As a guy I find this offensive... (Page 2)

[DFTgirl]

Not all girls think this way. Ignore the blatant generalisations of idiots, they'll grow out of it or end up working a dead end job because their brains don't function well enough to get any perspective on things.
You get a billion similar posts about girls too, the "why are all women gold-diggers?" or "why do women only sleep with douche-bags?". It's ridiculous. They should be put in the bin (both the posts and the people who post them).

[Tomsta]

I know, but i needed to rant is all, by the way hello fellow UK goer :)

[DFTgirl]

As for who's to blame, I think it's six of one and half a dozen of the other. Be angry at the guy for being an arsehole and the girl for being naive enough to fall for it. I don't think you can only blame one side of the story.

[DFTgirl]

Just one question when you said "so girls there are 'nice' guys out there. You just need to stop going for your class a douche and actually start looking for someone different. Stop taking the easy route out." I'm assuming you weren't referring to all girls, just the ones that do that. And weirdly enough in my experience they are fewer and far between than many people make out (obviously only in my experience)

[Tomsta]

Yeah i was referring to girls that normally go for your "class a douche" but also a nod to girls in general

[DFTgirl]

Hello fellow UK person ! We are a rare breed here. I feel you about the ranting, I'm the person who wrote the sweeping generalisations take, that was entirely a rant too.

[Tomsta]

I would PM but you only allow from followings

[godfatherfan]

That's Church yo...
Whomever said the quote at the top is a moron.
any woman that agree's with it, is worse...

[Elena_the_Star]

OMG I saw it on facebook too and I thought the same thing! I was like hey- this is unfair, don't generalize :/

[jjmarvin]

2 people like generalizing :p

[Lolomon]

Well we live in a society than glorifies side chicks and that a main chick should just accept it. Most men I have ever known will say all men have side chicks. this has to do with your sex not mine always talking about it in anything wether it's music, t. v or just any media outlet and normalizing it. don't blame us blame your fellow male counterparts

[GirlScout]

Works both ways, guys keep complaining of women being too into money or appearances when they go after girls who obviously look high maintenance and materialistic. Leave the idiots too it, not really much to do with gender and morons being morons instead. Don't perpetuate the feud dude.

[the_rake]

in actual fact, that's because female mating strategy is quite averse to monogamy. why? polygyny means that only the best, most dominant and confident alpha males reproduce, hence ensuring survival of the fittest. in short, it is in women's nature to settle down, and in men's nature to reproduce with as many women as possible.

[CapricornSwagL]

Lmao now that's funny smh

[the_rake]

@CapricornSwagL lol it wasn't meant to be. It's scientific fact that women tend to reproduce only with the top 20% of the male population before they are forced to settle down into monogamy with a low status beta male.

[CapricornSwagL]

I was actually being sarcastic. I didn't understand how you can say that so I laughed... sowwy

[the_rake]

No need to apologise: at 19 you are still quite young. If you are at uni you will be in the first year still. Once you are a little more experienced you will have a more informed opinion about sexual opinion and will realise there is truth in what I say. Best of luck.

[the_rake]

*sexual attraction

[Thisbetterwork]

Granted im only 14, but i think any guy who is in a relationship should not be screwing around with other women. Flirting i dont see as a big deal, mainly because most guys will flirt with girls. Any guy who is low enough to go off with another girl while he's in a relationship should have the balls to at least tell his other that he is seeing another woman.

[Arturo23]

This is getting old... How about both male & female are capable or already are this way not everyone acts that way... I know a couple girls that cheat but doesn't mean all girls cheat & I know a couple dudes that cheat on their girls doesn't mean i am or I'm not you have a choice

[frognzl]

There's a lot more to this. I think it's true to an extent but one reason as to why they do this is because they are insecure. Guys just want a good girl who hasn't slept around. Pretty much if you've f***ed around a bit expect to meet someone and get f***ed around some more haha

[CapricornSwagL]

1. Of course SOME are insecure about getting played (some want to help other women out by informing them)

" Guys just want a good girl who hasn't slept around."

Are you freaking kidding me? Have this guy NOT slept around himself? Is he a hoe or a virgin himself?

"Pretty much if you've f***ed around a bit expect to meet someone and get f***ed around some more haha"

Dumbest crap I ever heard. There are guys that PRETEND to care about a girl, are you NOT aware? Or just pretend to be blind :/

[Sojex]

The problem is that you're actually offended by that post. Far too many people these days believe that the opinions of someone who has absolutely ZERO effect on their daily lives should matter to them. Why do you care about some random post designed to get likes and bring attention to someone's crappy humor page? It's Facebook, dude. The dumbest s*** imaginable gets posted there. Who seriously gives a f***? If you're genuinely offended then I stick by what I said and the problem is you.

[BruceJender]

It was written by a girl who was recently dumped, clearly.

I personally want a girl I can be happy with, make happy and be loyal to.

[DuckDodgers24th]

I find your post offensive. Are there guys out there who lie and cheat on their GFs for the reason they put? Yes, but guys who want a loyal girl while they mess with other girls doesn't make him a douche. The key is consent and honesty. Some girls are fine with a BF/GF open relationship. That doesn't make him a mean guy. That doesn't make him a womanizer. None of that.

[ImSoSozzled]

Well no shit, but this obviously doesn't apply to open relationships.

And 99.9% guys that want a loyal girl while they mess around and actually act on those feelings aren't honest about it and don't have consent. What kind of girl would be okay with that?

[DuckDodgers24th]

I never said they'd be okay with it. I find your percentage appalling. Especially considering there are so many married swingers out there now. @ImSoSozzled

[guynextodoor]

that is right. i would also stress on the fact that gud and bad r present on both sides. so when girls write "guys today/nowadays", they generalise the whole thing and that's not done at all.

[Tomsta]

Us guys do the same with girls as well, we aren't total angels :p

[guynextodoor]

u r right but v r not total devils too. v r guys nd just treat us as such. which class of humans is a total angel after all. :/

[jesse_mcminn100]

"thus endith the rant"

*claps exactly three times* beautifully put, my dear fellow; wonderful, bravo!

[JustMe-93]

Anyone who says all... etc. gets on my nerves.
like people who say that all people from a certain gender are this, all people from a certain country are that, or all people from a certain race are whatever. No, just no!

[Powell-Peralta78]

I legitimately only want to be with one woman, and there are a good amount of females who feel this way due to personally experience or seeing someone else go through it. People in the 18-30 year old range have such trust issues it is unbelievable, but I too unfortunately warranted by the way both men and women act and play games.

[Anonuser2020]

The thing is this can apply to both women and men. There are lot of people in general who use other people and it's not necessarily gender specific. Just because a man hurts you doesn't mean you have to say that all me are jerks.

[TheAngryBanana]

Of course it is offensive, i mean geez have you tried messing with multiple girls i mean all that effort you have to put in : (
I mean geez its like a juggling act you gotta meet all the dam needs and emotional stuff and the attention they all want oh got the attention !! : (

But really dont let it bother ya buddy, just know what type of man you are and keep your chin up : )

[GalaxyFlame90]

I do not think that is true for me. I only want one girl, and that is it. I am not even the type to talk to girls, let alone flirt, or cheat. I suppose most males would do the opposite, but that is the majority--Do not include everyone.

[RationalMale]

The thing is...

Women, by nature, only find a small percent of men attractive. So those top men would be kinda stupid to be boyfriend girlfriend, realistically speaking, since the market means they could literally get three FWB's if they wanted.