Polls

I think I did a post a while ago about swim sets I can wear as clothing, from physiotherapy to the pool for water therapy when I didn’t have time to change clothes between. I have not tried on the bottoms yet but basically like black leggings so I don’t expect surprises. I happened to be wearing cotton pants when I tried on the top and now I’m thinking I can wear swim shorts under cotton pants as a change from the swim leggings to switch it up — then I’m just tossing the pants off no time spent.

Anyhow out of the five or whatever options I chose this one. The startrecky one was my favorite but they were out 😛

(Im not bothered if it does look like swim stuff I’m just curious bc to me I was surprised how clothing-like, the top looks.)

I am just wondering about an old friend / former colleague. I don't have any intentions of encroaching if he is engaged/involved with another woman.

But someone told me he was engaged. I've known him for well over a year. He doesn't have a ring. He doesn't have a ring line. And he has never once, even in passing, mentioned a fiance.

Never mind when I happened to drop by in a professional blouse & dress pants, that accented figure, he was staring. And when I happened to give him a big-ass smile, the cause was happy about something, in saying hello I'm pretty sure he was "struck dump" because he didn't answer what I asked him after.

I know it varies between different people, but I’m asking about the majority.

Lately, it seems like so many women are fans of abortion and feel like it’s their right. I’m just curious whether that feeling continues after they’ve actually gone through with it.

I’m using cassette tapes in this scenario bc recordings online don’t work as you can jut keep it and claim you deleted — and yes, I know you can record a cassette tape too but that requires a next level of deception & I think such a consciously untrustworthy person, would not be getting a cassette tape convo in the first place.

I saw an old movie where someone recorded their thoughts on a tape an gage it but I thought I would ask for it back bc I don't know in life in a conversation, you don’t record lol no one would want to be recorded 🤷🏻‍♀️ but in this movie they let with them keep the tape 👀 (plus, if they give it back, you know when they finished listening)

Just curious, bc I know I’d ask for it back, which I guess you may think it rude, but whatever lol it’s how a real convo would go, when it’s done it’s done- you only have your memory 😂

Today I met a family from Birmingham, England and the kids were fascinated by a herd of cows in a field. It turns out they'd never seen a real cow up close. Even odder until this week they hadn't even seen one from a car.
These weren't infants, they were at least 10 years old and I couldn't help thinking what shitty parents they must have, never taking their kids out of the city.
More importantly it's made me think how many people out there have never seen a cow in real life.

Several men and even young boys still put themselves right in front of danger. There was an article on youtube about a 6 year-old boy saving his younger sister from a dog but it cost him multiple facial surgeries... so young and already making a decision like that. They could've ran the other way in fear and save themselves but usually don't do that. Sadly, sometimes they get badly injured or die in the process.

I'm alive because of my 1st boyfriend pushing me out of the way (placing himself directly in danger) of a drunk driver long ago. We were just 19 at the time. Sadly he died after saying blurting out the last words ''I love you''. He was so young with his whole life ahead.

By placing themselves in danger, they are choosing the other person's life and safety over their own. Is that naturally innate, taught or both?

This man is obsessed with me, a complete loser and psychopath. I was put into a hotel for safety and he shouldn’t have known where I was. I spotted his car on the premises and someone in the hotel window near my room looked exactly like him. I complained about noise and the hotel claimed the room was vacant (the same room I spotted a man who looked exactly like him in the window) they also said if I called the police they’d throw me out the hotel. Seems like they didn’t want any drama because an organization placed me there for safety and if the organization found out and police confirmed everything they’d be in deep shit renting a room to my harasser. Also it’s not a 5 star hotel, a shitty hotel and money hungry people from another country.

My ex and I had a messy fight a few weeks ago and he hasn't been the same since. Before I knew I made him happy, he has told me several times that he has never loved someone as much as he loves me. But he told me something changed after that fight. It has been on off for just under three weeks until a few days ago when he told me to move out. He told me he needs space and maybe we can try again when he's back. He's going to Spain next week and will be gone for two weeks. I made the mistake of not giving him space because I wanted to talk, I hadn't had a chance to explain how I felt. I showed up and he was so happy to see me. He showed me how he's been Journaling about me, how he went down to a print shop to print a picture of me from the beginning of our relationship when things were good to keep with him at all times, all the things he said and did pointed towards him missing me, wanting to get back together and fix things. I moved my things back in. Then, out of the blue, he feels depressed. He said it was too soon, then he said he doesn't want this at all. He said he's just been trying to convince himself that we can go back to normal even though he knows we can't. This confused me because in the last two weeks he had told me that he's so proud of being seen with me, that he wants to move overseas with me, that I'm the only person who understands him, he has been telling me that he loves me a lot more than usual. Now I don't know what's true, the person he is when he's happy is so different from the person he is when he's resentful. I begged and pleaded, it wasn't a good look and I don't know if I ruined my chances. I need a second opinion please, do you think he'll come back? Do you think he still loves me? If he doesn't, why has he said all these things?