Avoid these errors

[Midnightbreeze]

1. Having sex with strangers. Who knows you might end up getting pregnant or end up in something you never thought of.

2. Talking ill or bad about others in their absence especially if you wouldn't like the person to hear it. What do you expect? Walls have ears! That's gonna be some drama when the person hears of it.

3. Avoid thinking about people who never think about you: I have learnt no to think about girls who don't think about me because that use to make me depressed. I know a lot of people who are depressed about it. You're killing yourself slowly for someone who's living free.

4. Avoid judging or treating people bad because of the current situation: Circumstances change people so you should sometimes try to understand them instead of just concluding based on one mistake. Who knows you might disrespecting or insulting the next president.

5. Don't talk too much: When you talk too much it drives people away from you and those who stick are sometimes just hypocrites who won't tell you the truth. Talking too much sometimes makes you say things you never wanted to say. People who talk too much lies too much.

I don't know it all but this is just a suggestion. I welcome those who would write just to insult they make me learn a lot.

[thecd1979]

#1 perhaps is the one error that people really need to avoid. It’s hard because society is brainwashing women into believing they need to look and act sexy to be someone, and the guys that they need to be bagging and tagging every women they run across to be someone. The truth is that there is a potential for very serious consequences for irresponsible sexual behavior. I have seen it with plenty of my friends back home that are paying child support, who owe back child support and talk about how evil their baby’s momma is. I can’t say I feel for them because their decisions got them in the spot they are in, but they were the ones bragging about their sexual conquests back in the day like it was what made them a man. It’s not hard to see why this isn’t the case and people just need to stop sleeping around with just anyone.

[Midnightbreeze]

And this is so especially in western countries. Places like African frowns on such act. But now the western influence is coming down here too via t. v and social media

[thecd1979]

Im sorry to hear that the “American way” of where it’s “cool” to be an irresponsible selfish dumb ass is starting to take a foot hold where you’re from. I love my country and wouldn’t want to live anywhere else but it’s embarrassing when people in other countries see how some of us not only act like this, but think it’s cool and fun. This is behavior that should be frowned upon because it’s irresponsible and stupid, too many people here look at responsibility as an option and not a way of life. People over there are normal, we are the ones that have a problem thinking like this.

[AleDeEurope]

I agree with everything, except #1. I see nothing wrong with sleeping with someone you just met as long as you take the necessary precautions.

[Midnightbreeze]

What if the precautions fail?

[AleDeEurope]

There are low chances for that to happen, but, it's the risk you have to take. There's more chances to die in a car accident and it doesn't stop you from driving, right?

[OlderAndWiser]

There are no practical alternatives to travelling on public roads and highways and exposing yourself to some low probability events. There are practical alternatives to screwing a good looking girl who you met 20 minutes ago.

[Midnightbreeze]

Wow you are really @OlderAndWiser.

[Azara]

i like this except i thinking talking a lot is ok long as you're mindful of what you're saying:)

[Midnightbreeze]

You know too much of a thing is bad.

[Azara]

I don't know i like it when people talk a lot bc i find it interesting plus i dont feel like talking all the time so when they talk i dont have to:)

[Midnightbreeze]

I bet you ahaven't met a sounding brass before or a boring talkative.