This forgive and forget stuff is just weak. If someone walks all over you they deserve all the hate you can muster but dwelling on them is really pointless and achieves nothing.
Ah. :-) I love this. And I already see the overly positive people in the comments. No. Beaing positive all the time is not heathy. Being all the time like sunshine and rainbows is the bad thing for you.
You don’t have to hold a grudge to dismiss somebody You can remember the bad experience without harboring over it. Learn from whatever it was, move on, and be content with life. Don’t carry unnecessary drama and hate. It does you no favors, despite this silly article.
Holding grudge is a mind and love space consumer. People act based on what they are. Whatever actions they put on is to themselves and only their vertues is affected but yours will be if you hold on grudges
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This forgive and forget stuff is just weak. If someone walks all over you they deserve all the hate you can muster but dwelling on them is really pointless and achieves nothing.
There is a fair bit of sense in what you say here - Good take
Ah. :-) I love this.
And I already see the overly positive people in the comments.
No. Beaing positive all the time is not heathy. Being all the time like sunshine and rainbows is the bad thing for you.
I don't think keeping grudges are healthy for you and I've got big issues on that
I hold grudges. Why? so I dont forget what someone did to me, they won't change their POV and if the are assholes, you shouldn't bend to their shit
You don’t have to hold a grudge to dismiss somebody
You can remember the bad experience without harboring over it. Learn from whatever it was, move on, and be content with life. Don’t carry unnecessary drama and hate. It does you no favors, despite this silly article.
@Ellie-V If they do try to come back into my life, I want to make sure they can't.
Again, you don’t have to hold a grudge to dismiss somebody
@Ellie-V I tried other ways, so far mine works. But I can change...
Okie dokie
You are right, better to let that shit out than keep it in and let it affect your health. Good Mytake
I feel what you're saying, but i believe in second chances.
Do you believe in third chances? Forth? I say one strike, you're out. Saves time.
Holding grudge is a mind and love space consumer. People act based on what they are. Whatever actions they put on is to themselves and only their vertues is affected but yours will be if you hold on grudges
One thing i would hate in a girl. If she's mad, just tell me. Then we'll fix it, and get over it, instead of letting it rot our relationship.
Holding grudges is just a waste of time.
Negative energy never does anybody any good...
Honey, no. Dismiss them and get on with your life.
Keeping grudges can also be regretful.
Good take I didn’t see it this way
I don't know not sure
Never gave it a thought
Interesting myTake. Well done.
I totally can relate to this. This is how i am.
its never any good to keep grudges