Men's Biggest Mistake When Trying to Understand Women

[yucel_eden]

The number 1 thing men say about women isn't how beautiful they are, it's how complex they are.

I always hear men say "I can't understand women."

"Why?"

"When will I understand?"

Well, first things first. Women aren't complex, that is the wrong term to describe them.

Solving the deflection caused by wind on a plane wing is complex. Proving Einstein's theory of relativity is complex. Hell even going up to the moon is complex.

Complex implies that the problem can be explained, and then solved via a logical method, often in the form of an mathematical expression or algorithm.

But here's the thing, women can't be explained logically, certainly not consistently for it to be solved. If we don't understand the problem then how do we solve it?

Well, the answer is simple.

You don't.

You accept them the way they are. They are beautiful and unsolvable. But that's what is amazing about them right? They are unpredictable, one minute they love you, the other minute they hate you.

Fun eh?

An example

My brother is going to turn 12, so he's starting to get curious, the other day he came up to me and said,

"When did you understand women?"

I told him this word for word:

"The day you understand women, is the day you stop trying to understand them and just accept them the way they are."

He tried to process that for like 45 seconds and said:

"Why?"

I told him to apologise. In shock he didn't know what to say, I repeated, and asked him to apologise. He asked why in shock. I said just do it and then I'd explain why. He insisted on not to. And I didn't reply for a minute to anything he said.

Finally he let it out.

He said "I'm sorry, but what did I do wrong?"

"Well", I said, "That's the most important lesson you will be taught, it is to apologise to women without knowing the reason why".

He looked confused.

Bless him, he's 12, some men close to death get confused.

But for like the last year, this is what I have learnt.

Before I tried to understand women.

I tried to understand what I did wrong when they got mad.

Tried to reason with women as to why I was correct, when I was actually correct.

Tried is is the correct word.

But that's not the correct approach. The correct approach is to get a box of chocolates and go up to her and say I'm sorry.

Watch her get softer with the chocolate and the two magic words.

Sometimes you do nothing wrong, but they take out their anger out of you coz they can.

That's women.

And that's my tip to guys who don't understand women.

Don't understand women.

Just don't.

[19magic]

There's no need to try and understand anything this goes for males and females. Just go with the flow there's going to be disagreements sure but if you just talk it out then you'll either agree to disagree or come to a plausible conclusion for the both of you. People snap at each other too much nowadays and never listen to what they say, causing frustration and anger.

[yucel_eden]

Yeah but almost all guys try to understand women.

Then they stop once try realise they can't.

Some figure out earlier

[19magic]

Weird everyone is different, have different experiences and different things that sets them off and things they want

[anonman32]

I think its wrong to think that men cannot understand women because often women cannot understand men either. Maybe we do understand each other, maybe we dont. But this has never stopped us from forming succesful relationships.

[lizziepooh03]

This was great fun to read. You made me laugh a few times out loud. And I especially liked what you did to your little brother. That is so true about us. lol!

I think you have us figured out pretty well. ;)

[yucel_eden]

Haha thanks.

[joemm]

Women want guys who take care of themselves.. this is a fact. This is why I use one of those penis health cremes they have on the market nowadays. It keeps my penis skin extra clean and smooth, which compliments the rest of my habits (healthy diet, gym 5 times a week etc.) nicely. Women know I am the total package.

[cinderelli]

It goes both ways.. women get confused about men as well.. I think that's what makes the opposite sex so interesting 😅😂

[yucel_eden]

Lol women are still more complex then men

[yucel_eden]

I mean I woudnt be suprised if you get angry now 😂

[cinderelli]

Nah.. we're quite amazing puzzles.. 😛😉

[InfernalMachinae]

So tru. XD

[Fathoms77]

I can't decide if this is totally defeatist or perfectly logical.

Perhaps it's both. ;)

[yucel_eden]

I think it's neither.

Unexplainable...

[Anonymous]

Lol this was hilarious. The Al Bundy meme gets me every time.

[yucel_eden]

Lool yeah.

I've written much more popular my takes.

But this is my favourite.

[Anonymous]

I agree with you.
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[redeyemindtricks]

Can't tell if this is satire... srs.

In any case, "apologize for unspecified reason + offer a bribe" is not going to get you anywhere with a woman of actual character... other than to frustrate her, and make you look helpless.

Honestly, I can't see this working on anyone other than manipulators. And it isn't really working on them, either -- it's just showing them that you can, indeed, be manipulated.

[yucel_eden]

Often, with girls my age anyway, chocolate is the cure for all problems. Not all girls but a vast majority.

And yeah sometimes they don't say why they are mad, but it doesn't stop you from making peace with the other gender

[yucel_eden]

The bigger the problem the more chocolate you get

[redeyemindtricks]

That seems like it's just digging a deeper hole for the inevitable next conflict. Like going and picking up a baby every time it cries in its crib, or going to retrieve a dog from its new crate every time it starts hollering.

You can't have a meaningful relationship by following the policy of "always just let the other side 'win'."

[yucel_eden]

Yeah but I'm 21...

Teenagers usually start getting mature after 25 with today's generation.

What shall I do? Go single.

Even the teenagers on here are 10x more mature than the ones in real life.

[redeyemindtricks]

yah that's why it's even more important to hold the line with girls yr age -- they'll test you more often. don't fail the tests.

"meaningless apology + bribe" is the worst failure you can get on one of those tests.

[InfernalMachinae]

Love the memes. XD but yeah. Don't understand women. We understand each other (or not, depends) and totally hate each ocher (sometimes.)

[strateguy632]

unsolvable, that would describe her them. i agree

[Goldie757]

Good luck with that.

[NNangelNN]

are you british?

[yucel_eden]

Yes I am

[NNangelNN]

please answer im really corious :D

[yucel_eden]

Answer what?

[NNangelNN]

are you british?

[yucel_eden]

Yeah I am British

[NNangelNN]

U used s instead of z when saying apologize. Thats how i got curious lol

[yucel_eden]

Anlamadım ama

Neyse

[CommendMe]

Ummm wtf?

[yucel_eden]

You'll grow one day