I love women for the nurturing and softer side and femininity and all that. But the physical plays a big tole too. I do think it seems like women are more attracted to masculinity, male attributes and male gender than the actual physical sex itself. It seems like women are attracted to the male body and looks sexually is in coordination or conjunction to the male gender
Makes sense. A woman's love depends on the man providing things. Security (emotional, physical, mental, and financial), entertainment, and utility (help with housework, yardwork, repair, etc.)
@Frickingpistachios not really. I loved my ex wife even though she gained 100lbs, stopped caring about her appearance, and pretty much disregarded me. It took her cheating on me and then pinning the blame for it on me for me to stop loving her.
Its more common for a man to stay with a woman, even if she stops being "lovable", than it is for a woman to stay with a man who stops providing.
@JayParris You see, in the fuckheadedness of low quality, sub-human wenches like your ex-wife, there is a high degree of poetry that gets played out.
You stayed with her despite her turning into a fat, ugly slob, and she then dumps *YOU* for basically being too weak to tell her to fix the hell up, or get the fuck out - don't you see?
Boy, if that was me I would've kicked her to the curb when she started packing on the weight, and not just because of the weight itself, but because I can imagine that she was a royal headache in many other ways, right?
@FreshOutaIdeas You're right. My problem was that I took my vows seriously. The one part you were incorrect on is that I finally did correct that error and gave her the boot. I did try along the way to get her to take better care of herself, but I learned a valuable lesson: by the time it gets to that point, there's no tslking to them. You put that ring on their finger and they have the legal power. I wasn't a pushover by any means, but that doesn't matter. What matters is the ability to impose consequences, and once that ring is in place, the are no consequences for her no matter how much of a shitbag she turns into.
@JayParris Aye, I know how utterly skewed the legal marriage system is these days. It sickens me how it's designed to give the parasites for women out there an artificial upper hand. Us guys gotta make sure we pick them *very* wisely!
Fair do's man, I'm glad you got rid of the ham beast! I know it's difficult these days in the PC culture that we live in, but what women lack these days is the firm the hand of a man. Half the shit some of these men out there feel that they have to put up with, really shouldn't be.
@FreshOutaIdeas That was a big part of it. I went to my pop for advice several times, and he just blew it off as normal. That's just marriage and that's just women. We all have to put up with it. Yadda yadda yadda.
Fuck that and fuck marriage. I'll never hand over my legal power ever again.
I've noticed the old timers generally only fit into two categories - those like your (and my) old man, who live by that pathetic messages l mantra of "happy wife happy life", then the others which are traditional alpha males that don't put up with shit and are generally respected more by women.
whats wrong with crying, some morons say real men dont cry, noooo Real men are strong enough to show the vulnerable side and can cry... I don't know where im at... i think im in the middle. can't cry, tear buds won't do it because i had a sadistic mom who just LOVED to make me cry so to take away that pleasure... i stopped lol... she hated it... still does.
So they need a schedule to cry @Wowgirl30q ? thats what it sounds like. I don't know about others but i know two things... women can cry in an instant.. and i just... can't. I've tried... never works. logic doesn't allow it.
i dont think id blame it on that. i know im masculine... but masculine guys can still cry... i personally just can't. Has something to do with "mommy issues"... she got way too much pleasure from that. i got whooped for anything. so i stopped. been like that since.
question is what you you have that makes you think you deserve this kind of man? I am well aware that the kind of woman I want is not the kind I deserve the way I am now. Given your username and that stupid picture you put in, clearly that is not a level of self-awareness and self-reflection you possess.
I'm good except for the crying thing. Don't want anyone to die cause that is the only time I might. Few other times but its always so catastrophic we don't want any of that either. I can say I am very touched by people coming together to help one another and I well up and feel them. Sometimes I wish I could cry. Think I have the other qualities though.
I completely disagree because: Not all women are the same - Some women love men for different reasons. Not all men are the same - Some men don't fit in those patriarchal stereotypes.
Only thing girls like about me is that I'm good with maintaining and fixing cars. I'm basically only useful when Daddy isn't around to help with the oil change.
@shephardjhon First off... im glad you said "it comes off..." cuz thats my girl... and im the biggest cunt you will ever meet, like total male... and she just laughs. its just a matter of perspective but Wowgirl is actually quite understanding... you just gotta drive your point home harder lol
as for @Immanuel_Kant apparently you "Kant" understand what is going on.
Women don't love men, they want to control them for some hidden "Feminist," agenda. Women love men to be dumb, irresponsible, embarrassed and humiliated, weak and sick, they have a "mom-complex." Women allow you to touch naughty places through them controlling you, that is why most men cheat, they turn to prostitutes, girlfriends and wives, despise their boyfriends and husbands, to a tee, because they are men, they stand up to them and force them to back down to their feminism.
so you know that... but what are YOU doing about it? im pretty sure almost every man knows a woman has an agenda... but how many react? how many call them out? how many decide to dig their heels and refuse to be manipulated? Not many... right? the moment they see tits and vagina... the game is over. they just lay down and become doormats she can walk on.
my question to you sir is what are YOU doing about it... im gonna check out ur profile...(feel free to check mine out and see my fight) You are old enough... so you know what shit used to be like..."when did pussy become higher case value than dick" - Eddie Griffin
When dick ruled... everyone was happy... but when pussy ruled... NO One seems to be happy.
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I love women for the nurturing and softer side and femininity and all that. But the physical plays a big tole too. I do think it seems like women are more attracted to masculinity, male attributes and male gender than the actual physical sex itself. It seems like women are attracted to the male body and looks sexually is in coordination or conjunction to the male gender
Makes sense. A woman's love depends on the man providing things. Security (emotional, physical, mental, and financial), entertainment, and utility (help with housework, yardwork, repair, etc.)
Yeah same as a man's love depends on the ability of the woman making him feel needed, strong and big, her turning him on by being attractive etc
@Frickingpistachios not really. I loved my ex wife even though she gained 100lbs, stopped caring about her appearance, and pretty much disregarded me. It took her cheating on me and then pinning the blame for it on me for me to stop loving her.
Its more common for a man to stay with a woman, even if she stops being "lovable", than it is for a woman to stay with a man who stops providing.
@JayParris
You see, in the fuckheadedness of low quality, sub-human wenches like your ex-wife, there is a high degree of poetry that gets played out.
You stayed with her despite her turning into a fat, ugly slob, and she then dumps *YOU* for basically being too weak to tell her to fix the hell up, or get the fuck out - don't you see?
Boy, if that was me I would've kicked her to the curb when she started packing on the weight, and not just because of the weight itself, but because I can imagine that she was a royal headache in many other ways, right?
@FreshOutaIdeas You're right. My problem was that I took my vows seriously. The one part you were incorrect on is that I finally did correct that error and gave her the boot. I did try along the way to get her to take better care of herself, but I learned a valuable lesson: by the time it gets to that point, there's no tslking to them. You put that ring on their finger and they have the legal power. I wasn't a pushover by any means, but that doesn't matter. What matters is the ability to impose consequences, and once that ring is in place, the are no consequences for her no matter how much of a shitbag she turns into.
@JayParris
Aye, I know how utterly skewed the legal marriage system is these days. It sickens me how it's designed to give the parasites for women out there an artificial upper hand. Us guys gotta make sure we pick them *very* wisely!
Fair do's man, I'm glad you got rid of the ham beast! I know it's difficult these days in the PC culture that we live in, but what women lack these days is the firm the hand of a man. Half the shit some of these men out there feel that they have to put up with, really shouldn't be.
@FreshOutaIdeas That was a big part of it. I went to my pop for advice several times, and he just blew it off as normal. That's just marriage and that's just women. We all have to put up with it. Yadda yadda yadda.
Fuck that and fuck marriage. I'll never hand over my legal power ever again.
I've noticed the old timers generally only fit into two categories - those like your (and my) old man, who live by that pathetic messages l mantra of "happy wife happy life", then the others which are traditional alpha males that don't put up with shit and are generally respected more by women.
So true! You really are good at this so keep up the good work 👌
Nawwww just lots of psychology classes
Best MyTake ever. Congratulations, you jusr rendered the rest of the site redundant.
All excpet for the crying bit, that's bullshit.
whats wrong with crying, some morons say real men dont cry, noooo
Real men are strong enough to show the vulnerable side and can cry...
I don't know where im at... i think im in the middle. can't cry, tear buds won't do it because i had a sadistic mom who just LOVED to make me cry so to take away that pleasure... i stopped lol... she hated it... still does.
@Tdieseler I don't want my guy running around town crying and watching the notebook.. shiiitttt.. men can cry but there's a place and a time.
So they need a schedule to cry @Wowgirl30q ? thats what it sounds like. I don't know about others but i know two things... women can cry in an instant.. and i just... can't. I've tried... never works. logic doesn't allow it.
@Tdieseler because your a masculine dude. Thank you
i dont think id blame it on that. i know im masculine... but masculine guys can still cry... i personally just can't. Has something to do with "mommy issues"... she got way too much pleasure from that. i got whooped for anything. so i stopped. been like that since.
Amazing take so true I dont like to say it I think it offends some guys but you said it all here
I always say it all
I want to but dont like the argument
I don't argue just leave
I see.
You have a thing for... George St. Pierre. :)
Nailed it
Money
Protection
To lift heavy load
For company
Hidden agenda.
Women are independent nowadays they don't need a man.
Gay.
Women need men more than ever... You see this is what they *NEED* -
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xK-oyqDBEJ8
Shame I can't find the whole clip anymore, I'm sure you can work out what happens next.
@FreshOutaIdeas
They predicted the furture
Haha we can concur!
Bring back masculinity!!
@FreshOutaIdeas yayyy
Not a bitchy one no if I wanted a emotional bitchy mess I'd date a chick
question is what you you have that makes you think you deserve this kind of man?
I am well aware that the kind of woman I want is not the kind I deserve the way I am now. Given your username and that stupid picture you put in, clearly that is not a level of self-awareness and self-reflection you possess.
Over analysis is the burden that all "forever will be virgins" seem to not know that they possess π€¨π
I'm good except for the crying thing. Don't want anyone to die cause that is the only time I might. Few other times but its always so catastrophic we don't want any of that either. I can say I am very touched by people coming together to help one another and I well up and feel them. Sometimes I wish I could cry. Think I have the other qualities though.
yeah same I don't cry that easily, and neither does my guy friend
Sounds good
Makes sense 🤔
Great take! I'm on my way to perfecting those things for boo 😎
Be you rest will come
Why dudes downvoting me?
Sheesh, some guys really hate self-imorovement
They hate me actually
Really delicate these little guysπ€£
Pretty sad π€£
Very sad they must not flex muchπͺπππ
Exactly ππ€£
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Every last bit of this is true.. my wife agrees lol. Good mytake!!
Lol cool.
I completely disagree because:
Not all women are the same - Some women love men for different reasons.
Not all men are the same - Some men don't fit in those patriarchal stereotypes.
Fair enough appreciate you being respectful sir
You're welcome.
@ImaginativeDreamer
See how we just disagreed in a respectful way and thank you for that. People on here for some reason can not do that. So thank you
I know, right, you're very welcome, too bad most other people here can't do that :)
I know...
More appropriately titled 5 reasons why the OP expects men to do everything in a relationship or when dating
Wait, what?
Women actually love men?
This is news to me!
Have I believed lies? I thought... nevermind.
What a revelation!
I love men lol
@Nina12346 good to knowβΊ
And i love women π©ππ
Good
And she seriously thinks she speaks for all women! 😂 Not even most I'd say. Actually, not even "some".
Who are you and why would you assume I care? Now that's silly
No you speak for all women π
It's not about whether you care. It's about whether it's true. And it is not.
Only thing girls like about me is that I'm good with maintaining and fixing cars.
I'm basically only useful when Daddy isn't around to help with the oil change.
Then stop helping them...
Not as long as I'm getting some money from it.
Nvm I thought you were doing it for free.
Why are people getting so triggered over this? Itβs a general standards paired with personal preference.
I was just thinking that..
Holy Bitterness oh my...
@Immanuel_Kant? Weirdos dude rejects I don't know..
it comes off as SUPER entitled. What is she even offering that she deserves this from men?
@shephardjhon First off... im glad you said "it comes off..." cuz thats my girl... and im the biggest cunt you will ever meet, like total male... and she just laughs. its just a matter of perspective but Wowgirl is actually quite understanding... you just gotta drive your point home harder lol
as for @Immanuel_Kant apparently you "Kant" understand what is going on.
Wow... im in love...
well you know that already... :)
@Tdieseler
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Call me I was so worried
not really in a talking mood but i text you ok?
Yes text @Tdieseler
You don't really need a mytake for this. Of course women love men, that's kind of how it's all designed to be.
Why are some getting so mad? I don't get it..
People who don't like being told natural biology abides for one reason or the other.
I'm just asking
Women don't love men, they want to control them for some hidden "Feminist," agenda. Women love men to be dumb, irresponsible, embarrassed and humiliated, weak and sick, they have a "mom-complex."
Women allow you to touch naughty places through them controlling you, that is why most men cheat, they turn to prostitutes, girlfriends and wives,
despise their boyfriends and husbands, to a tee, because they are men, they stand up to them and force them to back down to their feminism.
so you know that... but what are YOU doing about it? im pretty sure almost every man knows a woman has an agenda... but how many react? how many call them out? how many decide to dig their heels and refuse to be manipulated?
Not many... right? the moment they see tits and vagina... the game is over. they just lay down and become doormats she can walk on.
my question to you sir is what are YOU doing about it... im gonna check out ur profile...(feel free to check mine out and see my fight)
You are old enough... so you know what shit used to be like..."when did pussy become higher case value than dick" - Eddie Griffin
When dick ruled... everyone was happy... but when pussy ruled... NO One seems to be happy.