I've read that life long relationships are becoming more extinct with each passing year... It's as if soulmate and partnerships are a dying breed. I've noticed things on TV like people becoming more bitter and disrespectful to the opposite sex.... Back in the old days women, use to stand by their men and never let anyone talk bad about them. They'd be proud and happy to have a hard working man to help pay the bills and teach their children the ways of life. Things like playing sports, learning and reading and doing good in school, good manners and values and respect for parents, etc... Those days seem to be long gone now... Women are now taking on the responsibilities of raising children all on their own and over the years they've slowly begun losing respectful for men. As a man, If you screw up in the smallest way with a girl you can best believe the next guy is in line waiting to take your girl lol!😅
Faliures and even minor fuck ups are no longer tolerated in a woman's wold.
God forbid a woman gets bored of you cuz even after 15 or 20 years, if she's still super sexy then she'll trade your ass in like a car with too many miles on it lol!😂
Men use to be the same. Men use to enjoy going home to one woman and making sweet love to her and taking her out to dinner, or going shopping and letting her buy clothes and make up etc... Now you'll be lucky if you see a couple last a full year together in the dating world. 😂Men go out on Thursdays, Friday, and Saturday, night and hit up clubs and parties or bars and find women to sleep with. Music videos have given females somewhat a bad name but the sadder part is, females happily live up to that bad name. They give In too easily and sleep with 20 different guys dress half naked, that's like calling for the attention of those 20 different guys and they'll say anything or do anything and tell any lie just to get you naked. The first problem a woman sees In you then your quickly dismissed and placed in the past... Small penis, not making much money, drive a shitty car or live in a shitty small home, or if your not hansome and talented then your extinct as well lol!😂 Women have their jobs and ways of making money for themselves nowadays and I think that's an outstanding improvment... But other areas are becoming more of a hassle.
I use to think clubbing and parties only lasted in high school and college but now I'm seeing men my age scream out 😱"FUCK THAT BITCH ON TO THE NEXT! SHE ain't NOTHIN BUT A HOE ANYWAY"😤😌✌🏽️
Women say the same thing, like... 😱 "FUCK THAT BROKE ASS LOSER HIS DICK PROBSBLY TINY ANYWAY!"😤💁
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Is is any of this stuff true in you life?
Have partnerships become completely extinct?
Have men and women learn to just live without eachother ?
It often feels like we as humans are moving into a new era where we've outrageously decided that the opposite sex is only useful when it comes to sexual activities and mothering a new born, Is that true?
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Well it does feel that way to me but on the other hand I've never been alive before so it's all new to me and I could be wrong about everything.
I can't comment too much on the current dating/whateverthefuck scene that I see/hear in Western Australian, English or American culture, it's a recent development and breaks free of more traditional dating patterns for better or worse.
I didn't exactly grow up with the culture either, I grew up with 4/5 different ways of dating (African, my families way, New Zealand, Outback-ish Australian towns and Australian cities,,, yea they all have different ways of dating, what's acceptable and how to go about it, what not to do, ect) and I spent a decent amount of time learning about the dating of different cultures around the world over time.
So mostly what concerns me most is that it's consensual for both parties, when no harm comes to either party (or others) then I don't really care too much what you do.
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I don't know everything or understand life/living/whatnot but it does seem to be like that from what I can tell, just do or say a little something that isn't perfect and you don't get a chance (not always the case of course).
Buut life's complicated and weird, everyone's living a life as intricate and complicated as yours (generalization) and I'm assuming that they just try deal with it all as best as they can,,, and there's always that point where you make a decision on whether you wait to see what the future holds, hoping something better comes along or take hold of what you got now and try make it work but you generally don't really know either way what's the better decision.
Not at all I am looking for a partner as well, and whoever I marry I'd love to be my friend, partner and for lack of a better word lover.
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