I am inclined to agree.
The closer to the bottom of society a particular black man is, the more value he seems to see in things like jewelry, designer clothes, expensive shoes, rims, and getting with large numbers of women, where each woman seems to have different value based upon the lightness of her skin tone.
This insecurity seems so pervasive that they enter social situations with a mindset of "Either I'm dominating them or they're dominating me" (no recognition of the option of being mutually respectful). They will be especially rude to white men, even when the white guy did nothing to provoke their angst, and they go around running their mouths saying that white men are soft and what-not. The whole time, the white guy was just trying to be civil with them.
These guys walk around with white girls on their arm as though interracial dating is awesome and all that, but once they see a white guy walking around with a black girl on his arm, they feel the need to put a stop to interracial dating, and once they feel they have done due diligence, they go back to their white girl. (rolls eyes) I sometimes wonder how many of these black guys are getting with white girls, not because they like white girls, but because that gives them an opportunity to get one over on white guys.
It does astound me that so many women say they want guys like that. I have nothing against women wanting a black man who has class, who respects the customs of civil society, and things like that, as that kind of man is like every other good man and what woman doesn't want a good man?, but they seem to want these lower class black men -- if they can be called men -- who are just douches to anyone and everyone. That just makes no sense to me. But then again, I suspect that the desire for them is a lot lower than they and the media want us to believe.
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Technically we are all mixed. I'm considered black but have white and Native American ancestors along with black ancestors. Many other people are the same. So that's the first thing.
2ndly, well I don't use IG or twitter. I really don't use fb either. I've never cared about Jordan's. I usually can't afford them, and shoes are shoes at the end of the day. Rims? Yeah eventually I do want to get some nice ones but they're not that important. If they were I would've had some nice ones by now.
If all that stuff is a mask of insecurity then I know I'm not insecure then. I think your statement is generalizing, but I understand where you are coming from.
Lastly, yes some white and Latina girls do want black guys. Some even like the black urban lifestyle that black guys exhibit. I think you can like shoes and white & Latina girls without being insecure though. I also think people of all races are guilty of ridiculous IG pages, tweets, etc.
I heard online from this black guy that he was in a black neighbourhood. And the moment he brought his white girl friends, every black guy wanted to be friends with him. He said that in that black community, being with white girls brings your status high somehow. I'm not sure if it's for a wide range of black guys but I dont think it is. It's just based on where someone is being raised and how. And everyone's insecure at something so it's not only black guys. Personally I don't see anything wrong with interacial dating. Besides, we all came from the same place meaning we're all just one race; the human race. So black, white, brown, those are just tones and values of the same color.
Many black people have inferiority complexes (often subconscious) and so they see other races as superior to them. They desire having non-black/light person at their side as a status symbol and they want to mix their bloodline so their kids don't come out dark or black like them. They want to remove themselves from blackness.
I don't its like asking do you want vanilla or chocolate, some people hate vanilla and some people love chocolate.
But whatever you say people are different.
Personally, I think people who feel the need to generalize races like that and put so much emphasis on racial stereotypes, are the ones who are really insecure.
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You say that you're part black yet you refer to blacks as 'them'... this reeks of troll. Thanks troll for helping to continue to propagate the negative stereotypes associated with being a black man; and then to finish off by saying "Do Latinas and white girls actually want them?" As though we are sub-human and disgusting.
I love when Allen Iverson hit that one white girl with a chair lol. Most black men want black women.
actually where I live this is every race even whites, Im native American and see a lot of native American men show off by trying to fight someone for no reason or something stupid for attention, but I live in a ghetto area so that's mainly why
Why is ANYONE insecure? This isn't a one race trait.
It does come across as rather pathetic does it not? I think the a lot of them are weak minded to be honest. That's just my opinion.
They don't know any better. They have bad role models
The real problem is why does the media encourage the victum mentality and promote it.
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