Polls

which one is considered most attractive, generally speaking?

This isn't a post to make fun of overweight people, just at the excuses for it that are used.

Sometimes there are legitimate reasons, but more times it is like, not so much.

I think I have heard every excuse under the sun but maybe I am wrong so share the excuses you have heard... or are they real reasons?

... just wondering? :)

My father's only wishes were for me. They were to be accepted at Harvard University (the same one he studied) and be happily married. I'm single but his first wish came true. He died of cancer when I was 15 but before his death, he left a wrapped present. However his wording on it said not to open it till my wedding day.

I think it's sad because I can't share my acceptance letter with him. If one of your wishes came true after death, is this a happy or sad ending?

I asked this before as a general question, but then thought I should have done it as a poll. Sorry if read and/or replied to the first one.

There is this guy at work who is apparently usually really confident and pretty flirty, but is always kind of awkward around me.

He barely looks me in the eye, but I’m nearly positive that I’ve seen him looking at me out of the corner of my eye.

He took several months to speak to me (other than saying ‘good morning’ once or twice) but is always friendly to me, and seems to stick around for a bit whenever he sees me.

He finally properly introduced himself to me the other day and looked me in the eye and said it was nice to meet me - doesn’t sound like much, I know, but this guy never looks me in the eye! Even if we are having a conversation!

Once he had finally introduced himself, he suddenly kept appearing for the rest of the day - when I don’t usually see him that often. It just seemed a bit too coincidental.

He did ask me what I was doing after work once, but I was busy, then when I asked him the same thing, he answered in a kind of awkward and overly casual way that he was free.

He told me about himself, his home town/state, his interests, and his friends in the first conversation - probably nothing, but I now know more about him and his background than several people on my own team.

I’ve definitely noticed him, but as I don’t really know him yet I wouldn’t go as far to say I like him. I guess I just want to know if he’s noticed me too. I’m great at reading guys when it is my friends they are/are not interested in, but am terrible when it comes to me.

I personally think I fit at least the "cute" category and I dress... well it varies. I don't think I dress bad, I dress quite femininely, heels, dresses... I have long blonde hair, pale skin and I'm quite young, 22. Unfortunately I'm short but of average height with decent butt and boobs.

I've always wondered whether I'm just lying to myself and I'm actually really ugly because catcalling never happened to me...

All I'm trying to say is whether these two things are connected.

Catcalled = you're pretty
Never catcalled = you're ugly

? It would make sense in a way...

I will be honest I have thought about holding it but never to a point where I could make a meme about it or even mention it on social platforms.

Literally was a guy saying only monkeys could be attracted to black men on my question about 2 black men. This was yesterday. He then proceeded to call black people the n word. Honestly I think he was just jealous that these guys are way better looking than him lol. But racist people in general are annoying, and bitter.

Been together for 7years. He has his final med exams and he isn't studying properly.. spending most of the time playing games and being hopeless that he'll fail anyhow and will reappear for exams.
Yesterday i was kinda being BRUTALLY HONEST with him and told him to think about his carrier and goals so that he can Have some motive to study. (He dosen't like thinking about future becz it stresses him). And get a bit more serious and stuff. Bcz i have been motiving him to study since 2-3 months and still he isn't doing well.
Now i feel really guilty for making him feel bad about himself and the fact that he was constantly thinking about what I said.

In the same way it’s proud to be black, Hispanic, Asian and so on?

I seriously cannot decide by myself which coat to get. Both are gorgeous and both would come in handy.

The red/burgundy coat is just so pretty, it's such a lovely color but at this time it isn't available in petite lengths :(

Black option is still available in petite and despite it being classy and versatile, it's also boring in a way and I have to admit I already own quite a lot of black in my closet.

So, which color would you guys get or simply find more appealing?

I don't watch them. I actually practice a sport (Judo) 3x a week and come home very tired. On the little time available, I'll continue progressing on my 2,000 pieces puzzle, cook other dishes or pastry, read more and perhaps start on my own novel.

When you're watching a sport (or yelling at game/TV), all you're doing is cheering for someone else's fame. That someone else has worked hard, is healthy and is exhausted at the end. Similarly when you're watching a soap opera, you're watching someone else's success. You're cheering for others but yourself.

Thing you're not able to do if you're on the TV for hours watching sports and soap operas:
- Meet new people
- Earn money or learn new things/skills
- Cultivate your mind with knowledge
- Perhaps meet your boyfriend/girlfriend
- Get healthy