If a person is into you-you will know it!

[Gymgirl71]

When you meet someone, if they are genuinely interested in you you will know it. If you have to question if they are into you, they probably aren't. It would really be obvious. But what if this is someone your in a relationship with?what if in the beginning they were doing everything right calling, asking to see you etc and now they are lax? Not reliable about calling and seeing you, etc? I think when this happens the worst thing you can do is show more attention. Most likely they are taking you for granted. They were thrilled with the chase and now they have you, so they don't think they have to try so much anymore. Maybe they are into you but just not as invested as you are. Either way I think when this happens you have to stop doing what your doing and let him step up to the plate. If he doesn't, then better to find someone who will. Life is too short to settle.

[Kalinda]

You went from a person to "him". Why?

Also I think if someone us taking you for granted because they liked the thrill of the chase, you should not give them less attention you should leave and only get into relationships with people who actually want a relationship.

[DarkHumorRUs]

"Life is too short to settle" doesn't make sense. It takes less time to settle.