Advice: When casual romance blows up in your face (Page 2)

[Valnac]

The definition of casual sex is two people getting together to enjoy each other. Period
I think you’re reading to much into it

[BZRKr]

People seeking casual sex usually have an initial attraction, if not emotional, then at least physical. And from there things will develop.
I disagree with you're statement.

[kitty71]

@BZRKr Wow you are totally right. Exactly what is happening to me now with my crush it started like an attraction but the guy i snon committal and never had been with me anyway and does nto want to develop any emtions either but he knew i was the same and still he stopped talking to me eheheh

[Syrian_survivor]

I agree! I'm surprised you think this way tbh

Great take 👍 I just wished more people had this mindset haha

[RedThread]

I have no experience with things exploding in my face.

[Furuok]

Do women have casual sex or is it just men playing this role? How long should a person try to build a relationship with this person before moving on?

[Alpha09]

Women do. I do. Trying to build something permanent or trying to change thier mind even tho you agreed to something casual isn't advisable. BUT there isn't anything wrong with making your feelings known if you guys know how to communicate. Who knows, maybe they feel the same.

[Furuok]

I spent seven years trying before giving up on her. It took a great bit of damage before realizing it could never work. After she left then noticed that other people weren't so forgiving. Just wish pretty women gave ugly guys more of a chance. If they only knew how much we appreciate them.

[Alpha09]

I've seen some gorgeous women with some average guys. It really just depends on the girl.

[Alpha09]

You can't force attraction tho, in a perfect world everyone would give everybody a chance regardless of looks, but biology, attraction and personal preference have a lot to do with who we like.

[Furuok]

Or what we're willing to except?

[Alpha09]

Or what, what?

[Furuok]

Size matters, the cheese test, children, lots of things darling.

[Furuok]

Fighting sucks for everyone. Should always end those relationships.

[Alpha09]

Yeah I don't think we're on the same page...

[shimmeryns]

Completely agree with this.

[Anonymous]

One of my friend (girl) was living double life , she had a casual fuck buddy from tinder , that guy was clear about just fuck , initially she was also but later she developed feelings for him , and now that he left , she is in mind fucked stage

[solidsoul777]

I just got done giving a somewhat similar view.. perfect

[martinsunclair]

That is absolutely true because I have come out of a relationship just like that and it f**king hurt like he'll when it all went peek long. Thank you.

[Anonymous]

Yea that why I opted out of casual relationship get to many emotional women “how I could do this to them”.

[Manbunhand]

Could you check my question and maybe do one on ghosters

[gagasonionsack]

This was great, and very true/real life advice for people

[monkeynutts]

This is common sense.

[up_64]

It's sense. But in 2019 I'm not sure that it's so common

[rjroy3]

Holistic well rounded take per usual *thumbs up*

[tonicandgin]

Do one on being the rebound girl/boy :)

[Browneye57]

Reasonable. It's a failing all around.

[Lightning8]

Read the first couple paragraphs. good take

[I-Wondoer]

Cause casual sex make you emotional involve

[Joker_]

Thank you for the advice

[DECENTSCOTTISHLAD999]

l only date long term

[luvstoned4him]

Agreed 💯