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I think people are too entitled these days. We're owed nothing. Entitlements only exist in social contexts, and even then this depends on what society says.  200 years, people were entitled to own slaves, now no........

Before I dive into detail let me state a fe disclaimers so we are on the same page - I am equalists. I do believe that we all should have same rights and responsibilities no matter sex, race or convictions - I have...

I was watching this the other day.. https://www.YouTube.com/embed/cJYpLgHO2Us https://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2009/09/free-speech-in-online-communities-the-delusion-of-entitlement/ And saw the above link. Even on here,...

Hello there and welcome to the discovery of the men's origins. Since it's quite common, that some say, that the opposite gender is a mystery, all should be revealed. Before you start reading I recommend you to fetch some...

My take on New Year's Resolutions. New year resolutions, sounds familiar right? I know you had made so many promise to yourself that next year, I will do this, I will stop that, I will... the list goes on, but one...

This is the fourth and final part of a series of takes examining the gun control movement in the United states, you can find Part III  here . I highly encourage reading all parts in order for context purposes. I ended up...

Last time I wrote about  "The Psycho", "The Stepford Girlfriend", and "The Now-BFF" exes. This is the second part: THE PUBERTY-DRIVEN FIRST LOVE GOOD TIMES: The awkward first fluch of foreign hormones (and increasingly...

The other day I saw a post on this website about, frankly one of the oddest insecurities I've ever heard of. A girl was asking about her cousin's new mustang and if she should be worried about the car that she drives....

I can't wait for summer. Right now it is about 30 degrees colder than the weather I am used to. I grew up in the carribean where the women are always in a bikini. It's that hot all the time. I miss that and I can't...

My name is Delong Cui based on my Chinese name 催得龙。My parents moved from Beijing, China in 1988. A month before Tiananmen Square incident took place. I was born in the states far away from the poverty and unrest of my...

Love is a common thing. It is the national language for humans. The human life will not complete without love. Yes, everyone is agreeing with this. Men and women both are getting attract due to their opposite sex,...

I always try to be fair and understanding to both sexes on this site and I do my best to provide people with unbiased, well thought out answers and advice. I'm not perfect but I do my best to try to avoid blaming or...

"Nothing gives you the right to judge me." I'm sure you've seen this statement at least once or twice in your lives, either coming from your mouth, or from someone else's. In fact, it's a very strong, recurring theme here...

So I've been meaning to make a Take on this for a while now, but recently I've been inspired to actually sit down and do this. What I've noticed lately here on GaG and offline is that black men like myself and black women...

Are you suffering from a form of depression or anxiety? Maybe both at the same time? Well this is my take on how I overcame my thoughts and suffering. Just so everyone is aware I suffered from extreme depression and...

So a friend recommended a weird seminar to go to this past weekend - he really wanted to go, but not alone, so he wouldn't feel like a 'loser'. It was a talk for men on something called the PUA movement: Pick Artists. I...

My take on Jugaad (Home Edition) [ quick dictionary: Jugaad (alternatively Juggaar) is a colloquial Hindi-Urdu word that can mean an innovative fix or a simple work-around, used for solutions that bend rules, or a...

I start by saying first off: This is my first myTake and I am cutting it short. Still I am experienced with the Internet and with bringing up attention and deliver the right info. Some may have discovered it along with...

I'm tired of telling my sisters before they head out the door, "yes, you look good" when they ask me "How do I look?" ad nauseum, because they want a guy's opinion. Blah blah. For once and all i'm just gonna write it...

When you think of the piano many things come to mind. This instrument causes you to contemplate on life and gives amazing feelings of courage, sorrow, love, and everything inbetween. In my opinion, it's the most beautiful...