Hi there,
My name's Alex and i'd like to share my opinion/story about communication between the sexes.
I often hear people tell a story about how they're into someone of whom they're unsure whether the person likes them back.
For example, you may have read some story from someone telling you "Hey there, so my story is about me starting to fall for my best friend but i don't know what to do about it". You'd instantly figure, either find yourself someone else given the status of your relationship with that person and continue with someone, or do something everyone should do in the first place: just talk to the person of matter, communicate and see how they respond and how things will work out.
Sure i'm very aware that such situations could cause a catastrophic ending of your relation/contact with that person, but at least you've got your answer and got it off your chest, i mean like, would you be willing to spend massive amounts of years trying to figure out "What would've happened if i would've had the guts to talk to him", i personally would regret and hate myself for not talking to the person because you know, communicating is simply such a powerful and useful tool to interact with each other.
Sure, things could go sideways trying to get your story to that person as where he might even mis-understand the meaning of what you're getting at, but that ain't your problem to deal with, at least you've said your stuff and if you think he's the one, then simply explain it to him?
I myself have a standing question which says "Girls, do you or do you not like him", it's about the fact that i've been single for a while now and started to note that often girls do stuff that might appear as some hint or signal of which i'm just not sure yet. I mean, i'd sure like to get back into a relation at some point but i wouldn't necessarily jump onto the next girl just cause she might be giving you signals...
These type of events are the only exception where i'd say; just leave that one for what it is, you don't know her and talking to her might make things worse, unless she/he's your prince charming, then obviously you jump right at him like duhh...
This is my opinion on how i feel about communication between boys 'n girls, make sure to share your opinion in a comment!
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