My girlfriend never expresses her opinion!?

[Honeybunmy]

So I've been in a relationship with her for like, almost five months. We love each other to bits and always can't wait to see each other!! But when we are together and i ask her what she wants to do, she says whatever you want to do! And in like well i feel like video games or comedy show, but i want to know what you want!! And she's always saying well whatever makes you happy makes me happy! I know its just cuz she loves me but i really want her to have her way sometimes!!! When she gives me all the power, it feels like i could maninpulate her really easily bit I dont want too!!! This may be confusing to you guys but if you understand can tou explain to me why she doesn't do what she wants to do? Please!!

[TheLastGirlScout]

My boyfriend does this all the time too and it also drives me absolutely crazy! I'm sneaky now though, I'll be like 'Ok, I want to go and do this or that' knowing full well he doesn't want to do it or really enjoy it, he soon got sick of this and started telling me what he would like to do. Cruel to be kind!

[Drooogie4]

Ahhh my boyfriend can be the same way and it drives me crazyyyy.
Just talk to her and let her know how seriously you mean that you want her opinion. And just remember stuff she likes and suggest it when she won't tell you. It may help her get the point?

[Honeybunmy]

Ya i do try that sometimes its just that she's so, indecisive!! Its like her only goal, when we're together is to make me happy!!! But what i want is for her to express herself!

[abundantlyrich]

She sounds too simple minded and passive. She needs to develop an independent mind.

[Honeybunmy]

Dont call her simple minded, thats disrespectful.

[abundantlyrich]

No its not.

[Honeybunmy]

It is to me.

[abundantlyrich]

I guess you do, cause you're 14

[Honeybunmy]

Age has nothing to do with it and im not 14.

[abundantlyrich]

You are her puppeteer.

[Honeybunmy]

How am i her puppeteer? I dont control her!!!

[abundantlyrich]

She is giving you all her power

[Honeybunmy]

Ok but that doesn't mean she's dumb, that just means she's unconfident about sharing her opinions, or she has the same opinions as me!

[icantwait]

I know what that's like and can be quite irritating sometimes.

Anyways it just means she's submissive to you and wants you to lead her. Its just a personality trait and not really changeable, at least not without a string conscious effort on her part