

Nope not at all.
I always expect the worse in others and that's why I'm cold and distanced and it takes a long time until I trust someone and then even longer until I would call it attachment but once I do it's hard for me to stop caring and getting unattached again but I still can, it just takes some time tho

User2324 · Accepted Answer

yes. i’ve only had very few people in my life which makes me quick to latch onto another person. it’s not good but i can't help it 😭 i was also rejected before my life even started so i think that has made it much worse…

ohshee · Answer

If I like a person I can become a very very good friend and once I become a friend I mean I'm a friend for life in that way I could do get attached kind of relationship-wise they had to prove themselves to me and they don't even really have to prove themselves they just have to be themselves if I see anything fake about them I just got to distance myself

Th3ft · Answer

Yeah I do… it is actually really annoying. Haha! I realized a while back that I can not ever do casual relationship or open relationships because of it. Or I guess multiple relationships… but I mean I need to be careful anyways with it like I can’t let myself get too flirtatious and friendly in a lot of situations.

glennos89 · Answer

I'm not easely attracted to somebody. I'm very picky sadly although I would love to be different in this. There are plenty of girls I'm attracted to at first impression but if there personality isn't matching mine then it doesn't mather to me how atteactive she looks... im just indtantly lose the attraction I had before 😑

Im scared that my own pickiness is going to end up me being lonely in the long run not finding love anymore😔

humanearth · Answer

Sometimes I do. Like if I meet a cool guy that's a gear head. Then I have a new buddy to work on cars with.

But if they are into dungeons and dragons, the card game magic, and countless other nerd games.

I'll stay away from them

wheresmrcunnunglis · Answer

Nope, it actually takes a bit since I have a bit of an avoidant personality type. Im sensitive and am cynical of others ( bad I know so save your finger wagging ) so Im real cautious of the attachments I create.

dustybiker · Answer

Only the shiny people. Those rare gems you stumble across.

mandyfire98 · Answer

I get attached to people platonically pretty easy, it takes a good bit more to become attached romantically

Lyndsielee666 · Answer

Yup. Can thank my fear of abandonment for that one.

Jaximus-Lion · Answer

No! I don't. I have colleagues and neighbors that i have known for years without getting attached. So i am good 👍

Red-Blaze · Answer

Yes, not to everone but if I get a good vibe from someone I can get really attached really fast to them

Chris_7565 · Answer

Yeah, I could never have a friend with benefits especially not one I was seriously attracted to. I'm used to being married and I get attached.

1GoldTwins · Answer

I usually do not, but it happened two times before that I only met them once and I fell for them right away. It makes no sense

Jeansnowstarkbastard · Answer

I don't get attached to strangers easily but if i decide that you are in my circle.
We will be friends for life.
I have 3 friends that have come along with me since i was 12 years old untill now and hopefully for years to come.

faithgrace4u · Answer

yes i want to be friends or more and i don't want to let them go

ChiTownLov · Answer

No. I actually push people away before I never know them.

one1wild00 · Answer

Depends on the persons personality, but usually. But there are some people i can't stand on sight without even meeting them.

Bubbles16 · Answer

Well I was really attached to an old best friend but I detached myself after she decided to ghost me when we started middle school

Anonymous · Answer

Oh how easily I got attached And of course the 2 people I got attached to I don’t even live near, at least I am able to message one of them

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Lust can be fun. But actually falling in love no

Crepe_tart · Answer

I kinda do although I try not to

IM_SAM2 · Answer

Yes, very easily i trust other

RebeccaBITex2000 · Answer

Not like I used to. I protect my heart more

pizzalovershouse · Answer

No not till I feel I can trust them

Wise4myage · Answer

Yes, sometimes. I think its hard not too.

Anonymous · Answer

Only if she's gorgeous and the sex is fabulous!

TenkRealist · Answer

Sometimes

ChiTown33 · Answer

Nope.

Mate100 · Answer

Not anymore

legalboxers · Answer

if she's amazing yes

Anonymous · Answer

Not anymore...

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