Well, the fact that she got a restraining order is a pretty strong indication that she thinks what you did was abusive.
Did you have her express, sober, uncoerced, enthusiastic consent to do these things? Did you establish her boundaries? Discuss if she liked it, or how hard or soft she wanted it?
Risk aware, consensual BDSM is ok.
Just doing something like that on the spur of the moment without discussing it? Very wrong. Very, very wrong.
It's ridiculous you think you did "nothing too bad". Would you ever tolerate that from her? I'm sure you wouldn't.
I’m presuming this is a troll post, but just for the record you don’t spank anyone hard (unless it’s a real BDSM kink and a safe word is in place), but especially not with a chain or guitar. That IS abuse.
Did she consent to get spanked. And with a guitar? If you'd tried that on me you'd have much more to worry about than a restraining order.
Assuming this isn't a shitpost then it can be argued that essentially assaulted her, a lot of people that deal out abuse often don't see what they did/are doing as wrong.
I mean... If it's her kink, I don't see why not, but hitting her ass with a guitar kinda makes me question how you got to that point.
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with hand, chain, guitar, whats next, a metal baseball bat, i plank with barbed wire, with a rifle? 😂
Would have actually sounded real if u hadn't added the guitar.
Also don't waste our time with troll questions please
So you assaulted her is what you’re saying.
That's called "assault". You belong in jail.
Dafuq
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