And you won’t get hurt!
It has taken me some time to get this..why? Because I second guess myself. Always go with your gut! If a man (or woman) cares about you, values you, they will make you a priority. Not just with his or her words but also with ACTIONS which in my opinion, show more value than words. What they won’t do is give you excuses, such as what I had to excuse
• Made me feel like spending time with me is him doing ME a favor. Is my time not valuable? And apparently having to entertain me. What? Guess us getting close was too much for him to handle, or one of his friends put a bug in his ear. We have known each 1.5 years.
• I took it personal when he told me he doesn’t sleep well when he has to share the bed with me..it’s not like I’m over every night..when I care for someone I don’t mind being close to them. I was hurt by his words but if someone wants space, I will give them all the space in the world.
last thing I will do is chase someone for attention. I am a loyal person, but if someone shows me they don’t value me, I don’t question it, I believe it!! That’s my take.
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Unfortunately we're more in a me me me I I I culture, than an us or two after better than one culture. But, totally agree, never fight for someone not willing to fight for you. You deserve someone better then that!!♥️
Should have spoken up and told him how you feel and asked him why he asked you to come over If he doesn’t want to share a bed people need to hear the truth and know when their words and actions are shitty
I have spoken up on multiple occasions regarding his behaviors.. he is clueless
ALWAYS