People's behaviour changes depending on the person, and the type of relationship they have with this person.
Obviously, I'm not going to treat my boss the same way that I treat my closest friends.
Similarly, I'm not going engage into steamy make-out sessions with my friends, because that romantic attraction is simply not there. Yes, I'll still be passionate about the same things around my friends as around my partner, but the way I express myself is going to be different because my partner's presence would elicit different feelings in me.
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I'm like this.
I think I must feel the love hormone really strongly or something. I love the rush you get from being in love.
I don't get that from friendships although I really value connection.
Friendships can last forever because there's no attachment. Unlike love.
I've seen dramatic jealous friends and it looks like too much DRAMA!
i think people who are intense with lovers are that way bc its the only place they feel safe connecting. thats how they become intense. so they would not be intense all around. only with one person. if they could connect with many they would not become intense.
Emotions are complex. It is likely the feelings are simply stronger during love making than in general friendship interactions. It's all about the heart. If they are intense lovers (by which I think you mean passionate and loving) it means they truly care and feel a deep connection with their partner.
They're intensely carefree, 😂. That's a good healthy attitude and the type of person who has the ability to differentiate the two. Probably, barring tragedy, is going to live a long & healthy life. I think it's the same as being able to strike a balance between work and play.
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Because they don't waste emotions on petty things. Makes their lives much less stressful
It can be attributed to your natal chart if you're into astrology. People born in late June/early-mid July tend to fall in love faster and more intensely than one born in late July-early Mid August.
I would say you hit the nail on the head. I’m a very carefree friend and an intense lover. That being said, I’ve only had three boyfriends
I’m a very passionate person underneath it allI think its more a matter of where your priorities lie. If you are happy in your life and carefree, it doesn't mean your attitude to someone you love is gonna be the same.
I think is around your friend people tend to be very comfortable with each other her with lover your trying to hard. The love is your trusting them with your heart.
Sounds like they're very passionate about what's important to them.
I think you are trying to hard to categorize people lol
Because people are as varied as the stars in the sky.
Maybe because they dont give much importance to their friends as they give to their partner?
Actually they are carefree.
Because they are comfortable enough to purely abandoned themselves upon one another
I'm like that my boyfriend is the only one I trust
Cuz the'yre pussies yo
Can one not be carefree and empathetic/intense?
I think I'm mildly carefree and not intense at all
I am intense with people
because love life is different
Do you mean intense lovers like during sex?
Why does it matter?
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