My girlfriend never admits that she's wrong?

[Anonymous]

I love my girlfriend with my whole heart. She is generally a very sweet and loving girl. However, whenever we have an argument she never admits that she's wrong even when I am not the one to blame. It's like she always has some excuse to defend herself when apparently she IS the one who causes our argument in the first place.

I am always wrong no matter what. What can I do? Now I don't mind to let her win the argument because it's a fight what's the point of 'winning' it if that means she'd feel unhappy and upset. I just wish she can see her own fault sometimes.

[Mekkalyn]

Coming from someone exactly like your girlfriend...

It's really hard to see outside your own opinion. It's harder for some than others. And you know, she probably genuinely thinks she's right. When I think I am right, I don't like to back down.

However, if I know that I am not right, I always try to apologize. Most of the time it's after the fact. Like after my temper has cooled and I can see outside of my emotions, I realize that I was wrong and I try to correct things.

My significant other has complained about this, just like you. If I didn't know better, I'd think he was the one that wrote this!!