Yes I have some standards when it comes to physical attraction.
Like I can’t do fat guys either, or bald guys, or guys with their hairline pushed back. And I personally don’t like really skinny guys either. It has to be someone in the middle. That’s about it. He don’t have to be rich or anything like that at all.
But to keep physical attraction and SIZE really matter cause otherwise how am I supposed to get wet? It’s just not gonna happen.
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@norakray well my previous partner was just about 7 1/2 inches. I’d just feel more comfortable with someone like that, because it’s what I’ve gotten use to for over 2 years
I've been told by some friends that I do have high standards. I do share your criteria in men concerning fitness and hair. Unfortunately this makes some people angry that I should consider anybody as long as our personalities click. But I still think physical attraction is important in a romantic relationship.
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No but it's really rare that I find someone attractive at all
Why is that are you not into guys?
No I'm totally into men but not everyone is my type
is it a high standard to not date fat or black girls
Are you black?
No, many women wouldn’t date you cause of your race either. Even your own lmao
I actually like the opposite of what I often see praised here. I don't like muscly, beefy tall men. No six-packs necessary and I prefer men around my height (5'7), in the range of 5'4 - 5'10. I don't care if they are bald, but I do like them smaller, so not very stocky or too chubby (some chub is fine). If I had to get picky, I would prefer Asian faces, using Koreans and Indians as examples, but I have dated mostly Europeans who have fine facial features, meaning delicate bone structures and larger eyes. I don't like blocky heads and massive jaws or anything that makes someone look like they murder people for a living. If you could snap me in two just by the way you look, you are not for me!
My last two exes were 5’6. One might have been 5’5. I don’t personally see that as a problem - I actually do not understand why so many women like tall men, at least my gut does not. I don’t like it when I lose eye contact. So that applies for men who are too much shorter than I am as well - like a 5’0 guy is not my type either. I feel too different? Same with a 6’0 guy - it’s like he is another species? I don’t have this feeling for anything but size difference. Height is gaged by eye contact and how natural it feels (same level is the best), but if they are just too huge and muscular and bulky, I just don’t like the visual effect. Skinny and bald is fine. I don’t care about skin color either.
I honestly can’t feel height differences too acutely if we’re talking an inch or two difference. When I’m in heels, I always dwarf my partners, but I don’t care since it’s temporary. If I have to wear heels to look someone in the eye though, it’s tiring and annoying. Also, I like kissing standing up and you can’t really do that naked in heels. Well you can but you know what I mean. I don’t like standing there and looking at someone’s nipples.
Less of a man? Why? Do less inches in height subtract from them? I don’t understand that concept at all. I mean if size made a man, then guys all just need to gain 200 pounds and they’d be more of a man. I really don’t feel this statement at all. Also just because I don’t think someone is attractive because they are 6 feet, doesn’t make them less of a man. It’s just not my type.
In fact even short or average women ( 5'4 or less) want men to be around 6 feet tall and you despite being tall for a woman don't really care even about shorter or short men ( men are considered short if they are 5'7 or less in the society).
Have you ever felt or known a man who felt insecure or intimidated by you being taller than him?
What if a man is 5'5 and skinny too? Still attractive and manly?
Also how do you feel about body hair especially thighs and torao hair?
@shhrmannj I've had previous discussions where I explained my views on why women like men to be taller than them - in most cases, it is an evolutionary residual that still rings back the old days when strength and physical prowess meant survival for men and by proxy, for women, who were physically not selected for such traits.
If you think about it, this only recently started to change, so it is normal that it is widespread and even women who are otherwise "modern" often find themselves feeling this. I know people - and many of them are like "why do I feel this way, men don't need to be taller and stronger anymore!!!"
So why am I not like that? Well, nowadays we have lots of phenotypes around, as our genetic diversity is much higher and some of the hidden potential of what human beings could be is starting to emerge. Like 200 years ago, I might have protested not wanting a marriage to a tall guy or my dad's old business associate, but no one listened or cared. A lot of times, people like me never made it very far either, since fringe interests weren't catered to in societies where the survival margin was so tight.
Nowadays, however, people like me can choose and we also exist freely without fear of seeming "rebellious" or "hysterical" or "witchy" or whatever people referred to women back in the old days when they weren't on the bell curve.
@shhrmannj I was born without the feeling that I need a tall, big man and completely lack a desire to want to feel "protected" or smaller or weaker. I am the type who likes to get things done on my own and feel challenged by people who want to make me feel weak. I'm not belligerent or a "man-hater" (the stereotype) - I simply don't think about it any differently than if a man were a woman. If a woman were always trying to patronize me, I wouldn't have it either.
My ideal partner is not a challenger, but an equal - I can look him in the eye and we are kind of physically similar. Maybe not entirely (I know men are still stronger than women), but I don't feel like we are much different when I am around him.
None of the men I dated felt insecure about being a couple of inches shorter than me. I also don't care if someone is a couple of inches taller, like 5'9. I honestly can't tell, it's not noticeable. Depending on the footwear, everyone can be the same height at those levels anyway, and I don't just mean wearing heels. 5'5 is perfectly fine, like I said, one of my exes was that tall.
I've never dated a really super short guy before, so I can't tell you what they'd feel like. Again, this is too different for me, if someone is like 5'1. Bowing down is no more comfortable than bending up and standing on my toes. I can tell you that when I once made the mistake of hooking up with a guy who was 6'1, all it took was seeing that my head was level with his nipples for me to feel turned off. Like it was just not a nice feeling at all.
Skinny is fine and body hair is fine too. Nothing messy though. Keep it neat.
Lol at blocky heads 😂 yeah guys with weird shaped heads are a no.
@shhrmannj I don't know why you'd think I'd be less picky in my teens or 20s - if anything, I've gotten more easy-going with age. If you'd asked 20 year old me if I'd consider a hook-up/relationship with a 6 footer, I would have cringed in horror. Nowadays, I'm like, well, if the personality was so amazing that I'd forget the fact I was constantly staring at his nipples, maybe? Not likely, but unlike young me, who was super picky, older me is at least sort of open to it?
I don't know - is it your experience that people get pickier with age? Maybe some. But not me - at least not with looks. I'm pickier now with personalities though. At 20 I was still not aware of exactly what I wanted personality-wise. Just physically.
@shhrmannj But I already told you that I was born without that. Literally - just two replies ago. Did you miss it?
@shh you can’t speak for every woman. Plus you’re generalizing. I don’t know an older woman who has overlooked shortness for a guy lmao
I’m also gonna assume you’re that 5’5 skinny guy you keep spamming my comments about.
@aphrodite801 Right? Lol. I just clearly explained by position to the guy and he acted like I must be mistaken ABOUT MY OWN PREFERENCES. This is definitely a quality in men I DON'T like - when they generalize us and then try to mansplain what we really think.
Also yes. He is that 5'5 skinny guy and doesn't understand that even we say "I love skinny guys who are 5'5" on GAG, that does mean we want him. I don't know how many times guys have asked me if I'd accept a short guy (or bald or skinny) and if I say yes, they offer themselves like cattle. This is not a dating site.
*my position
* does not mean we want him. oh man, the typos are strong with me today.
Yeah lol these guys are hilarious
Ok. And you women won't understand what we feel and go through being short and skinny... hence you both are making fun of our behaviour. Also no guy is offering himself to a woman if he's commenting on a woman's post. The thing is that everywhere we get to know and realise that being short and or skinny is one of the worst things that happen to a man and this makes him less desirable and less of a man.
Women feel so superior if a guy taks to them isn't it. Ah... ok
@shhrmannj First of all, no one is making fun of short, skinny guys. If you'd bothered to read a word I said, you would clearly see that I expressed a preference for that physical type.
The thing that annoys me is the fact that you DON'T read. You kept suggesting that I was wrong about my own feelings, which is extremely disrespectful. I am not ALL women, I am ME and I told you what I feel and think. Go on, look back at the thread and see where you went wrong, you might learn something.
Perhaps that is your problem with women, not your height or the fact that you are skinny - that you think all women are the same and you don't take us seriously when we give you our opinions. We are people and we are not the root of your insecurities. You are.
I wouldn't say my physical standards of attractiveness are high. I like you I don't want a man that's shorter than me. It's definitely a turn off me. Some other things I don't like are men with big bushy beards, men with long hair, man buns, and men with tattoos all over their bodies including their faces. Also, obesity is a dealbreaker for me.
Yeah I don’t like big beards either or men with long hair
I don’t think I have high standards! I only have two really big ones!
1. They can’t be super overweight.
2. They have to have exceptionally well personal hygiene. I’d consider that a physical attractiveness thing, considering that someone who is dirty/smelly is going to be significantly less physically attractive.
At least not compared to this site. I was sorta shocked by this site. Well, one thing is that I don't think intuitively in terms of ratings, like "she's a 9, she's a 7, she's an 8." I just think "she's attractive, or she's not my type." And most women I find are attractive enough to me.
I feel like mine can be high. Guy has to be taller than me (but in all fairness everyone is taller than me as I’m really short). He can’t be bald/have a receding hairline, it is ok to be heavier but not obese, and on the flip side I don’t like super muscular guys either. He has to have good teeth, good hygiene and stuff like that.
In general I don't. But it can throw women for a loop because my mental and emotional standards are higher then my physical standards. It's comes from meeting a couple women that where physically very attractive. But who they where as a person made them really ugly people in general. There are some behaviors that I'm not going to accept and will pretty much cause my attraction in a person to drop like a rock. Even if physically she is really attractive.
I am personally not attracted to guys with a receding hairline , hair loss, any sort of fatness either. I like men with a chiseled masculine face, preferably caucasian, tall, muscular, full head of hair. I'm most attracted to men in their mid 20s to early 30s.
No, I don’t think I have high standards for physical attractiveness. However, I do have high standards for personality attractiveness. That doesn’t mean I need someone to super interesting or whatever. I’m trying to live a relatively simple life with someone I respect, I can tell if someone is a reckless individual or if our lifestyles won’t match.
For me how attractive I find someone is very dependent on how well I know them. So there are plenty of people who when I first met thought they weren't very physically attractive but I now find more physically attractive than any model or anything like that, despite not being so from an "objective" standpoint. By "objective" I mean how closely they fit beauty standards.
If I was a woman I wouldn't find six pack guys attractive. Unless they were a cool pro wrestler or had a non jockish personality or something. It just seems like people from that genre or stereotype are all testosterone and it's too much to deal with.
Women like confidence and personality. Those six packs only take you so far. Though some girls like guys that that are overly macho. I'm not a pansy leftist or anything, I'm an alpha male. But I'm not a jerk that has no emotions.
I'm not a meathead that preys on woman like that. Neither am I fat but there is no sick pack. That shit takes outrageous amounts of gym time and youth, lol. If I had a six-pack like that I would be the perfect package. LOL
I don't think of my standards as "high" or "low".
They're just mine.
And if others don't fit.. that's just something that affects me. I don't know why others get so upset when people don't want to settle.
If they're bitching and complaining about not being able to find someone like that, then yeah sure. But so many people snide others just because they aren't interested in them.
I think what we define as low/high standard is subjective. If we're talking about physical traits, I just want a guy noticeably taller and larger than me. Nice smile and hair.
I feel like I am judgmental with determining whether someone is aesthetically pleasing to look at, however, once I like someone, they somehow merge with my standards. They become the definition of perfect for me.
I don't even know. I only like tall and handsome north Indian and white men. I don't set standards but that's what naturally attracts me and I wish I could do something about it. The average person doesn't attract me physically but I have been told I'm not average either.
I don't care too much about body though. I don't expect a man to have huge muscles and abs. I just don't like too fat. Handsome faces attract me. I can't do anything about it.
taller than 4' 11", full head of hair (no balding), cleany shaven, slim to average build, boy door next door face (not macho), within /-3 years age of me.
My standards for personality and compatible lifestyle are much higher.
I probably have high standard cause I can only think of 2 women I ever met who had it, and it was just genuine kindness. I honestly don't care how you look at all. I would just want something real and honest, a true kind soul, that to me is all the attraction needed.
No, the only standard I have is not being shorter then me. I want to be the pretty one, I don't care so much about their appearance.
Some people don't understand that being healthy is good-looking especially for men.
Sexist, selfish response
Lol at the triggered girl
When a guy is a really nice person and funny, that's a super boost, even if I didn't find them cute at all before knowing that part of them. And it has happened that sometimes someone is hot and his attitude just makes him ugly af to me.
My only standard when it comes to a physical body is her having a Very nice Ass (not phat) but a curve bubble butt and of course she has to have a Great personality.
For a fact women have much more standards. If you are short, broke, fat, or ugly, you may as well buy prostitutes or turn gay. Guys will get with any girl because sex is more important and will drop their standards if the sex is good. We do have preferences though. For example I’m an ass guy. Some love boobs. Some love petite, and some love thicc or fat girls. Anything more is a bonus.
My standards are she can’t be taller and needs to be thin or somewhat fit.
But other than that, I mostly look for personality and how well I’m treated and if she’s supportive.
How tall are you?
Kind of average standards I guess. For face anything just above average (to me anyway) is good. For body though I’m quite specific and have my type
I don’t have many standards when it comes physical appearance, all of the guys I’ve dated and liked have all looked very very different from each other
As much as I hate to say this I think I do. I’m not attracted to just anyone. And it happens subconsciously.
Quite high I guess. I haven't dated anyone in a long time, it's really rare for me to have a good chemistry and spark with someone.
I have some standards. I think most people do! I like a full head of hair but that’s about it. Dad bods and short guys are not always considered attractive but I like guys with those attributes. It’s more important to me that a guy is nice.
I set high fitness and cleanliness standards for myself. I like those I date to share those views.
I’m bisexual but I’m attracted to men more so I think I have higher standards when it comes it women. I have no problem dating or messing with an average looking man, but you have to be a very attractive woman to get my attention.
Yes, because I personally fill most boxes in other people's checklist. I expect the same.
That guy in the photo is so lucky to have such an aligned eight pack. I'm jealous lol
As long as they take care of themselves and not a slob, I mean I know the type of guys I find attractive but I wouldn’t say i have high standards.
Not really... just don't be morbidly obese or have a dirty house... and be nice with minimal complaining.
I font think I have high standards at all, but when I fall for someone I find them soooo handsome in and out
You know for myself I've never found six or eight packs that cool looking. Sure it looks good and all but I myself prefer a simple toned stomach and more focus on the upper body, maybe washboard abs at most.
But he may not be attracted to you. Because you're not up to his standards... then he takes advantage of you emotionally and then leaves.
What? Sounds like you’re mad you don’t fit my standards. You make no sense
I don't have high standards for physical attributes but for personality ones heck yeah
The basic things that I look are
-how a person dresses 50 marks
- basic hygiene 150 marks
I think everyone has standards compared to preferences or likes vs dislikes.
I personally prefer redheads with small breasts of B cup or smaller. I also prefer very little to no hair downstairs because I completely love using my tongue and mouth.
Wow I thought my standards are high reading the girl comments 😂. I was very mistaken lol
What’s your standards? I don’t see any of them saying too high standards.
I would say "no", *but* I suspect your standards are much different than what you're willing to admit.
Didn’t I block you already? Could have sworn I did.
No, but it sounds likely you're highly averse to truth.
You old account must have been Spartan or you’re a liar. I know who you are and have blocked you before.
And you sound dumb, why would I be scared to “admit” my standards to the likes of you? 😂
Damn, I've had to shave my head since 17 because I I'll look like crusty the clown if it grows out. I'm fuuuucked😂
That sucks. I worried about it my whole life. Turns out I just have a high forehead. 47 and very very little hair loss. Maybe none. Lucky. My dad and brother both were losing it in late 20s. They say it's the grandfather on your mother's side that determines it. My grandfather on my mom's side was bald by the time he was 25. So I know that's not true. But if it was my brother he could say it was true.
I find myself physically attracted to women that resemble anyone I remembered when I was in high school, not that I necessarily found those people, but it's been a thing going on with me.
Yes, anyone who would have me isn't good enough for me :)
I don't think so. I've dated a variety of guys with different looks and sizes
Not at all. No yellow teeth, can't be overweight, and can't be a smoker. That's it.
I have super high standards. she must be young and hot
Sounds creepy
why creepy?
Young part is a dead giveaway.
Who wants old?
Your age is old? Who wants you then with your logic? 🤣
Girls all have high standards. Because they’re all married to Tiktok.
you do realize that picture is EXTREMELY photoshopped right
Why are you mad about him having an eight pack?
not mad just stating the obvious but hey if you want to keep being delusional then by all means do so
Lol ok big boy 🎅 you stay mad how you could never have abs like him.
I just can't do certain women i dont want to see which type then Me2 movement will be on my case about being totally dushbag.
Most men are attracted to women whereas most women are attracted to men and women. So women have more options.
I don't have that high standards, just cute face, big boobs without being fat and not be a feminist.
She has to be a real female no trans! That's it
P. s she also has to be an adult or little younger and must be alive.
Body has to be decent,
Almost Everyone has standards on attraction
I am just here to fill her holes.
Nice abs ;)
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