Fears and Confidence (Taking control of your life)

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Fears and Confidence (Taking control of your life)



Welcome people of GAG to another one of my myTakes. This time I am covering confidence. Confidence allows you to live your life. Without it, you will be living a cowardly life and not experience anything in life (which is what life is about, experiences). Here are my steps to gain true confidence and destroy your fears!



  1. Learn your fears


In order to conqure your fears, you must make a list of your fears. My fear is having conversations with girls, so i'm going talking more about how to get over the fear of conversating with girls, but these steps should work with any other fear you have.


2. Attempt to conqure your fear with confidence


Notice how I said "attempt" and here is where I tell you the hard truth, You probably aren't going to conqure your fear the first time. Trying to conqure your fear will get you prepared for failure (Which is another step I will explain). So I want to talk to girls, so I go and have conversations with them. The first couple times I did it I fucked up. I was hesitating a lot and stuttering and it was just awful. But at least I attempted to conqure my fear. In order to actually get over your fear, you have to practice, which is the next step.


3. Practice makes perfect


This is probably the most important step. Practice. I can't stress that enough. If you are afraid to talk to girls like I once was, you are going to have to obsess yourself about it and PRACTICE! If you are afraid of anything, obsess yourself about that fear, in your mind think how you are going to go about practicing, and how it will feel once you finally conqure it. Nothing is impossible if you work at it.


4. Use confidence


So this is the actual key to making everything go into place. Confidence. You got to be confident in what you are doing, or else that fear will still be with you. For me, I talked to girls with CONFIDENCE and they loved it! You have to go at your fears with CONFIDENCE or else the fear will not go away. CONFIDENCE is the key to success. You have to grab to grab that fear by the balls and CONTROL YOUR LIFE!


5. Failures are something to smile about


You heard me right, failures are something to smile about. You are going to fail it is inevitable, but it's how you control your behavior when failures happen that is key. You shouldn't be sad about failing because failing is a part of life. You should actually smile and laugh at failures because you are learning your mistakes and you have learned not to do that the next time around. For me, I failed ALL THE FUCKING TIME. Girls called me "ugly" or "weird" and I wasn't even weird. I acted just like my friends who those girls were friends with. It was because I was unattractive. That brought me down a lot, but then I realized that not all girls have that same mindset, so I went out and started talking to other girls that my friends introduced me to and they told me I was "cute" and "funny". So don't let failures discourage you in any way. And now to the last step.


6. Don't let fears come back and don't collect any new fears


Congrats! you have conqured your fears and have gained true confidence! But you aren't quite done yet! You have to make sure that it doesn't come back! How do you do this? By reminding your self of that feeling of being numb to your fear. That feeling of success. You also don't want to collect any new fears either! You want to stop those from happening by doing what I told you. Remind yourself of that feeling of being numb to your fear and that feeling of success.


So these were my steps on how to conqure your fear and gain true confidence! Do you feel like I have missed something or you disagree with something I have said? Please feel free to leave a comment! Now it is your time to conqure that fear and gain confidence! Go now! Don't wait!

Fears and Confidence (Taking control of your life)
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