For me, it’s the importance of him insisting on paying. It shows me he’s a gentleman, romantic, not cheap and not a whining little bitch complaining about how unfair everything is to him. If a guy doesn’t insist on paying, I’ll absolutely go dutch - and never see the guy again. It’s a good way to weed out guys.
Well sorry to disappoint you babe, but its 2018 and this is the equality you wanted. You can't demand to be treated like an equal and a princess whenever it's convenient for you. But i suppose i should thank you for the heads up, and pray for whoever had the misfortune of being stuck with someone who only thinks of him as a walking checkbook.
And that showcases a sense of entitlement. "He should pay because he asked me out" At that point you might as well be a prostitute. Because by your own admission he's paying for your time either way.
@Malik00 You got that right, bro. But here's the good news... better to know about that entitled attitude right up front so you can check her off your list before things go any further. Life's too short.
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Right it does not matter because she's not willing to but the guy is sooo why does it matter in the end if both are kosher with the decision?
Cause frankly the guy's a sucker if he cares to much about his machismo
For me, it’s the importance of him insisting on paying. It shows me he’s a gentleman, romantic, not cheap and not a whining little bitch complaining about how unfair everything is to him. If a guy doesn’t insist on paying, I’ll absolutely go dutch - and never see the guy again. It’s a good way to weed out guys.
Well sorry to disappoint you babe, but its 2018 and this is the equality you wanted. You can't demand to be treated like an equal and a princess whenever it's convenient for you. But i suppose i should thank you for the heads up, and pray for whoever had the misfortune of being stuck with someone who only thinks of him as a walking checkbook.
I usually pay for the dinner and date
BUT... if they dont at least offer to pay i won't be going back for a second date
I’m happy to pay for myself, but normally if he asks me then he pays for the first date.
You want equal payment right bitch? Than pay your half of dinner!
The woman can pay sometimes. The man can pay others. No need to split anything.
Pay your own way. Neither persons time is worth any more than the other.
Wait am Dutch but but what do you mean by going Dutch? 😅😅
on the first date, he should pay because he is the one asking me out. tf i have no horses in this race
And that showcases a sense of entitlement. "He should pay because he asked me out" At that point you might as well be a prostitute. Because by your own admission he's paying for your time either way.
@Malik00 You got that right, bro. But here's the good news... better to know about that entitled attitude right up front so you can check her off your list before things go any further. Life's too short.
If I ask a girl for a date, I intend to pay 100%.
Interesting
Good take