I’d Rather Be Single Than Be Cheated On or Cheat On Anyone

[xButterflyKisses87x]

*~*~ Inspired by everyone whom has cheated, or has been cheated on~*~*

Don't get me wrong, I have been cheated on quite a few times and have wondered why, but I picked myself up and tried again, I have never forgiven a cheater either just to take them back, because I am not going to say its okay to cheat because its not it hurts so much and takes a lot to recover from.

Take a moment to ask yourself

Why did I cheat?

Was I not happy in my relationship with my significant other?

Why did my significant other cheat on me was I a reason?

Never blame yourself for your significant other cheating, they may blame you however even if you aren’t at fault.

Cheaters have a way of blaming us for their wrongful activity.

Spare your partner the hurt that you could cause them be sure you’re willing to lose everything you have.

Know that having oral sex with another person is still cheating, as is getting a hand job or played with, it is still sex but just a different form of it

Consider breaking up and have casual sex with no intensions before you hurt anymore people, we do not deserve to be hurt by the path you chose to cheat.

[cavmanier]

Sorry you went through that.

[xButterflyKisses87x]

Thank you, and trying to get a point across :)

[cavmanier]

Hey but if you do date again, there are some awesome guys that wouldn't cheat on you 🙂

[xButterflyKisses87x]

Tbh I'm married, but this is inspired by all the cheating posts i've seen as of late and what not :)

[cavmanier]

That's awesome. I've notice there's been a lot too >.<

[cavmanier]

I hope it never happens to you b t w

[xButterflyKisses87x]

Thank you!

[SweedyPie]

I totally agree with this stance! If you are with someone and you see something else that you think is better for whatever reason, leave the relationship... end it and pursue that. Don't be that person wasting time and hurting feelings with your selfishness. Save the person you are with from the deception and lies. If people were honest like this we would have better relationships as a whole. Much less hurt.

[Anonymous]

I've been in a sexless relationship in the past where I nearly did cheat on an exGF because I started to resent her for the total lack of sex and physical intimacy in the relationship. Each time i'd initiate it, she'd turn me down which made me feel and hurt and completely rejected! I told her how I felt as things needed to change if she didn't want to lose me. As a result, things didn't change so I ended the relationship because I wasn't happy!

[xButterflyKisses87x]

Ouch I am so sorry... my ex is in that situation kind of I feel bad for you

[xButterflyKisses87x]

Glad to read that you broke up with her over that

[Opinion Owner]

It's not a nice feeling at all because it's never been nice to be constantly turned down when you initiate sex and physical intimacy with a partner.

[Opinion Owner]

I found a regular friends with benefits after breaking up with her.

[Unit1]

I agree.
Better to be single than being in a relationship with a terrible person.
The latter is the shit to avoid at all costs.

"Why did I cheat?"

I didn't. I'm a kissless virgin, who never had a girlfriend.

"Was I not happy in my relationship with my significant other?
Why did my significant other cheat on me was I a reason?"

Same as above

[Giggletr0n]

Well yeah, cheaters suck! You would think that it would be obvious logic by this point; people who can't help but cheat should stay out of relationships.

[Anonymous]

an unpopular opinion: i'd rather have boyfriend and cheats on me than be single.

[PiVsY]

That's why we see more poly people

[xButterflyKisses87x]

I would still rather be single

[Nice222]

Yes very true.

[Ahsthen]

And you wrote about this because things aren't kazh?

[xButterflyKisses87x]

Inspired by all the cheating posts lately so it was an idea

[rockrewls]

Agreed...

[Nice222]

Good take thanks