what about love at first sight? I know we have to get to know each but there are people who been together for many years or the rest of their lives after that.
Infatuation -first several months of the relationship . Happy , head over heels , butterflies in the stomach , exciting , contentment.
Love - can feel like infatuation. But for the "head over heels , butterflies in my stomach " feeling to always exist is unrealistic. There comes a time when love is just knowing how much you'd do for your significant other. It's when you offer your support. You would go to the ends of the world for that person. Love can be wonderful , beautiful , through its ups. When it is down it can be ugly and miserable.
So love is literally "nutting" to you. The beauty of life is that our ideas , knowledge and perspective takes on a different mold through our experiences. I fail to believe you'll think the same way in several years. Whether you find love or not , you can't ignore that these is many that have found it all around you. You... yourself , need time.
Good mytake I especially agree with the plant analogy that is one I use myself except I use garden.
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I see it as full acceptance of someone after the fluff if gone. Great take girl. I will also say there are 3 or 4 different kinds of love. Of them I believe the love of a child is the strongest and most tangible.
Yep. Nothing can be perfect if you try to make it better.
Just take appearance as an example, if a person got all traits of her/his looks very perfect (perfect size, perfect 'place'), then that would look so very artificial and not natural at all, so it won't be perfect. Imperfection shows that someone is human, which in turn makes it perfect :) (if you can follow this lol)
thing is, that for something to be unconditional, it cannot be confined by rules. the simple act of imposing rules to be loved unconditionally makes it conditional. Do you understand what I mean?
@bomba78 Do not rely on your own understanding but rather trust in the Lord. Very truly I tell you that it is better to understand than to be understood. God created you, not the other way around.
Those rules are there to bless you and help you prosper; however, you have your free will to choose your own way that leads to death or the Lord's way that leads to eternal life. Either way, God loves you unconditionally.
I don't think there is a true love without G. O. D. So if you don't know about GOD, You will never know what is the real true love like, or just your fake love pretend to be true love. Love is a sacrifice just like Jesus Christ sacrifice himself for us. That is the real love, Also like God create everything, before create us. So do you think true love can be found in Atheist? Spiritual love maybe, But that is not realistic, unless you are Plato. I only can say everything they care about may can be thier true love, Their money , Partner, affection, material, emotional etc. But I am sure true love no hate and anger in it. Uless you want to tainted true love, Then you give love a bad name.😉
True love... is not for everyone? I agree. Some people don't know how to handle it. Others, aren't ready for it as well. In order for love to touch ones soul and be meaningful they have to be at a place in their lives where they are ready to accept it.
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what about love at first sight? I know we have to get to know each but there are people who been together for many years or the rest of their lives after that.
You cannot "love" someone at first sight that is infatuation.
The people that were together for many years fell in love later on.
Infatuation is often confused with love because of the feelings.
define infatuation and love seperately
I did in this article. Do you need me to further elaborate?
yes we know about through thick and thin
Infatuation -first several months of the relationship . Happy , head over heels , butterflies in the stomach , exciting , contentment.
Love - can feel like infatuation. But for the "head over heels , butterflies in my stomach " feeling to always exist is unrealistic. There comes a time when love is just knowing how much you'd do for your significant other. It's when you offer your support. You would go to the ends of the world for that person. Love can be wonderful , beautiful , through its ups. When it is down it can be ugly and miserable.
Love is a deeper feeling that infatuation.
oh wow that was a really nice take!!! the points are so true... nice work
Great take, enjoyed reading it and agree with all of it.
Love is a lie people tell themselves it doesn't exist never will exist love is what comes out a man dick when he nut other than that nothing
So love is literally "nutting" to you.
The beauty of life is that our ideas , knowledge and perspective takes on a different mold through our experiences. I fail to believe you'll think the same way in several years. Whether you find love or not , you can't ignore that these is many that have found it all around you.
You... yourself , need time.
*there is many
Love is accepting them as they are. Ä°t is acceptance and allowence.
this Take is so deep... I can see Adele is rolling in it...
You know true love when you don't have to question it
Good mytake I especially agree with the plant analogy that is one I use myself except I use garden.
I see it as full acceptance of someone after the fluff if gone. Great take girl. I will also say there are 3 or 4 different kinds of love. Of them I believe the love of a child is the strongest and most tangible.
Me and my ex felt like it was kinda real :( We were together through the end.
... baby don't hurt me.
Love hurts sometimes. Perfection is non-existent.
Imperfection equals perfection.
In other words , everyone is perfectly imperfect. I agree with that part.
Yep. Nothing can be perfect if you try to make it better.
Just take appearance as an example, if a person got all traits of her/his looks very perfect (perfect size, perfect 'place'), then that would look so very artificial and not natural at all, so it won't be perfect. Imperfection shows that someone is human, which in turn makes it perfect :) (if you can follow this lol)
No more..
That's all good homes, so long as it's reciprocated. lol
Without even thinking for a second can kill for him/her
True love comes from God's unconditional love.
I agree
@HookingSwan Me too!
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it is NOT unconditional. There are many many rules to obey in order to be worthy, so, blaaaa
@bomba78 Those rules that you choose to obey shows that you live God, too.
thing is, that for something to be unconditional, it cannot be confined by rules. the simple act of imposing rules to be loved unconditionally makes it conditional. Do you understand what I mean?
@bomba78 Do not rely on your own understanding but rather trust in the Lord. Very truly I tell you that it is better to understand than to be understood. God created you, not the other way around.
Those rules are there to bless you and help you prosper; however, you have your free will to choose your own way that leads to death or the Lord's way that leads to eternal life. Either way, God loves you unconditionally.
God is true love
What about those who are non-religious? What would their true love be?
I don't think there is a true love without G. O. D. So if you don't know about GOD, You will never know what is the real true love like, or just your fake love pretend to be true love. Love is a sacrifice just like Jesus Christ sacrifice himself for us. That is the real love, Also like God create everything, before create us. So do you think true love can be found in Atheist? Spiritual love maybe, But that is not realistic, unless you are Plato. I only can say everything they care about may can be thier true love, Their money , Partner, affection, material, emotional etc. But I am sure true love no hate and anger in it. Uless you want to tainted true love, Then you give love a bad name.😉
God will continue to love them as he always had. Even if they end up in their worst, he won't stop. Regardless of what they believe in or love...
And they might be looking for love/already found their "so" and so on.😄😎
Thanks for your view.
@annie_annie We said girly, Are you a Christian? And you re right. God is the light and source.💖No god no love.😜
To answer the question: Fiction.
Thumbs up for honesty. Although it's clear to see , I think otherwise :)
Great take. I enjoyed reading this.
Sound fimilar Zo? @soccerchick4eva <3 <3
To ME = Total self delusion
Not for everyone.
True love... is not for everyone? I agree. Some people don't know how to handle it. Others, aren't ready for it as well. In order for love to touch ones soul and be meaningful they have to be at a place in their lives where they are ready to accept it.
Or some just aren't lucky. Like my father's friend who is in his 60s now that never been with a woman in his life.
Never been with a woman in his life? Do you mean intimacy or love?
Both actually.
:( That's sad
He's Indian so it's very common for Indian men who don't go along with the typical cultural arranged marriage.