I wonder how far his book would sell if the title was "The problem with men is women" I also wonder how many of those 1.4 million followers are women. It makes me very suspicious, especially how like all the men are hating on him and all the women are cheering.
He lost my vote when he decided the quality of a man is decided by how he treats women.
Uhm, fuck no. A man's value is not measured in his usefulness or pleasure giving to women anymore than a woman's value is measured by her sex appeal or sexual satisfaction to men. To say anything else is straight bullshit. My value is SO much more than just what I contribute to my romantic life. I've bled for my country. That's way value and contribution than writing a blog on the interwebs.
But the reality is quite different: men and women want the same things, with differences varying among many individuals. Many women agreeing with him are actually emotionally scarred from experience and blinded by the truth: they want the same things. They are being selfish.
Yes, I have been learning over the last few years just how rare I am as a truly empathic man. You're right to point out this generally glaring absence in males. I've been trying to figure out a way to start a series of my takes to try to reach and awaken those who might be open to this, but where do you even begin? Just connecting fully with a partner in empathy is a huge subject for some, not to mention all the levels, emotionally, mentally, spiritually, and physically. And most men may as well be in a coma, they are so oblivious, uncaring, or self-absorbed.
Relationships for me is to much responsibility but I do like being in a relationship that is actually worth the hard work and effort... Because it creates new social relationships with good guys in my life.. and gives me a chance to actually understand and learn how relationships work and how to give affection at the right time... That's why I enjoy being in a relationship, it teaches me how to be more open with my feelings and tell my partner that.. And it also teaches me that it's okay to be more affectionate towards them, to comfort and encourage them on what they wish to do, and to make them happy no matter what... That's all I have to say...
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I wonder how far his book would sell if the title was "The problem with men is women"
I also wonder how many of those 1.4 million followers are women.
It makes me very suspicious, especially how like all the men are hating on him and all the women are cheering.
women love to be told they are right and everyone else it wrong. i say it even i say both men and women are a fault
Remember boys, your sole ambition to a successful life is to find a woman and keep her happy. That is all you are good for now.
Hah... I'm glad there are still some youngsters with balls, common sense, and a satirical sense of humour. Good on you.
It gets me in trouble a lot, lol
Yeah don't be surprised if your comment gets removed by the "how dare you point out the truth" police.
He lost my vote when he decided the quality of a man is decided by how he treats women.
Uhm, fuck no. A man's value is not measured in his usefulness or pleasure giving to women anymore than a woman's value is measured by her sex appeal or sexual satisfaction to men. To say anything else is straight bullshit. My value is SO much more than just what I contribute to my romantic life. I've bled for my country. That's way value and contribution than writing a blog on the interwebs.
That was pretty spot on I was a little skeptical but I quite enjoyed this take! I think everyone should read this!
I don't like the title of that book, but that is pretty solid marketing for the target audience.
But still, stupid title.
Y'all have been picking some pretty decent "experts" lately. Awesome!
This guy is amazing. I follow him on facebook and read one of his books. One of the best relationship experts I know.
Thanks for reading! :D
You're welcome! 😊 Keep up the work!
Awesome awesome take. I completely agree with what he says and it hits home in quite a few areas!
But the reality is quite different: men and women want the same things, with differences varying among many individuals. Many women agreeing with him are actually emotionally scarred from experience and blinded by the truth: they want the same things. They are being selfish.
Finally a man with empathy.
Yes, I have been learning over the last few years just how rare I am as a truly empathic man. You're right to point out this generally glaring absence in males. I've been trying to figure out a way to start a series of my takes to try to reach and awaken those who might be open to this, but where do you even begin? Just connecting fully with a partner in empathy is a huge subject for some, not to mention all the levels, emotionally, mentally, spiritually, and physically. And most men may as well be in a coma, they are so oblivious, uncaring, or self-absorbed.
#7 for sure. It makes me sick when I see a bunch of people out in a group and each individual is deeply absorbed in their phone.
Screw all this... much rather stay single if modern relationships are this tediously complex.
Come on, this is really fucking obvious. Everything here.
Even if I WOULD do all this in a relationship, I still can't get in one.
Blah.. blah... blah... relationships... blah... relationships... blah
Relationships for me is to much responsibility but I do like being in a relationship that is actually worth the hard work and effort... Because it creates new social relationships with good guys in my life.. and gives me a chance to actually understand and learn how relationships work and how to give affection at the right time... That's why I enjoy being in a relationship, it teaches me how to be more open with my feelings and tell my partner that.. And it also teaches me that it's okay to be more affectionate towards them, to comfort and encourage them on what they wish to do, and to make them happy no matter what...
That's all I have to say...
Good for you.
Wanna cookie?
What the fuck?
Is he a white knight or a ex natural selling no responsibility feminism to bitter washed up hoes?
I don't expect anything else from a lady except being clean and not be a bitch, so where do i fall in?
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Fillerrrr
I've honestly heard all of that before. On the Internet, even.
Maybe I'm just getting old.
Haha you sound like my dad.
A woman may o be fucked by a bad boy and be loved by a nice guy. It's amazing how people think that such a fact excuses cheating.
want to* be fucked
To quote that weird foreign kid from my secondary school, "WHO IS THIS GUY?"