Mind you, if you’re not the one who gave up on the relationship, sometimes you have to cut ties without guilt.
You can perform CPR alone and wear yourself out delaying the inevitable, or you can perform CPR as a team, either using your strengths or trading out so you don’t tire out and having a higher chance of success.
I gave my ex husband an ultimatum. Gave him a year to help me work on things. I ended up leaving in the end, took a year and a half to get myself in order to move.
Being yelled at constantly is not ok, it’s a form of emotional abuse.
For the most part people want physical attraction to be there from the start. Things can happen to alter a person physically. What would you do, if a person you were with happened to change physically for any reason?
@MysteriousDarkness if it were my ex husband, I’d have issues because we didn’t have a close relationship. However, if my husband’s appearance changed, I’d still love him. In fact, it’s already changing over time. He has vitiligo and it’s spreading. Even if he were disfigured, I’d still love him because we have a deeper connection.
@MysteriousDarkness because it’s a fact that my marriage wasn’t strong. I’m not trying to paint myself as a saint. When I talk about my current marriage, people have a tendency to think I’m over exaggerating things until they find out I was previously married.
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always be there and stand by the girl as l am going no where else l am staying close to youxx
Find a hobby tohether and , shoopping , massage , shower and seks are great a idea :)
If love was true, nothing would change
Mostly true. You’re more inclined to make things work if you love eachother.
That's a gold question
I am thought is that who have finance crisis it's not for relationship, just move on.
Interesting list, good take
Amazing mytake,
Thanks!
Yep, fully agree with all of these.
Like any of this could happen easily.. 😏😕
Why not?
it would only i both parties are interested.. thats y..
If one party refuses to do anything to help the relationship, it will fail.
Mind you, if you’re not the one who gave up on the relationship, sometimes you have to cut ties without guilt.
You can perform CPR alone and wear yourself out delaying the inevitable, or you can perform CPR as a team, either using your strengths or trading out so you don’t tire out and having a higher chance of success.
Well I am the one putting efforts and he just yells at everything.. not even ready to communicate
I gave my ex husband an ultimatum. Gave him a year to help me work on things. I ended up leaving in the end, took a year and a half to get myself in order to move.
Being yelled at constantly is not ok, it’s a form of emotional abuse.
Although I’m a big proponent in staying together with SO’s, abuse is never ok.
Oh well I get all kinds of abuse from him.. am super bored and irritated with him.. and he also controls everything in my life..
You could try counseling, but likely it won’t help. It’s time to focus on yourself and not worry about trying to make someone happy who refuses to be.
Yea.. I am trying to be happy myself
Stick with it heavy smile
Very detailed but interesting to read.
I like these ideas
Interesting suggestions!
Thanks for your advice.
Good Take :)
Strong physical attractions help.
If that’s the only thing in the relationship, it will fail. And looks fade, or an accident can disfigure them.
For the most part people want physical attraction to be there from the start. Things can happen to alter a person physically. What would you do, if a person you were with happened to change physically for any reason?
@MysteriousDarkness if it were my ex husband, I’d have issues because we didn’t have a close relationship. However, if my husband’s appearance changed, I’d still love him. In fact, it’s already changing over time. He has vitiligo and it’s spreading. Even if he were disfigured, I’d still love him because we have a deeper connection.
@Halligan Why bring up your ex husband?
@MysteriousDarkness because it’s a fact that my marriage wasn’t strong. I’m not trying to paint myself as a saint. When I talk about my current marriage, people have a tendency to think I’m over exaggerating things until they find out I was previously married.
I’d shower W/ my first girlfriend
Some good ideas
Interesting
Thanks, this might be useful one day