My gf spanks me.. Not sure if its for real or if its role playing?

[Anonymous]

she spanks me when I don't do what I'm told. it hurts sometimes but i enjoy it once in a while. if this continues could she end up feeling like she's the boss in the relationship?

[Ray78me]

It seems as though your girlfriend is into Sadomasochism (S & M - google it)
You should research it and determine if you are willing to try it. If not, tell her to stop.
I dont think she perceives herself as a boss in the relationship, just having fun. I like to spank but think of it because it turns me on to be submissive, especially during sex ;)

[Asker]

Oh i enjoy it.. Its a rush to be submissive and you give the other control but i dont want it to leave the context of role playing into actual life

[Ray78me]

Understood. Then talk to her about it... Simple. A relationship will crumble if there is not communication.

[PonyCar]

Consideration #1: It could be a fetish.
Consideration #2: Do you enjoy it?
Consideration #3: Do you have a problem with there being a power game in your relationship? If so, do you feel comfortable enough with your GF to talk to her about it.

[Asker]

Im ashamed i like it.. Am i weird. I think its cuz i wasn't spanked as a kid. Its a rush having her in control but only in role playing

[PonyCar]

Oh trust me buddy, you are not alone. BDSM is one of THE biggest fetishes by sheer population. It's so popular that mainstream culture regularly jokes about it (& it's super hard to find someone who's never heard of it). Every BDSM scenario has a dominant/submissive person playing each role. No harm or shame in it. It is after all just playing.

[Frenchkiss24]

She likes to dominate you obviously. Inform her that this kind of behavior is only allowed during sex.

[Crushonyoufornow]

Why are u afraid who is the boss each one of you has his own role , if u enjoy it let her do it

[Anonymous]

Wow lol
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Ha ha

[Anonymous]

If she does start to become dominate, I'd recommend talking to her!

[Asker]

Sometimes she tells me in public she's going to spank me when we get home. That gets awkward

[Opinion Owner]

you need to talk to her because if this becomes more than just playing around, she'll feel controlling.. unless you want her to wear the pants?

[Asker]

Thats what im afraid of. I'll talk to her

[Opinion Owner]

great choice :)

[Anonymous]

Just have fun with it, smack her ass back... next thing you know... you'll both be in bed!

[JangusRoundstone]

Even if it's role playing... it's still real?

[Asker]

I only get spanked if i lie but sometimes it felt good maybe it's because i wasn't spanked as a child

[JangusRoundstone]

hey if you like it than enjoy it! No worries haha

[Asker]

I never knew i was submissive.. Its a real rush

[Anonymous]

You'll be wearing diapers before you know it.

[Anonymous]

She thinks she owns you