This my take is so so so so dumb and stupid.. that I can't even try to explain why you're wrong because you're past the point where a person has an ability to understand the reality.. being nice is not a disease with obvious symptoms.. just like girls can't be divided into some groups.. guys can't either. Anyone agreeing with this my take is just as stupid as the my take is..
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Interesting how women always try to justify their distaste for "nice guys" (which is fine) but then turn around and complain when guys won't date "smart" girls, or "fat" girls, etc. Are you the only one's who are allowed to have standards? Pathetic.
Many girls will shoot a guy down before she even knows any of the 7 things you stated above. That's what makes it all so frustrating.
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well as a nice guy i can tell you confidence is only gained when i get a nice girl who really loves me, then i open up to her when i trust her, and we nice guys are sensitive which makes us better lovers because we actually care about the girl we are with. and not use them for sex like the bad-boy players do who treat nice girls like a peace of appliance for sex and leave and hurt her. and turn girls into man hating slut lesbians.
I'm a nice guy but if I want to fuck a woman I'll just pay for an escort. I have plenty of money to do so, so I don't really give a fuck if women reject me. I can still get a lot of sex and don't have the hassle of dealing with a woman's shit. Bad boys think they are the bollocks. They are neither tough, nor hard. Deep down the are a load of pussies who act tough but are nothing but piss.
Wow... what a judgmental cunt you are. No wonder I won't date a western/americanized woman.
How about this: ACT MORE FEMININE!!!
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Most of the women I know who like "bad boys" are either just stupid, have horrible self esteem and don't mind being treated like trash/manipulated or just want their own personal man project to fix lol. No thanks, i'll just take a decent guy.
Let's face it, this is totally true, the problem with nice guys is not that they are nice, it's that they don't put themselves out there and don't have enough confidence, which probably matters more than looks to women/girls.
This is not judgmental in any way, go out in the real world and you'll find that the social, outgoing guys, confident guys ( so called bad guys ) get all the women.
"Nice Guys Bad In Bed", LMAO what a load of crap! We are actually generous lovers, and actually want to give her multiple O's, as opposed to the selfish guys who pump on her for two minutes then roll over and go to sleep.
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I'm a "nice guy" and I go against all of those opinions about "nice guys".
And I got the girl. Didn't have to alpha up or any of that BS!! It's just a balance of being assertive and a pushover. Simple.
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here's the problem with your take: a "nice guy" can be the opposite of all those things. there is no such thing as a generic "nice guy".
This my take is so so so so dumb and stupid.. that I can't even try to explain why you're wrong because you're past the point where a person has an ability to understand the reality.. being nice is not a disease with obvious symptoms.. just like girls can't be divided into some groups.. guys can't either. Anyone agreeing with this my take is just as stupid as the my take is..
Interesting how women always try to justify their distaste for "nice guys" (which is fine) but then turn around and complain when guys won't date "smart" girls, or "fat" girls, etc. Are you the only one's who are allowed to have standards? Pathetic.
Many girls will shoot a guy down before she even knows any of the 7 things you stated above. That's what makes it all so frustrating.
well as a nice guy i can tell you confidence is only gained when i get a nice girl who really loves me, then i open up to her when i trust her, and we nice guys are sensitive which makes us better lovers because we actually care about the girl we are with. and not use them for sex like the bad-boy players do who treat nice girls like a peace of appliance for sex and leave and hurt her. and turn girls into man hating slut lesbians.
I'm a nice guy but if I want to fuck a woman I'll just pay for an escort. I have plenty of money to do so, so I don't really give a fuck if women reject me. I can still get a lot of sex and don't have the hassle of dealing with a woman's shit. Bad boys think they are the bollocks. They are neither tough, nor hard. Deep down the are a load of pussies who act tough but are nothing but piss.
Wow... what a judgmental cunt you are. No wonder I won't date a western/americanized woman.
How about this: ACT MORE FEMININE!!!
Most of the women I know who like "bad boys" are either just stupid, have horrible self esteem and don't mind being treated like trash/manipulated or just want their own personal man project to fix lol. No thanks, i'll just take a decent guy.
... Guys, remember the alpha fux, beta bux stereo type? Look at the age range of this post...
Let's face it, this is totally true, the problem with nice guys is not that they are nice, it's that they don't put themselves out there and don't have enough confidence, which probably matters more than looks to women/girls.
This is not judgmental in any way, go out in the real world and you'll find that the social, outgoing guys, confident guys ( so called bad guys ) get all the women.
Women and the bad boys who make them tingle. . . they deserve each other.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rOD-Yzre9okUmmm, how about "nice guys" are terrible at flirting, hence never escalating things sexually? You have to participate to play !
This just sounds like boring guys, and not genuine guys
From what I've seen out there, a lot of women are terrible at flirting. They try and they fail.
"Nice Guys Bad In Bed", LMAO what a load of crap! We are actually generous lovers, and actually want to give her multiple O's, as opposed to the selfish guys who pump on her for two minutes then roll over and go to sleep.
I'm a "nice guy" and I go against all of those opinions about "nice guys".
And I got the girl. Didn't have to alpha up or any of that BS!! It's just a balance of being assertive and a pushover. Simple.
This is one of the dumbest mytakes I've ever read.
You can be all of those things and be a total dickwad with no woman too.
This is one of the most ridiculous things I've seen. Quite frankly these things apply to bad boys.
A nice guy is a confident guy.
This is just about douches, not nice guys.
Lmao :D Peter Parker was totally a good guy.
And the number 1 reason is, drum role please, because they aren't nice, they're push overs.
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I think you've described the definition of "nice guy" as it pertains to this site quite well.
So, you are making the case for Chad.
Yeah, that's going to end well at both a personal and a societal level.