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Sure there must be exceptions but 95+% of the time I think not. You can only marry a 5-7/10 unfortunately.
Women can’t handle being stunning.

I’ve been there done that. Having been in a serious relationship with a 10/10. They are weirdly the most insecure girls, have unrealistic standards, least emotionally stable. Also the most likely to be compulsive liars and manipulators. Women can’t handle being very pretty and so desired. It allows them to fall in bad habits and not be nice people as maybe they don’t have to be. Bad behaviour has been rewarded.

I am an exceptionally rare guy with every gift a man can have, she recognised that and couldn’t cope with it as she made me feel like the hot one in the relationship and thought I was some massive player which was ridiculous. I am objectively much rarer than her, but she has this huge appeal of physical beauty and rare facial features, she is striking.

Now my feelings for my ex have gone I’m kind of like holy shit I fell hard for someone that turned out to be a nasty person. I was always skeptical of her and wondered/sensed a mean side to her and luckily I got to it before I got engaged. You have to break up with a girl to understand her true true colours. Then you find out how mean she really is.

My sisters think she was retarded for letting me go. She could’ve had it all, I would have been good to her. But she was the lesson I needed to learn. You can’t be stunning and a nice girl. Just doesn’t work. Meanwhile I know I’m a 12/10 guy overall and everyone knows me to be humble and a good nice guy and not a prick. I recognise my worth but am kind of like whatever about it, I don’t become mean to women because of it.

Imagine a 10/10 beautiful girl you will recieve endless interest from guys right.

Imagine a guy tall, lean/slim, educated, rich parents/lifestyle, ambitious, fairly good looking etc.. You have everything going for you, every gift. Maybe not the best looking out there.

But - you cannot compete with the interest. This guy who is objectively 10X+ rarer than her will receive 10X less interest than what she will receive from the opposite gender.

But look how rare and special the guy is. How does it make sense?

I have noticed when women say her partner or ex was bad, they just believe everything even when she could be completely lying. People only have empathy for women.

It is only men that are questioned on their actions and that are forced to be accountable.

My ex turned out to be nasty, when we broke up she was horrible. Saying I didn’t make her feel special, I was untrustworthy and a player. I didn’t do anything wrong, I was consistent with her in the relationship, I even had to show her my phone like I’m not messaging other girls. It wasn’t enough. I feel like I was such a good boyfriend, caring and available emotionally.

Yet to all her friend and family likely think I am such a bad person, because people don’t question women. I’m literally the rarest catch out there in my opinion.

The mistake I made was falling for the wrong person. Looking at everything on paper think this should be so perfect.

The other day it was 100 degrees outside here the PNW! Wtf 🤬. I woke up to moisture on my pillow from sweating. Fuck this. People who like summer are fucking lunatics.