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Ffs man, you're willing to shut up and be a yes man with no personality of your own just to avoid arguments and her being a drama queen?
How long do you plan on keeping that up? How many years? Would you marry this girl and be like this for the rest of your life?
You shouldn't apologize for speaking your own mind and standing up for your own beliefs. If she can't handle your opinions and causes a stink until you give up and admit you're wrong (when you're not wrong, you're expressing your damn views) then that's not a healthy relationship. Neither of you should be doing that to either. It sounds manipulative and controlling. It is also dishonest on your part and I mean dishonest to yourself.
Over time this will only chew at you until you either can't stand it anymore and snap, dump her and regret all the time you wasted on such a relationship, or you will end up a broken person, unable to actually form an opinion other than what she tells you to or trains you to.
You already sound like she has manipulated you. You love her so much that you're willing to sacrifice your own damn free will just so you can be with her.
That's a problem. She is trying to change who you are and conform you into what she wants regardless of what you want. A relationship is not about that and you should be with and love someone as they are, warts and all. If she is trying to change who you are, especially to the point of trying to control what you damn well think, you better re-evaluate this relationship.
Trust me, I've been there with a similar girlfriend years back. I have little self esteem and I was ignorant on a lot of things. She was constantly telling me what I should or shouldn't be doing, she was telling me all the thing's she didn't like that I did and for me to stop doing them. I put up with it because I thoughts that's what relationships were like. I cared for her despite all my friends and family telling me she was terrible for me and couldn't figure out why I was with her.
But they didn't understand I said, they don't know her like I know her.
We'll I ended up having to learn the hard way on my own and she cheated on me twice. She was manipulative, a drama queen, and despite all the times she was nice and caring, it was all for her to manipulate and make me do what she wanted.
> she just gets all moody until eventually I always apologise and tell her I was wrong
Well, if every time she goes into a hissing fit, you PROVE HER SHE WAS RIGHT by groveling and apologizing, then you confirm and reinforce her shitty behavior.
There are two ways out of this:
1) Disagree more often. She'll get used to it. Stand up and don't surrender.
2) Offer her a very large strap-on, wear garters and become her bitch.
> i love her lots so i don't want this to hurt out relationship.
You don't have a relationship, cupcake. You are her doormat.
I think she has low self esteem issues, and she thinks she has to be right all the time or else she doesn't matter. You have to tell her that she has no right to control you just as you have no right to control her, and that it's ok for her to have her own opinions. She can like oceans and you can like video games, it's ok to be different and you accept her and she needs to do the same to you. You also have to just be patient and see if she learns to love herself and accept herself, then she can love and accept you.
How about you dump her but for being entitled and find another mature young woman to date and perhaps consider marriage to. Stop allowing her to control you. You have the right go disagree rven if it hurts her. All you have to say is that your not trying to hurt her feelings but your staying with your opinion. That's it. She wants to throw a fit, let a throw a fit like a moody child. She'll know when you walk.
If a girl can never hear out your opinion or have an adult conversation of compromise and disagreements, she does not deserve a relationship. She is too immature to handle that she is wrong and will continue to deny anything that goes against her. I hate to say this so bluntly, but end it now. It will only frustrate and change who you are completely.
I'd break up with her. I hate people like that. If she's not mature enough to accept that you have different opinions than her then she's not mature enough to be in a relationship. Plus if she doesn't respect your opinions how tf is she gonna respect you as a person.
You girlfriend needs to grow up. To understand that she isn't gonna be always right and she needs to learn to take responsibility in the event that she is wrong. To admit that she is wrong , accept it and move on.
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Based on what you wrote, she sounds very immature and insecure.
In answer to your question, no, you don't try and adopt her opinion if your own differs from hers. It's very important to be your own person and not lose yourself, especially when in a relationship.
If you continually end up apologising and compromising on your own opinions then it's no wonder that she never lets you be right anymore. Stop being a doormat. If you are sure that you are right then don't apologise for your opinion. You can still apologise for a fight getting out of hand without having to admit or agree that you were wrong if you believe you weren't.
If allow her to have her own way all the time then you'll regret it.
That's what we do, I hate it when someone disagrees with my opinion.
1. women are always right.
2. eveb when women aren't wrong.. they are right
3. talk to her about it and stand up for yourself and what you believe or the opinions you have.
Chances are she's desperate for you to go against her. Girls like that think they want a "yes man" but the need a dude who can stand their ground. If she can't handle that, leave her.
Break up with her. If she can't be fair those are some of the reasons why men die first is that it causes to much stress dealing with a girl like that and it makes you want to kill yourself. Break up
your learning early in life that women are right even if there wrong if your in a relationship with them. lol
you should be allowed to have your own opinions, it's only healthy. people in a relationship don't necessarily always have to agree with each other, but should respect each other's opinion nonetheless. she sounds like she's acting like a child tbh.
Just agree to disagree. Try not to tell her that you were wrong just to end her moodiness, because then she'll always think she's right. You're allowed to think for yourself and you shouldn't have to change your opinions just to appease her
Pff she sounds annoying do you really want to stay with someone like that? Because people don't change if they keep getting what they want
Ugh I hate people like that so much... it actually is attractive when a person can fucking agree to disagree and respect differences. You can't always be right bitch.
you can't just conform to everything she says even if you disagree.
-bush did 9/11
-yes, honey, of course
there's nothing wrong with disagreeing as long as y'all don't bash each others opinions and ideas
dont say you're sorry, she gotta accept that you have your own opinion, dont let her change u man
She's a woman. Disagree with her she blows her top. Simple as lighting off TNT
yes your girl is alway right even when she wrong it something you gotta work around make her see that your way is right without disagreeing with her and maybe she will agree to yours
if she can't respect your opinions, she's not right for you, and has some growing up to do
I personally hate it when people don't let you have your own ideas. I suggest brining it up with her and tell that it bothers you.
dump her ass or be her slave.
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