Why Keeping Grudges Can be Healthy For You (Page 2)

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Lance1965 Follow
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This forgive and forget stuff is just weak. If someone walks all over you they deserve all the hate you can muster but dwelling on them is really pointless and achieves nothing.

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ATuairiscean Follow
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There is a fair bit of sense in what you say here - Good take

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Wolframium Follow
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Ah. :-) I love this.
And I already see the overly positive people in the comments.
No. Beaing positive all the time is not heathy. Being all the time like sunshine and rainbows is the bad thing for you.

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Iron_Man Follow
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I don't think keeping grudges are healthy for you and I've got big issues on that

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legalboxers Follow
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I hold grudges. Why? so I dont forget what someone did to me, they won't change their POV and if the are assholes, you shouldn't bend to their shit

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- Ellie-V
  
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  You don’t have to hold a grudge to dismiss somebody
  You can remember the bad experience without harboring over it. Learn from whatever it was, move on, and be content with life. Don’t carry unnecessary drama and hate. It does you no favors, despite this silly article.
  
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- legalboxers
  
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  @Ellie-V If they do try to come back into my life, I want to make sure they can't.
  
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- Ellie-V
  
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  Again, you don’t have to hold a grudge to dismiss somebody
  
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- legalboxers
  
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  @Ellie-V I tried other ways, so far mine works. But I can change...
  
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- Ellie-V
  
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  Okie dokie
  
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luvstoned4him Follow
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You are right, better to let that shit out than keep it in and let it affect your health. Good Mytake

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I feel what you're saying, but i believe in second chances.

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- JMghow
  
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  Do you believe in third chances? Forth? I say one strike, you're out. Saves time.
  
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Anonymous
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Holding grudge is a mind and love space consumer. People act based on what they are. Whatever actions they put on is to themselves and only their vertues is affected but yours will be if you hold on grudges

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GreatnessBack Follow
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Clarke498 Follow
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One thing i would hate in a girl. If she's mad, just tell me. Then we'll fix it, and get over it, instead of letting it rot our relationship.

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Eryxx Follow
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Holding grudges is just a waste of time.

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JimRSmith Follow
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Negative energy never does anybody any good...

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Ellie-V Follow
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Honey, no. Dismiss them and get on with your life.

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Dman22 Follow
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Keeping grudges can also be regretful.

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Noodlegurl Follow
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Good take I didn’t see it this way

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Anonymous
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I don't know not sure

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TonyWilliams Follow
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Never gave it a thought

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BellumEtPacem Follow
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Interesting myTake. Well done.

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Anonymous
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I totally can relate to this. This is how i am.

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Dee_Dee25 Follow
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its never any good to keep grudges

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