Hidden Notes
I'll leave love notes in his pockets, on his pillow, in his clothing drawers, in the memos on his phone, etc. I think of myself as a decent writer, and since love is one of my strongest emotions, I think I could make enough notes to remind him that I love him every single day. These hidden notes can range from a simple "I love you" with a lame doodle of some romantic scene, to a full on essay about why I love him and just how much. I won't ever let him forget how much I love him.
Random Home Cooked Meals
I want to treat him to dinner every once in awhile, but repetitive meals can get boring. I'd try to learn a new recipe at least once a month to surprise him with on a day where I'm feeling extra productive. I'd set up the table just right with a candle and some flowers or something, and I'd make sure to include his favorite drink on the side. We could eat and just enjoy each other's company.
Cute Gifts
I'm the type of person who can't remember what I ate for dinner last night, but I can remember some obscure inside joke I had with someone rom several years ago. When I have a little pocket change I'll buy a cute/dorky gift to commemorate that old inside joke/nickname/meaningful thing (Like a first date at an aquarium, buy a fishy plush).
Random Intense Affection
I'm not talking a little hug here. I'm saying I will pounce onto this man when I need more affection. I think it'll be pretty damn clear when I wanna cuddle, but he has the ability to push me off (because I will still respect his space, and I'd be too weak to fight back anyway if he were to toss me off like a rag doll.)
Clean Up Day
I'll spend one day doing a deep clean and not expecting a ton of help. I'm not doing it on my own, of course, but I'll only expect him to help me out with bringing me supplies or picking up some small things for me. Every other day of the week I'll expect an equal effort, though, so please don't comment with "Oh my gawd that is so old fashioned and sexist", because I was not asked to do this, I'd just like to do it myself.
Love Coupons
From "One free kiss (Valid during arguments)" to "One TV dinner, no complaint", I love the idea of a coupon book filled with cute little cards allowing for one desired thing. I may even add in a "free anything" card and let him come up with something (to an extent!)
Pampering Days
I'll reserve a day (His birthday, a day that reminds him of something upsetting, or an extra stressful day at work) just for him. He'll get the star treatment and all of my attention. We can spend all day doing whatever he wants, and I won't complain about anything within limits. We could spend a day fishing, bowling, hiking, or even just sitting at home with me rubbing his back and giving him my full focus.
Date Nights
I'm a very sentimental person, so everything has value to me. If we spent a nice day in a clearing in the woods then I would want to arrange a picnic there a year later or something like that. I want to go somewhere that reminds us of an important day in our lives, even if we weren't there for it, like if his last memory of a family member is on a playground he would take me there and share some memories. It would be nice to hear a new story from his life, tell him one from my own, or just share our thoughts on a memory we have together.
Spontaneous Etc.
When I think of something, I want to do it. I think a lot, so I often end up in a world just filled with cute romantic things that I want to try. I'll save any ideas I get outside of this list and make sure to do them in the future. Anything that I feel shows my SO just how much I love him seems like a great thing for me to do.
Everything in this take is purely opinion, they are things I want to do in the future and I felt the need to share these ideas with my fellow G@G users. This can work for any people of any gender/sexual orientation. Hope they gave someone an idea, and feel free to share your own in the opinions!
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