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I've known this one guy since HS, I was a freshman & he was a junior (14 years ago). We went to neighbor high schools but were friends on FB. We were really close or so I felt. He was there for me for my first heartbreak my senior year. During that relationship he confessed his feelings for me. After I graduated we hung out a few times at his place never even kissed but we would cuddle. I liked what we had bc I was afraid if we got into a relationship & we didn't workout then I would lose him as a friend too. He meant a lot to me. 3 years passed & I got into another relationship, this one was toxic & I couldnt talk to him much but when my ex & I got into fights I would reach out to him again. I spent the night at his place once too again nothing happened. Then when I was 2 months pregnant I was in a domestic violence situation with my ex & I had nowhere to go so I reached out to him to stay at his place but this time he said no. he was very cold with me. I was so hurt I removed him from socials and didn't speak to him for years. Another 3 years passed & I moved an hour away. He reached out to me wanting to know about my life & if BD was in the picture. He is not. This time he was in a 2y long relationship. I told him I was hurt because he didn't help me when I needed him. he said it was because he was mad at me for being with someone else & having their baby. I mentioned to him I was moving out of state soon so he suggested we meet one last time & said he could drive the hour to me. I said no & used the excuse that we were still freshly into the pandemic. He added me on social media again & then about a year later removed me. I don't know why. So I messaged him & asked if what I posted had offended him, he said no & that was it. But actually it wasn't I figured since that was the end of our friendship I told him I had had feelings for him previously & the reason I never spoke up about it, that I also felt he was all wishy washy with me. (Continued below)

SLEEP as in “to sleep per chance to dream”

💤 ~sleep~ cuddle ~sleep ~no sex~ 💤

I’ve spoken with many people who find this very relaxing. But these people are not anxious for sex. I don't know how relaxing it is for the person who really badly wants sex.

Tho some may agree, it can be relaxing even if they want sex, as long as they know for sure sex is definitely not happening.

I’m sure some would agree while nursing a deep hope for more..

if I like someone I’d be ok sleeping next to them or I’d be very happy to depending …as long as I was absolutely assured they really weren’t expecting sex.

i can easily see this being exploited under false pretenses so I’d have to trust them a ton and tres carefully. I’d make sure my roommates are home for example..

I have never had anyone say they wanted to sleep next to me when what they really wanted to do was sleep. And I’ve never said this to an anyone bc I am confident the assumption will be that im speaking in code and sleep is just euphemism for sex.

my guess is despite my vast Herculean emoji efforts😛, many people will not read the body of this post and will assume fork the tiller that the person who doesn’t want to date wants friends with benefits to avoid having sex with someone they know.

I see gag immediately placed it in sexuality😒

It is like to live in a world where this kind of thing could be taken at face value.

actuality I think within the Amish community young people sleep next to each other as part of courtship. But courtship is a huge deal so that’s not a great example I suppose. Respect tho. I think it’s a good idea.

I think in dating people spend so much conscious energy existing themselves trying to be a certain way and present a certain way that much of our authentic self get swept away. While with Sleeping you are who you are… you can’t fake it. Your curations are exactly you. I think it’s a good bonding exercise bed very Informative. Or alternatively, just calming and peaceful.

I’ve been seeing this cute guy around at work.
He works in a different department to me but I see him on breaks, he sits with other people from his department. He is normally deeply immersed in his phone. I’ve noticed a few times that he will gaze at me and when I look at him, he will smile at me while holding eye contact. I’m always the one to look away first (because I am super shy).

A couple of weeks ago, we were walking towards each other in the corridor. He did his usual gaze and smiled at me, then I said “hiya, you alright?” As I passed by. He smiled even more and looked down. A week or so after that, I walked past him while he was eating his lunch and I looked down at him and smiled.

Since then, I’ve noticed we don’t really have those interactions anymore. When I see him, he usually looks in every other direction apart from mine, even when he walks right past me. I have seen him occasionally glance at me when he is in the distance.
We did have another occurrence when we walked towards each other. He smiled and said hiya very quietly and walked off. Today, I was stood behind him at the water fountain waiting for my turn. He turned around, said “sorry” really quickly and walked off. I think he may have left real quick but I was too shy to look at him.

Please help me because I’m starting to feel like I’m repulsive and that he is uninterested.

South Africa is the only country that the West allows to be developed because it serves European and American interests. The country was created to serve European nations and America as suvh is the onky nation allowed to be developed as their economy ties in with the West and serves western explosive interest therefore is allowed to develop

As for the rest of the African continent:

I was watching a YouTube video where one of the European investors, involved in shaping and development of projects in Africa states that it is important to the Global North, that Africa be kept poor and impoverished for the development of the West and Global North as a whole. He further stated that Africa's role is to remain poor, and must not be allowed to join China, Russia, India Brazil and South Africa.

African countries are moving away from western partnerships, using liberal far left tactics like " treat is as human or we'll join China" since the launch of Brics more and more African countries are leaning towards China, and the communist East. And are cutting ties with the West... Some are nationalising the mines pulling away from the West.

It's said there be three types of cider; singing cider, sleeping cider, and fighting cider. But I'd add a forth, shagging cider.

What type of cider do you prefer?

(Note to Americans: cider is an alcohol beverage made from apples, apples are a type of fruit but don't worry they're harmless and you may have eaten one in a pie.)

A lot of you ladies are delusional thinking you're going to get a successful man when you have nothing to offer. You chicks are delusional, aren't attractive, have no personality, are insecure, are not smart, socially awkward, weird, and have mental health issues and lack emotional control. You're not getting a rich man or any man.

Often/ majority of the time, very wealthy men are with women who are within their circle who also happen to be successful. These women may not be as rich as these men, but they are successful and established.



Simple examples are pictured below:

Rihanna (Musician and business owner) was asked out by Billionaire Sheikh Hassaan and dated.

Janet Jackson ( well renowned musician basically music royalty sister to Michael Jackson and cousin of Steve Wonder and Samuel l. Jackson) was asked out by billionaire sheikh , married him and had a child with.

Grimes (Musician Rock Nation signed by Jay z) was in a relationship with Elon Musk south African billionaire Tesla cars and paypal business owner. She is also the mother of his child

Venus Williams ( successful athlete) married and asked out by reddit Armenian business owner Alexis Ohanian.