Why can't I bring myself to kiss my boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

I've had boyfriends before and never been in a hesitant mood to kiss them (but one) and well for some reason with the guy I'm dating now it's taking a long to for me to bring my self to kiss him. Say I love him and all that but I just can't kiss him! Been dating for almost a month now if that helps... I don't know what's going on

[Jordy789]

I hate to say it but I don't think you find him attractive anymore. You gotta find something to do to spice your relationship up because it seems like all the excitement might be starting to fade away. Make him earn it to kiss you, but not to much or he might to have second thoughts to.

Answer mine if you have sometime please :)

[mygameboy]

Just quickly count to three and kiss him! Don't think just kiss! Make sure not to run into his face though!

[Anonymous]

I don't really understand how you're in a relationship and saying "I love you" if you haven't kissed yet. Plus, saying "I love you" after a month is a little fast.

[Mesonfielde]

Just go for it, lol

[Aequilibri]

Is he your first boyfriend?

[Asker]

No I've had plenty before him.

[Aequilibri]

By any chance, have you had any unpleasant experiences during any of these previous relationships?

[Asker]

I'm sorry I mean I have with one

[Aequilibri]

That might be the issue