My boyfriend didn't text me all day is it normal?

[Hajar_Whitestone]

My boyfriend didn't text me all day and I did feel dumped after our talk last night. I'm stubborn type so I did decided I won't text him tell he do but it's been 11H I didn't get any text message from him >< what should I do? I want talk to him so badly damn I hate when guys do this

[Anonymous]

It's normal. He's not doing it deliberately. He genuinely doesn't see what he's doing wrong.

Guys don't even notice the time going by so trying to wound him or get him back by not texting him, simply will not work, and will only drive you demented.

[Hajar_Whitestone]

So what should I do?

[Opinion Owner]

Learn to live with it - have a life outside the relationship.

Or patiently explain to the guy that maybe he's new to relationships and doesn't know this but women are insecure and needy. They need to know that he's thinking of them during the day. Like the little "ping" of a heart monitor, it's steady beeping is what calms her down and lets her know the relationship is still alive. He must become the beep, by texting inane things on a regular basis.

[dartmaul15]

Also may i add that women should stop analyzing everything?
he's not responding? He could be working? He could be busy? His phone could be dead and he can't find the charger? He forgot his phone at a freind's place?
Usually the answer is very simple.
TL:DR guys has a habit of missing signals, and girls got a habit of overthinking em.

[Hajar_Whitestone]

@dartmaul15 T^T you are so damn right >///<

[yaddayaddayadda02]

You tell me if it's normal. I don't know his normal texting patterns.

[Hajar_Whitestone]

If I know the answer I wouldn't ask --"

[Hajar_Whitestone]

Normally we text each other everyday and all day today he didn't even say a word to me ><

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Isn't it possible he got super busy at work or something?

[Hajar_Whitestone]

I did think on that too but am kinda worried I'm I just over acting? I really don't know I can't think anymore :(

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Why did you think you were broken up after your conversation?

[Hajar_Whitestone]

I can't think in anything, when I make a feedback to what we talked about last night I find everything was normal, like any 2 in relationship :/ but when I look to his behaver today kinda worried me.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

But if it's possible it's another scenario, I'd assume that first, not the worst. A day isn't a huge deal. he could have forgotten his phone.

[Hajar_Whitestone]

Maybe you are right, but why guys do this I mean ignore there gf for a day or maybe 2 ? is it a sign that he is getting bored?

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Does he do this routinely? For me, it's ALWAYS when I'm busy at work. Unless I'm REALLY pissed at my wife.

[Hajar_Whitestone]

No just today he did that :3

Ohh I see ^^ thank you for telling me :)

[yaddayaddayadda02]

So don't get worked up over 1 day.

[Hajar_Whitestone]

Yes Sir hhh :)

[jimmms]

DO NOT TEXT HIM!!! Let him chase you... men are hunters and he'll appreciate you a lot more if he has to work a little harder to get/keep you. If you give in first, you'll always be on the losing end... trust me on this... been there done that.

[Hajar_Whitestone]

Thanks you girl ^^ I'll do as you said let's see what will happen between I want to ask you something but it's private so I'll send you message if it's ok ^^

[jimmms]

yes, it's ok :o)

[Hajar_Whitestone]

Thank you

[Hajar_Whitestone]

I can't message you, you have a private account :( really need your advice if you can please follow me to be able to contact you

[jimmms]

Ok... I sent you a message, try replying to it

[Anonymous]

You're not married so most likely his world doesn't revolve around you

[Prilee1992]

Personally If I'm in a relationship, I would prefer more calling-setting up dates, rather than random texting. Except it is for turn on's stuff ;)