Polls

It seems to almost be a requirement for being lesbian these days, but I personally could just never get into tattoos. I don't know why, but to me they never enhanced a woman's appearance, and I just like clear bare skin so much more. Clear skin is just so much easier on the eyes in my opinion.

It's gotten to the point where clear bare skin is a massive turn on to me just because of how rare it is. If I got get me a woman with clear legs/thighs like that Natalie Portman pic... oh the things I'd do to her.

However, I'd like to point out I wouldn't reject an otherwise good woman over tattoos. I'd just prefer her to not have any if I could choose.

I thought it was salmon 😭. Im going to airfry it instead of making it on a pan today

So i went into a relationship with my best friend since an year and i recently broke up with him because I knew there is no future because of family difference and cultural differences also it was nearly that he started giving me less time which made me think the same so i thought it was stupidity to get more attached to him.
We decided to stay good friends.
Like before.
It is possible we could be?
Or what?
Ps. I don’t really have friends in my college except him.
And we still hangout a lot.
Is it a good decision?

Have you found, or heard from others, that wearing glasses makes your vision worse overall when you're not wearing them?

Do you become dependent on glasses?

My husband is finding this. I am finding this. But ophthalmologists keep telling me it isn't possible. "Because eye muscles are not like other muscles of the body which can be strengthened through training." It feels like the eyes relax and get used to having the glasses, and then when they're gone, it's harder to transition between distances, without them.

Do you agree or disagree? (Ophthalmologists have a reason to deny this. They are in the business of selling glasses.)

So the lonely neighbor that gossips and is full of drama has been sent to spam box. I didn't respond to her text yesterday and now today i get a spam alert of her texting me at 7am saying ,"good morning." At this point I don't get what she doesn't get cause if it were me I would never beg anyone to talk to me

Rights and laws to protect unattractive women from getting overlooked in job interviews, and to protect against them getting longer prison sentences than what they would otherwise face if they were more attractive.

Also, a law to ban men's insensitive tendency to flirt with an attractive woman standing right next to an unattractive woman. I mean honestly, why do men think that that is okay? Fine, you think the other one is attractive, but have the decency to wait until there aren't any other women around for god sakes.

This morning, I was watching the news, and they did an interview with a Psychologist from a local university, who spoke about microaggression.

I was struck by how interpretive, cultural, and generation-specific her comments seemed to be. This is what university students (especially female, as they tend to be the majority of those enrolled in psychology and the humanities) are being taught today. (She looked young, I would have guessed she was a student, but her title was Psychologist, so she's evidently graduated and is now teaching at the university. That means she is either Gen Z or Millennial.) This must be in their curriculum.

So, here's the question for you - do you consider someone being asked these questions microaggressions, or are they examples of over-sensitivity and victim mentality?

Examples:

"Your English is good."

"Where are you from?"

She claims this "Leads To:

• Increase in negative emotions
• Feelings of being different, not included
• Feeling not valued
• Increases in blood pressure
• Increases in cortisol
• Higher rates of inflammation
• Poorer sleep
• Faster cellular aging"

At the end, I was happy to hear the news anchor say to her, "But sometimes these questions might not be microaggressions, right? Sometimes they might just be genuine questions, out of curiosity. Maybe it's a good idea to ask a follow-up question, to find out." And to that, she agreed.