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Is the problem more about fear of rejection rather than men having to be the ones to actually approach?

My morning showers are shorter than my after work night showers. I usually take a 10 minute shower in the morning and 20 minutes after work.

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I personally think that Black guys are more extroverted. They are vibrant, extroverted and jolly.

White guys look more dark and mysterious to me.

I don’t at all. Just don’t like fat or bald guys. Or guys who’s hairline is pushed too far back. That’s not high lol. Oh and they can’t be shorter than me for dating.

I only asked for specific things bc my boyfriend isn't good with thinking of gifts (his words)
I wanted 1 rose and for us to go to dinner (we're splitting the bill)
I also wanted a card that says I love you in his writing.

I'm making him this cake and I bought him a few things.

You can only pick one

1. If you've advanced what type of work do they have you doing now?

2. If you haven't advanced , explain why?

Why, or why not?

Okay…..

so there were incidents with my boyfriend, that made me question about our relationship. Communication wise.

whenever I discuss with him about something, he makes jokes about it.

Example: I was telling him a story about me going to a Mormon church meeting. That he asked “are those the people who wear white gowns and burn black people on the cross?” I responded with “what?, no. That’s the ‘ku klux klan’.” Then he made a joke comment, “really? I thought you had a membership 😄” 🤨…. so I was kinda uncomfortable about that comment. Then he kept going on saying “you should join, cause you already look white lol.”

Then I changed the subject and was talking about my family. How my mom punishes my sisters and I, whenever our partners are unhappy. Like it’s our fault. Then my boyfriend made another comment saying “haha, so your mom would like me better than you.”

I mean I was kinda stunned about this conversation and what he said. That I let him go and hung up the phone. Now I’m here questioning and wondering how our relationship will be in the future. “Will he be supportive of me and be on my side and protect me? Or will he make fun of me in sensitive matters?”

Sounds very nice

My supervisor has 3 children, an 8 year-old girl and two 11 year-old twin boys. The girl has been always kicking, passing and touching the ball from an early age. Unfortunately not many girls are into that so she plays with boys her age for the meantime; winning some.

The parents tried to get her brothers motivated into playing soccer but they have no interest and aren't great either. Only the girl seems natural at it and loves it. She wants to be a soccer player and participate in the Fifa women's world cup in the future.

Basically their daughter is doing what they would've wished their sons were great at. If your were the parent would you feel bad if only your girl was good with the ball but not your son (s)?