Falling In Love Only Happens 3 Times in Our Life

[cupidkisses]

We fall in love, have a relationship and break up and fall in love again and have the same things... It is just a cycle in our life. Some people come and find us and some just get away. And it is that person that you least expect whom you fall in love.

According to psychologists, people fall in love only 3 times along their life.

1. Fairytale love

Most of the time love knocks our door when we were so young. We think that love will last forever. We don't mind small problems. We deprive ourselves.

2. Complicated love

We get lesson from our first love. But it doesn't matter how much we learn from it, we will be lied and hurt. You do your best but in the end you learn that the most beautiful love is the one which is mutual.

3. Maturity period

This love appears when you stop looking for it. And it is a bit different than how you were expecting it to be. Like, it is not a perfect one with someone that we were dreaming about. But it will be real! In this part, you learn that love doesn't have to perfect. You just accept your partner the way they are.

[sovetskii13]

I disagree. Can't be three times. It just doesn't make sense. I don't think our brain can shut off the "Falling In Love" thing after three times no matter what else happens. Does this mean our heart can be broken only three times? What happens after that third time?

[Greek_God]

Only if you are an idiot it can happen 3 times. For normal people, it happens once, you get fucked over and realize love sucks, you never repeat that mistake again and you live life in pure happiness for the rest if your life

[LaFemmeFatale]

I am sorry for people who believe love can happen only once, well maybe, for people who have small hearts, but people can fall in love more than once and the second one can be even more pure than the first love.

[Greek_God]

@LaFemmeFatale that really has nothing to do with what I said

[LaFemmeFatale]

Hell no! I had all of them... No love for me anymore? :O
Well it makes life easier.

[Anonymous]

I had all these stages <3

[HOAAH]

nah, for some people who are lucky they meet one person, have a relationship for the rest of their life and they work out their definition of what love means to them... and they work out their self esteem issues, and they work out whatever that is in their way... and they are together solid as a rock, committed forever. I know because that's my relationship with my husband. I love him so much. None of that 3 people then the one... b s

[writing_essays]

This might be true. I have been infatuated and attracted many times but genuine selfless love for another person? Only happened a handful of times for me.

[highpockets]

If this is true, then all 4 of my lives have been truly magnificent! But this does not take relatives, or children into account, does it? Or DOGS. Much more real than MANY humans.

[Thiannah]

I believe in love at first sight and the love u feel when u have kids and see the adorable smile on their f

[Thiannah]

Faces and the love u feel waking up next to ur favorite person ur bff ur lover and soul mate

[Secretgardenblood]

Nice take

[Anonymous]

I disagree