Do You Think That You Have High Standards When It Comes To Finding People Attractive?

[Aphrodite801]

I don’t at all. Just don’t like fat or bald guys. Or guys who’s hairline is pushed too far back. That’s not high lol. Oh and they can’t be shorter than me for dating.

Yes I do have high standards when it comes to physical attraction

No I don’t have high standards when it comes to physical attraction

Updates

+1 y

Hmm, seeing way more women mentioning how they don’t want a bald guy or a guy with a receding hairline than I thought I would. Interesting.

[EmyyWolf]

Yes I have some standards when it comes to physical attraction.
Like I can’t do fat guys either, or bald guys, or guys with their hairline pushed back. And I personally don’t like really skinny guys either. It has to be someone in the middle. That’s about it. He don’t have to be rich or anything like that at all.

But to keep physical attraction and SIZE really matter cause otherwise how am I supposed to get wet? It’s just not gonna happen.

[Buttsvifer]

Check out short dick man by 20 fingers. It's an absolute banger if a song u recently found. It makes me feel like I took crack, best song ever

[norakray]

Who big does his size gotta be tho?

[EmyyWolf]

@norakray well my previous partner was just about 7 1/2 inches. I’d just feel more comfortable with someone like that, because it’s what I’ve gotten use to for over 2 years

[norakray]

@EmyyWolf that's way too and rare size, I myself am almost 4 inches and my size is more average so you won't be finding a lot of 7 inchers

[maceygirl]

I've been told by some friends that I do have high standards. I do share your criteria in men concerning fitness and hair. Unfortunately this makes some people angry that I should consider anybody as long as our personalities click. But I still think physical attraction is important in a romantic relationship.

[melanieeeB]

No but it's really rare that I find someone attractive at all

[RichyRich887]

Why is that are you not into guys?

[melanieeeB]

No I'm totally into men but not everyone is my type

[Joker_]

is it a high standard to not date fat or black girls ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎

[Aphrodite801]

Are you black?

[Joker_]

Nope, but @Cringe is

[Cringe]

Supㅤ

[Aphrodite801]

No, many women wouldn’t date you cause of your race either. Even your own lmao

[Joker_]

Women wouldn't date me

[Medicalbug]

I actually like the opposite of what I often see praised here. I don't like muscly, beefy tall men. No six-packs necessary and I prefer men around my height (5'7), in the range of 5'4 - 5'10. I don't care if they are bald, but I do like them smaller, so not very stocky or too chubby (some chub is fine). If I had to get picky, I would prefer Asian faces, using Koreans and Indians as examples, but I have dated mostly Europeans who have fine facial features, meaning delicate bone structures and larger eyes. I don't like blocky heads and massive jaws or anything that makes someone look like they murder people for a living. If you could snap me in two just by the way you look, you are not for me!

[shhrmannj]

You are 5'7 yet you'd like a man 5'4-5'6 too? Wouldn't they be smaller than you?

[shhrmannj]

You don't care about bald heads too... or them being skinny?

[Medicalbug]

My last two exes were 5’6. One might have been 5’5. I don’t personally see that as a problem - I actually do not understand why so many women like tall men, at least my gut does not. I don’t like it when I lose eye contact. So that applies for men who are too much shorter than I am as well - like a 5’0 guy is not my type either. I feel too different? Same with a 6’0 guy - it’s like he is another species? I don’t have this feeling for anything but size difference. Height is gaged by eye contact and how natural it feels (same level is the best), but if they are just too huge and muscular and bulky, I just don’t like the visual effect. Skinny and bald is fine. I don’t care about skin color either.

[shhrmannj]

That's so cool of you to think that way. But if a guy is 5'5 he's already 2 Inches smaller than you... which would be significant and you could feel it... and if you wear heels he'd be dwarfed by you then... no?
If he's smaller than you wouldn't you find him less man?

[Medicalbug]

I honestly can’t feel height differences too acutely if we’re talking an inch or two difference. When I’m in heels, I always dwarf my partners, but I don’t care since it’s temporary. If I have to wear heels to look someone in the eye though, it’s tiring and annoying. Also, I like kissing standing up and you can’t really do that naked in heels. Well you can but you know what I mean. I don’t like standing there and looking at someone’s nipples.
Less of a man? Why? Do less inches in height subtract from them? I don’t understand that concept at all. I mean if size made a man, then guys all just need to gain 200 pounds and they’d be more of a man. I really don’t feel this statement at all. Also just because I don’t think someone is attractive because they are 6 feet, doesn’t make them less of a man. It’s just not my type.

[shhrmannj]

In fact even short or average women ( 5'4 or less) want men to be around 6 feet tall and you despite being tall for a woman don't really care even about shorter or short men ( men are considered short if they are 5'7 or less in the society).
Have you ever felt or known a man who felt insecure or intimidated by you being taller than him?
What if a man is 5'5 and skinny too? Still attractive and manly?
Also how do you feel about body hair especially thighs and torao hair?

[Medicalbug]

@shhrmannj I've had previous discussions where I explained my views on why women like men to be taller than them - in most cases, it is an evolutionary residual that still rings back the old days when strength and physical prowess meant survival for men and by proxy, for women, who were physically not selected for such traits.
If you think about it, this only recently started to change, so it is normal that it is widespread and even women who are otherwise "modern" often find themselves feeling this. I know people - and many of them are like "why do I feel this way, men don't need to be taller and stronger anymore!!!"
So why am I not like that? Well, nowadays we have lots of phenotypes around, as our genetic diversity is much higher and some of the hidden potential of what human beings could be is starting to emerge. Like 200 years ago, I might have protested not wanting a marriage to a tall guy or my dad's old business associate, but no one listened or cared. A lot of times, people like me never made it very far either, since fringe interests weren't catered to in societies where the survival margin was so tight.
Nowadays, however, people like me can choose and we also exist freely without fear of seeming "rebellious" or "hysterical" or "witchy" or whatever people referred to women back in the old days when they weren't on the bell curve.

[Medicalbug]

@shhrmannj I was born without the feeling that I need a tall, big man and completely lack a desire to want to feel "protected" or smaller or weaker. I am the type who likes to get things done on my own and feel challenged by people who want to make me feel weak. I'm not belligerent or a "man-hater" (the stereotype) - I simply don't think about it any differently than if a man were a woman. If a woman were always trying to patronize me, I wouldn't have it either.
My ideal partner is not a challenger, but an equal - I can look him in the eye and we are kind of physically similar. Maybe not entirely (I know men are still stronger than women), but I don't feel like we are much different when I am around him.
None of the men I dated felt insecure about being a couple of inches shorter than me. I also don't care if someone is a couple of inches taller, like 5'9. I honestly can't tell, it's not noticeable. Depending on the footwear, everyone can be the same height at those levels anyway, and I don't just mean wearing heels. 5'5 is perfectly fine, like I said, one of my exes was that tall.
I've never dated a really super short guy before, so I can't tell you what they'd feel like. Again, this is too different for me, if someone is like 5'1. Bowing down is no more comfortable than bending up and standing on my toes. I can tell you that when I once made the mistake of hooking up with a guy who was 6'1, all it took was seeing that my head was level with his nipples for me to feel turned off. Like it was just not a nice feeling at all.
Skinny is fine and body hair is fine too. Nothing messy though. Keep it neat.

[shhrmannj]

You had this height preference in men even as a teen/mid twenties girl?

[Aphrodite801]

Lol at blocky heads 😂 yeah guys with weird shaped heads are a no.

[Medicalbug]

@shhrmannj I don't know why you'd think I'd be less picky in my teens or 20s - if anything, I've gotten more easy-going with age. If you'd asked 20 year old me if I'd consider a hook-up/relationship with a 6 footer, I would have cringed in horror. Nowadays, I'm like, well, if the personality was so amazing that I'd forget the fact I was constantly staring at his nipples, maybe? Not likely, but unlike young me, who was super picky, older me is at least sort of open to it?
I don't know - is it your experience that people get pickier with age? Maybe some. But not me - at least not with looks. I'm pickier now with personalities though. At 20 I was still not aware of exactly what I wanted personality-wise. Just physically.

[shhrmannj]

I meant as a teen or mid twenties girl you'd be more inclined for taller and bigger men as most of them are... and with age they overlook shortness/accept it if they are genuinely attracted to the person otherwise

[Medicalbug]

@shhrmannj But I already told you that I was born without that. Literally - just two replies ago. Did you miss it?

[Aphrodite801]

@shh you can’t speak for every woman. Plus you’re generalizing. I don’t know an older woman who has overlooked shortness for a guy lmao

[Aphrodite801]

I’m also gonna assume you’re that 5’5 skinny guy you keep spamming my comments about.

[Medicalbug]

@aphrodite801 Right? Lol. I just clearly explained by position to the guy and he acted like I must be mistaken ABOUT MY OWN PREFERENCES. This is definitely a quality in men I DON'T like - when they generalize us and then try to mansplain what we really think.
Also yes. He is that 5'5 skinny guy and doesn't understand that even we say "I love skinny guys who are 5'5" on GAG, that does mean we want him. I don't know how many times guys have asked me if I'd accept a short guy (or bald or skinny) and if I say yes, they offer themselves like cattle. This is not a dating site.

[Medicalbug]

*my position

[Medicalbug]

* does not mean we want him. oh man, the typos are strong with me today.

[Aphrodite801]

Yeah lol these guys are hilarious

[shhrmannj]

Ok. And you women won't understand what we feel and go through being short and skinny... hence you both are making fun of our behaviour. Also no guy is offering himself to a woman if he's commenting on a woman's post. The thing is that everywhere we get to know and realise that being short and or skinny is one of the worst things that happen to a man and this makes him less desirable and less of a man.
Women feel so superior if a guy taks to them isn't it. Ah... ok

[Medicalbug]

@shhrmannj First of all, no one is making fun of short, skinny guys. If you'd bothered to read a word I said, you would clearly see that I expressed a preference for that physical type.
The thing that annoys me is the fact that you DON'T read. You kept suggesting that I was wrong about my own feelings, which is extremely disrespectful. I am not ALL women, I am ME and I told you what I feel and think. Go on, look back at the thread and see where you went wrong, you might learn something.
Perhaps that is your problem with women, not your height or the fact that you are skinny - that you think all women are the same and you don't take us seriously when we give you our opinions. We are people and we are not the root of your insecurities. You are.

[Cherry234]

I wouldn't say my physical standards of attractiveness are high. I like you I don't want a man that's shorter than me. It's definitely a turn off me. Some other things I don't like are men with big bushy beards, men with long hair, man buns, and men with tattoos all over their bodies including their faces. Also, obesity is a dealbreaker for me.

[Cherry234]

*Like you

[Aphrodite801]

Yeah I don’t like big beards either or men with long hair

[Cherry234]

Glad I'm not the only one. Besides, most men don't have long hair.

[Cherry234]

Why tf did someone downvote me?

[shhrmannj]

How about skinny man?

[Cherry234]

@shhrmannj That's fine.

[NutellaTrish]

I don’t think I have high standards! I only have two really big ones!


1. They can’t be super overweight.
2. They have to have exceptionally well personal hygiene. I’d consider that a physical attractiveness thing, considering that someone who is dirty/smelly is going to be significantly less physically attractive.

[shhrmannj]

How about being skinny or not tall?

[SenileOldMan]

At least not compared to this site. I was sorta shocked by this site. Well, one thing is that I don't think intuitively in terms of ratings, like "she's a 9, she's a 7, she's an 8." I just think "she's attractive, or she's not my type." And most women I find are attractive enough to me.

[Rei13]

I feel like mine can be high. Guy has to be taller than me (but in all fairness everyone is taller than me as I’m really short). He can’t be bald/have a receding hairline, it is ok to be heavier but not obese, and on the flip side I don’t like super muscular guys either. He has to have good teeth, good hygiene and stuff like that.

[shhrmannj]

You are 29 hence it's ok to want a guy with full head hair.. but suppose he is having nice full head now but later in relationship after a certain age he starts to get bald head/receding hairline then?

[Rei13]

@shhrmannj I wouldn’t leave someone over something like that. It wouldn’t be my preference but at that point if it’s a good relationship I don’t think that matters so much

[Oigit]

In general I don't. But it can throw women for a loop because my mental and emotional standards are higher then my physical standards. It's comes from meeting a couple women that where physically very attractive. But who they where as a person made them really ugly people in general. There are some behaviors that I'm not going to accept and will pretty much cause my attraction in a person to drop like a rock. Even if physically she is really attractive.

[shaysh87]

I am personally not attracted to guys with a receding hairline , hair loss, any sort of fatness either. I like men with a chiseled masculine face, preferably caucasian, tall, muscular, full head of hair. I'm most attracted to men in their mid 20s to early 30s.

[shhrmannj]

But if with age later in the relationship he ets bald head then?

[shaysh87]

@shhrmannj

That’s like asking a young 20 something yr old couple , what will happen once they both hit their 60s.

[JBlade]

No, I don’t think I have high standards for physical attractiveness. However, I do have high standards for personality attractiveness. That doesn’t mean I need someone to super interesting or whatever. I’m trying to live a relatively simple life with someone I respect, I can tell if someone is a reckless individual or if our lifestyles won’t match.

[Lucy-123]

For me how attractive I find someone is very dependent on how well I know them. So there are plenty of people who when I first met thought they weren't very physically attractive but I now find more physically attractive than any model or anything like that, despite not being so from an "objective" standpoint. By "objective" I mean how closely they fit beauty standards.

[Rambling010]

If I was a woman I wouldn't find six pack guys attractive. Unless they were a cool pro wrestler or had a non jockish personality or something. It just seems like people from that genre or stereotype are all testosterone and it's too much to deal with.

Women like confidence and personality. Those six packs only take you so far. Though some girls like guys that that are overly macho. I'm not a pansy leftist or anything, I'm an alpha male. But I'm not a jerk that has no emotions.

I'm not a meathead that preys on woman like that. Neither am I fat but there is no sick pack. That shit takes outrageous amounts of gym time and youth, lol. If I had a six-pack like that I would be the perfect package. LOL

[Dinklex3]

I don't think of my standards as "high" or "low".
They're just mine.
And if others don't fit.. that's just something that affects me. I don't know why others get so upset when people don't want to settle.
If they're bitching and complaining about not being able to find someone like that, then yeah sure. But so many people snide others just because they aren't interested in them.

[Yurrasis]

I think what we define as low/high standard is subjective. If we're talking about physical traits, I just want a guy noticeably taller and larger than me. Nice smile and hair.

I feel like I am judgmental with determining whether someone is aesthetically pleasing to look at, however, once I like someone, they somehow merge with my standards. They become the definition of perfect for me.

[Babygirl_S]

I don't even know. I only like tall and handsome north Indian and white men. I don't set standards but that's what naturally attracts me and I wish I could do something about it. The average person doesn't attract me physically but I have been told I'm not average either.
I don't care too much about body though. I don't expect a man to have huge muscles and abs. I just don't like too fat. Handsome faces attract me. I can't do anything about it.

[shhrmannj]

What's your height and how tall should he at least be?

[Xoxocutekitty]

taller than 4' 11", full head of hair (no balding), cleany shaven, slim to average build, boy door next door face (not macho), within /-3 years age of me.

My standards for personality and compatible lifestyle are much higher.

[shhrmannj]

You are young in mid twenties hence it's ok to want a guy with full head hair.. but suppose he is having nice full head now but later in relationship after a certain age he starts to get bald head/receding hairline then?

[Malgaran]

I probably have high standard cause I can only think of 2 women I ever met who had it, and it was just genuine kindness. I honestly don't care how you look at all. I would just want something real and honest, a true kind soul, that to me is all the attraction needed.

[nice-girl]

No, the only standard I have is not being shorter then me. I want to be the pretty one, I don't care so much about their appearance.
Some people don't understand that being healthy is good-looking especially for men.

[Lucina_Rose]

Sexist, selfish response

[shhrmannj]

What's your height

[nice-girl]

@shhrmannj 173 cm

[shhrmannj]

How tall should a man at least be?

[nice-girl]

@shhrmannj At least my height

[Aphrodite801]

Lol at the triggered girl

[Anonymous]

When a guy is a really nice person and funny, that's a super boost, even if I didn't find them cute at all before knowing that part of them. And it has happened that sometimes someone is hot and his attitude just makes him ugly af to me.

[NewYorkCity]

My only standard when it comes to a physical body is her having a Very nice Ass (not phat) but a curve bubble butt and of course she has to have a Great personality.