I don't have a problem with my boyfriend camping with two female friends. My issue is that he put himself in the position where he slept (apparently it was only sleeping) between two girls. I understand under certain circumstances he may of needed to share a tent but this wasn't the case.
I found out on the night that he was going on a camping trip with his female housemates and friends. They occasionally spend time together as they are old friends and I am completely fine with that. During the trip, I called to ask him about how it was going. I later found out over the conversation that he was sharing the tent with the other 2 girls. He told me that I shouldn't worry because they are just friends.
I don't care that they "just" friends. He could have easily avoided the situation as I know he knew there was 3 people attending the trip and that he also has more than 3 tents available.
I am on the fence with this. The fact that he brought one tent knowingly knew he had to share. It hurts and upsets me, as I feel he has disrespected and emotionally cheated on me. But he has many female friends and these girls don't seem to have an interest in him (from my own observation) but I know if the situation was switch he would be upset himself.
Part of me wants to end and this is a great example of his selfishness and immaturity for not seeing how this situation is not okay and how it would hurt me but part of me believe I may be over reacting as he ensured me he did not cheat as he saw one of them as a sister and the other was not his "type", and I feel I should trust him.
What should I do? What is there to talk about? Even if I forgive him at the back of my mind I will always question how he thought THAT was okay.
I found out on the night that he was going on a camping trip with his female housemates and friends. They occasionally spend time together as they are old friends and I am completely fine with that. During the trip, I called to ask him about how it was going. I later found out over the conversation that he was sharing the tent with the other 2 girls. He told me that I shouldn't worry because they are just friends.
I don't care that they "just" friends. He could have easily avoided the situation as I know he knew there was 3 people attending the trip and that he also has more than 3 tents available.
I am on the fence with this. The fact that he brought one tent knowingly knew he had to share. It hurts and upsets me, as I feel he has disrespected and emotionally cheated on me. But he has many female friends and these girls don't seem to have an interest in him (from my own observation) but I know if the situation was switch he would be upset himself.
Part of me wants to end and this is a great example of his selfishness and immaturity for not seeing how this situation is not okay and how it would hurt me but part of me believe I may be over reacting as he ensured me he did not cheat as he saw one of them as a sister and the other was not his "type", and I feel I should trust him.
What should I do? What is there to talk about? Even if I forgive him at the back of my mind I will always question how he thought THAT was okay.
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