Relationship Advice, Opinions, Answers and Valentines Day !

[Anonymous]

(cute pic right?)

This time of year everyones worried about relationships. No worries or fears the relationship not so much an expert is here.

Now it maybe hard to comprehend but, relationships can be a lot easier than you guys make them out to be. Keep your partner interested (be experimental try new things if you're up for it ), don't lie or cheat, and respect each other and you'll be a-ok. Granted not all relationships are meant to last. So if you feel something isn't right end the relationship simple solution. Don't waste your time with someone you know you can't see a future. Don't rush into things you're not ready for and don't pressure anyone to do anything they're not ready for it won't be good for either of you!

As for Valentine's Day. I'm sure everyone's wondering what to do for their significant other and while I can't really help you with that as I don't know you or your partner I can safely give advice to the singles who are going to be all sorts of lonely on February 14th. Here's some suggestions of what you can do on your own

☆Go out with friends don't mourn the day alone if you don't have to.

☆Find a lady or dude and hook up with them (with their consent of course!!) there's no shame in having some harmless fun.

☆Stay home and have a movie marathon! (although I would stay away from those depressing romantic movies.)

☆Ask that special guy or girl out! (I mean why not right? You're all ready single so your day won't really be changing if they say no! )

Hope this helped?

[sammy_31]

Valentine's Day has always been just another day for me lol

[YourFutureEx]

I think I'll follow your third point.

[fiego]

I like you last piece of advice, "Just ask someone out" the worse thing they can say is no.

[myTake Owner]

Thanks! I'm considering taking my own advice this year. haha

[fiego]

Good luck... let us know how it turns out. It could be a great follow up to your myTake:)

[Anonymous]

I been hanging out with this girl for 8 months about 1 day a week and i really like her. She laughs at almost all of my jokes and likes to make fun of me. One this though is sometimes she doesn’t text back when I text her. Is there other things i can to do for her to like me or even something to see if she like's me back? any tips? some people i tell this too say "i'm friendzoned" is this true?

[myTake Owner]

Everyone jumps to the friendzone conclusion when actually you might be really close. Sometimes you just gotta spell it out for girls if you've been hanging out with her for that long she might be a little clueless if you've tried flirting with her. (: And her laughing at all your jokes is a good thing because unless you're some sort of comedic god and every body thinks you're hilarious there's a good chance she's doing it to make you feel better about yourself.

[Opinion Owner]

any tips on me flirting with her? recently she texted me to hangout a couple of time.

[myTake Owner]

You can play games like 21 questions or Confessions over text and just ask her about herself and get to know her interests! You might also want to try hanging out with her around her friends people tend to act like themselves around people they know and trust so thats a good way of observation. When flirting just say what feels natural try not to think about it too much one of the points in flirting is to be witty and quick on your feet!

[Anonymous]

If you live far away from people, do you wish female friends or acquaintances a happy Valentine's day?

[myTake Owner]

Sure why not! It could really brighten up their day to know somebody thought about them !

[Opinion Owner]

If you're technically friends though/acquaintances and you're not besties though?

Would it come across as coming onto them?

[myTake Owner]

Not if you make sure they only see you as a friend/aquaintances. You can try making the message impersonal and vague?

[Opinion Owner]

What do you suggest?

[myTake Owner]

"happy Valentine's day dude have a good one!"

[myTake Owner]

i call everyone dude its gender neutral and its an implication of friendship (:

[Opinion Owner]

From a guy to a girl though?

What can you say that sounds a little flirty, but not too forward if you haven't seen each other for ages?

[Opinion Owner]

Should you use their name in the message or would that be construed as romantic?

[myTake Owner]

You can try "What's up ______. Have a good Valentine's day!" Make it as informal as you can if you must use her name use informal greetings or some silly pictures.

[Opinion Owner]

So is not best to say "Happy Valentine's Day xyz!!" to a female friend?

[myTake Owner]

not too sure what xyz is but think of it in a way that if your girlfriend read it and would get jealous best not to say it.

[Opinion Owner]

I just mean "Happy Valentine's day [Name of friend]!"

I don't have a gf.

If a female friend who you haven't seen for ages saw this, would it be all right?

Otherwise what would you suggest saying that sounds cool?

[myTake Owner]

Thats fine! (: Just beware no matter what you do send her she's going to know you were thinking of her on one of the most romantic days of the year and especially if you two haven't seen each other in a long time.

[Opinion Owner]

Ok, maybe one of my friends, I like a little, so what would you suggest to send to her? Bearing in mind, I want to stay in touch afterward and her not to delete me!

What about for other female friends?

Best sample texts you would like to receive as a girl?

[TheEnding]

I guess it is a good day to try to ask someone out. If they're single, maybe they also have the Valentine's blues and will be more receptive.

[Anonymous]

Does my girlfriend have to take me out on Valentine's day? Because my birthday is on that day?

[myTake Owner]

Not necessarily "have" too. It'd be a good idea seeing as how she'd probably take you out to dinner on your birthday or you'd take her out on Valentine's day whether you were born on the day or not, but hey if that's not either of yours style than she'll probably plan something pertaining to your interest (: