The Secret of Long Lasting Relationships Revealed in Pictures

[vekin]

Found these nice pictures with advice for a lasting relationship at lifehack and wanted to share them.

[Blonde401]

I can't even get into a short term relationship but I feel like I do try to do each one of these things, so great list :) lovely take!

[vekin]

Me neither :-(

[Blonde401]

I'm sorry you're in the same boat :(

[vekin]

well it's good to know I am not only in the boat

[Blonde401]

You're definitely not! Come join our boat :)

[vekin]

who's captain of the boat?

[Blonde401]

Hmm I think we need to elect one 🤔

[vekin]

I vote for you

[Blonde401]

Ahh you're too kind! You'd have to be my navigator though!

[vekin]

hahah if you wanna get lost I can be

[Blonde401]

Heck yeah, let's find an abandoned island and party forever 😄

[vekin]

sounds as a perfect idea

[kat_gran]

They forgot 'commitment".
True, you can stay true and loyal, but if you have no commitment to a person, in the long run, even if things dont go south - no relationship will stand the test of time. Commitment is making a choice to stay with a person, in the good AND the bad times. And not dip out when things, teh relationship gets rough. When you've gone broke or have no money left and are barely making it.

Commitment needed to go right under respect. With no respect, love, and commitment, no relationship will flourish and succeed. It's as simple and true as that :)

[vekin]

commitment is something tha is simple unmissable (is that a real word?)

[kat_gran]

ja :p ik heb het net geggogled hehehe

[vekin]

Soms twijfel ik zo aan engelse woorden

[kat_gran]

gebruik je het niet vaak? of op werk?

[kat_gran]

je engels is best goed!

[vekin]

Uitsluitend op het internet gebruik ik het

[Mustachekitteh]

I don't agree with #8 since you should never forget but never hold it against them. Unless they keep repeating the same mistake too often.

#11 You shouldn't force change but you should tell them to change some bad habits that hurt them instead of making them better.

The rest I agree 100% but somethings also help that wasn't on there. Being 100% comfortable and tell them everything.

[vekin]

I agree changing to the better is a good thing

[Sangita93]

There is a ritual - part in hindu marriage called SAPTPADI - seven steps for successful married life. In this ritual both - girl and guy agree on seven things to keep their married life happy and socially and emotionally happy even if there is some difficulties rising from uncontrollable circumstances. It covers all these things. In many societies and communities there are similar things and it has contributed much in managing Indian family life happy and socially cultured.

[vekin]

I would be intresting if you make a mytake about that

[AmethystAngel]

Can you write a Take on it?
Saat fero ki kasme are actually great topic, I don't remember them at all.

[Sangita93]

I will find out original SANSKRIT text, translate its meaning and definitely write about it here. Thank you for showing interest in this matter.

[vekin]

don't forget letting know you have made that mytake so i can read it

[Bandit74]

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[phil2]

Always value their feelings and opinions and ask for them often. Instead of just putting them down by saying no all the time try understanding them by asking why.

[Anonymous]

Urgh, this is some next gen romantic film shit. It's almost as if this was written by a 5 year old girl.

You forgot one of the most important things sever, something that lots of men tend to forget - COURTING.

Courting NEVER stops, even during relationships. You keep dating.

[Anonymous]

I don't know about the "give more you take," per say.
I did that, and I got used.

What about giving and taking as equally as possible to one another?

[vekin]

ment with that is that you shouldn't see it as buying where the money and what you buy has the same value... hope I explained it understandable

[Unit1]

Too bad too many people today tend to be unable to hold into these.

Oh yeah, it also tends to not come cheap in times like these. Pass.

[Tanisha69]

I love this. some people can't do these things, its sad

[vekin]

I can't or don't want?

[Phoenix98]

Very nice, list lot of good things to do in a relationship.

[danirblade]

-nothing about never forgetting to connect your android wife to the charger

dissapointing

[Anonymous]

Right now lust and selfishness dominates over love and loyaltybut this is still a great take 😌

[ThisDudeHere]

Was that last gay pane truly necessary?

[hazoplmeught]

i really did enjoy this

[ElissaDido]

This is lovely !

[idkwtftoputhere]

yeah that all sounds like too much work, pass.

[Unit1]

Yeah xD

[April10]

That's really cute. I like this!

[Schrodingerscat]

Awww soo cute :)

[vekin]

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